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Some questions you don’t ask

My best friend had a horrible top surgery experience, and his surgeon doesn’t seem to care. He is raising money to get a second opinion and (hopefully) another surgery to fix what his first surgeon did. Anyone can look at these pictures and realize that is NOT right.

So even if you cannot donate, please reblog and share this. My best friend is entirely broken over this and is strongly fighting a deep depression because of it.

He deserves happiness, and was so close to finally reaching it before this happened. I want nothing more than for him to love himself when he sees himself, including with his shirt off.

Thank you in advance for taking the time to read, share, and/or donate!

http://www.gofundme.com/5s6wm6o

bemymonument

PLEASE SHARE, it’s not even just about the money. Eli wants to get the word out and possibly prevent this happening to others!

banana-cake-deactivated20201028

This is…. Absolutely horrendous & unacceptable. Signal boost to get him the care & appearance he deserves!!!!!

stinkyhat-deactivated20231213

According to OP:

The surgeon that did this is Dr. Herman Houin. He works for Henry Ford and this surgery took place at the Fairlane Dearborn location. Eli doesn’t get on tumblr that often, but message me if you guys have any questions/suggestions for anything. Thank you all SO much for the love and support. It means a lot to Eli and means a lot to me as well. Just seeing the love and support he is getting is significantly increasing his mood on a day to day basis, which has me so happy. So again, thank you all!

softtitlita

I don’t know if this is too personal (feel free to delete if so) but do you have an IUD? I read the tags on your post about your cramps, and it sounds a lot like the cramps I get because of mine. For me, electric blankets and Icyhot really help! Also, naproxen/muscle relaxers > ibuprofen. I hope you feel better soon, Lita ❤️

It’s not too personal at all! I honestly love talking about things like this and sharing and listening to everyone’s different experiences!

I have specifically have nexplanon.

I got on birth control to help with my already bad cramps and to help with how bad my depression gets when I’m on my period. I honestly hoped that this would cause my period to stop.

Since I gotten on birth control my period has gotten worse, my depression on my period has gotten a lot worse, my cramps were already bad( like I couldn’t move cramps) and now it feels like I have someone kicking and punching my vagina and I’m in pain for hours.

First three months I would have my period non-stop for two weeks.

Last month (June) I had my period not once but twice.

I have to wait a year before I’m able to get it removed so I gotta deal with it.

brainywendigo-deactivated202602

Oh, fuck. I was on nexplanon for a year, and I bled every day. I’m sorry you have to deal with that 😭

softtitlita

I wish I would have gone with a different choice tbh

littledarlingdahlia

I had to have mine taken out in February because I bled for a month straight ☹ the doctors don't tell you about those side effects

illusionwaltz

How well do you see color?

I’m cry I scored 60, I feel blind

batter666-deactivated20180822

so everyone is aware, a lower score on this means a better score.

thegaybeany

I got a 30!!!!!!!! Yes!

blinkingkills

7, but i’m an art student so

amemoryatbest

2, I don’t have one artistic bone in my body.

littledarlingdahlia

theropegeek

photoshop services

fun fact: i’m actually pretty fuckin good at photoshop.

i can remove pesky background distractions, untucked clothing tags, your friend who photobombed you, tattoos you want to censor for privacy reasons, moles or scars you’d prefer not to see, etc.

so if you have a photo you like, but there’s one or two things driving you nuts about it, DM me for a quote.

as an introductory offer: if i think i can do it in 5 minutes or less, the price will be $1.

(and, i can do a *lot* in 5 minutes)

-RG

fuckscooter

we need carbs and we need fats and we need proteins and honestly fuck diet culture for normalizing malnourishment

historicallyinnacurate

People commenting on this saying we don’t need sugars don’t know how the human body works

littledarlingdahlia

I lived a year on a very low carb diet, so no, you don't necessarily NEED carbs (complex or otherwise), unless you have diabetes or other sorts of medical issues. Honestly, a low carb diet worked GREAT for me and my mental health. I went off (with permission by my psychiatrist) all my bipolar medication and haven't had to take any since. Turns out my mood swings were very closely linked to my blood sugar rising and falling so much from having to eat carbs constantly. But I'm not saying that that would work for everyone of course.

strangeaangel

a few words on xxxtencion

- he brutally beat a young gay man, with the intent of killing him, in a jail cell where the man had no way of escaping, because the man was staring at him

- he horrifically abused and sexually assaulted his girlfriend, including holding her head under a sink and threatening to drown her

- he beat his girlfriend to the point of blindness while she was pregnant and then used his fans to further intimidate her into not testifying against him

- then later said he wouldn’t change any of his actions.

i am sick of seeing people try to justify his actions and their “r.i.p” posts by saying “his music was good”.

i have empathy for the family and friends who knew him before he was violent and abusive but the man himself deserves no respect. he lost that right because of his actions and karma caught up with him.

the bottom line is death does not automatically give you a free pass from being a horrible person in life.

