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kuromichans-deactivated20241105

My blog is just a guide for them on how to fuck me

Literally

what if you just like idk tied me down and tried out all my toys on me to see which ones make me make the noises you like the best

tarotdaddy3-deactivated20231006

I think many people have a fundamentally wrong idea of how CNC play is supposed to work.

To fit the season we are in I’ll describe CNC as the haunted house of kinky play.

In a haunted house the point is to be surprised and scared. You don’t know what is going to await you in each room and we suspend belief for a bit to pretend that these monsters are real, there is some real danger.

But under that is an agreement we make when we enter the haunted house. The actors won’t hurt us, the gore and monsters aren’t real. The people inside are going to try to scare you but if they see you aren’t having a good time they will back off.

It’s the same with CNC play. It’s something that should be done with someone you know well and who knows you even better.

It’s a blanket of consent that allows the submissive to lose themselves in the experience. To not have to constantly be checked in on over and over by their dom because their dom already knows their limits well, and how hard to push them, and can read very well when they stop having a good time and stop.

It’s a chance to explore scenarios where you wouldn’t actually want to be in. It’s the fun of someone pretending to kidnap you but you know deep down you are safe. It’s the fun of playing with multiple partners like you are being overcome against your will but the whole group is in on your limits and desires and is facilitating that for you.

CNC is never supposed to be to abuse someone. Or have an opportunity to hurt someone without their consent. It’s play, a show, an experience that’s a bit deeper and more involved than your ordinary sexual encounters. But it’s always for the enjoyment of both the dom and sub to fulfill their fantasies in a way that is always safe and consensual.

little-ponys-deactivated2026010

Making someone cum is better than cumming.

tattoovonbeardy

I think men hanging their heads off the edge of a bed so their ladies can fuck their face should be more of a thing

katsdom

A little extra comment. in various sex acts and positions, we tend to equate being more active/being on top with dominance and to equate being more passive/being on the bottom with submission. And it does look that way. But sometimes, I get tired of being the "active" person. Sometimes I'm feeling lazy and I just want to relax and make her do more of the work. I'm still very much in charge, very much calling the shots. Sometimes it's just fun to lie back, relax, and tell her to rub her cunt over my beard.

slvtforyourdad-deactivated20230

I am an awkward mix of shy and slutty and no one gets it.

bouncinghedgehoghasattitude

choco-bite

un-father

She lets me