strangeaangel

if you would like to donate to geneva ayala, the abused woman in question, here is a link to her gofundme. her goal for her surgeries is already met, but she is currently trying to move away from the city to find refuge from the harassment she is facing from her abuser’s fans. she still needs help with living expenses, etc. so please spread the word and consider donating if you are able.

ripe

🌸 @mayapolarbear

p0cket-pup-deactivated20191204

“There’s a reason they call her Boss”

ursweetangel

vengeful-daughter

happy daddy issues day

lavendermuseums

happyunicornjet

Columbia University Student Will Drag Her Mattress Around Campus Until Her Rapist Is Gone

“I think the act of carrying something that is normally found in our bedroom out into the light is supposed to mirror the way I’ve talked to the media and talked to different news channels, etc,” Emma continues in the full video which you can watch here.

So, I just want to go into HOW MUCH Columbia and the NYPD has failed, and revictimized, Emma Sulkowitz.

What I really love about this ‘mattress performance’ is that other students helped her carry her mattress across campus.

All those people reminded her that she didn’t have to carry that weight alone. That’s amazing.

littledarlingdahlia

All the comments say she 'was found to be a liar' but there's no proof whatsoever? So she talked to her rapist after she got raped? I stayed with my boyfriend for a year after he raped me multiple times? People really have no idea how victims minds work.

cloudbbyx

Chub love ✨

amorellamoon-blog

So this is a thing that happened…

Christian Day, a pagan writer and store owner, sent me this love letter after outing my account name on Facebook. Like many people who have an alias on facebook, I have a rather good reason for doing so. (I have a Meatspace stalker, who use to mail me bits of dead things, and threaten my children, because he wanted me to bear only HIS children. It was a living nightmare that I lived for over six months.) Alas… I was not very happy with Mr. Day for this, and told him so.

This screenshot shows his response.

You are not misreading that. He actually said “…if he rapes you, please call out my name while he does.”

Facebook has been less than helpful during all this… As a matter of fact, they have sided with HIM, yanking my post with this screenshot on it, and putting my account on a 24 hour hold for “Harassment.” of Mr. Day.

I have… No real game plan at this point, other than not allowing this to go unseen by the many Pagans on the web. I have had such an outpouring of support from my friends and the general pagan community on facebook that it honestly made me cry. On another note, I have had to un-relax, knowing my stalker is still out there and can find me now. But, I will not back down. This shit IS NOT OK for our so called “Pagan Leaders” to do.

Rock on my Beauties… Pass this along if you wish, repost it everywhere, and let us not allow this “Man” to have a moment peace until he answers for what he has done.

bodaciousbanshee-deactivated202

Dear followers, please reblog this. I want it to spread like wildfire. This guy is a real “Big Name Pagan” a famous published author, and he spent months bullying, harassing and threatening my godmother and her daughter over facebook. He owns a franchise shop here in New Orleans, and has systematically been trying to sow seeds of distention among local witches and their shops in order to cripple competition. He’s blatantly (racistly) disrespected our local Voodoo community on the radio saying that you shouldn’t have to go to Haiti to get initiated because it’s a “dirty place”. If you see his so-called “apology” don’t buy the hype. He is openly sexist, racist and classicist. This is not the first time he’s done something like this, he is not sorry. He needs to be held responsible for his actions.

estrellade

This is fucking sick.

eclecticwitcheryafoot

foresthoney:

He owns two shops, Hex and Omen. HEX is in both Salem, MA and New Orleans, LA and Omen is just in Salem, MA. Avoid him like the plague he is and don’t let him or the people he associates with profit off you (they, Laurie Cabot groupies, own shops in Salem too).

Christian’s at it again.

He threatened to kill a nearby shop owner’s dog (Pumpkin from New England Magic who is ADORABLE) a few years ago out of a nasty feud with the owner, who is SO SWEET! Of course he denied it.

His boyfriend Brian is just as sick when it comes to people who support Lori Bruno (that fucking feud…oh my GOD. Don’t even get me STARTED on that).

Now…this.

He’s a media whore…He actually said this to me. He has no problem admitting this to me. He knows how to cause controversy because “Well, bad publicity is still publicity…The Wicked Witch will still fly!”

This is why I can’t stand Salem now. This sick bullshit.

Seriously, avoid Crow Haven Corner (my experience with this place written about here), Hex, Omen, and Enchanted (my experience written about here) They’re all closely linked with one another because of their relationships with Laurie Cabot.

eclecticwitcheryafoot

Bringing this back as a reminder

decayfeedsthebloom

Yuck. What a vile creature.

poppy-finch

Signal boost like hell! We need to hold dangerous and shitty members of our community accountable for their actions. This asshole is actively putting people and their loved ones in danger for no other reason than he can. Spread the word if you can stand to have this on your blog (no judgment). Speak out against people buying his books or patronizing his shops. Don’t let him get away with this kind of behavior.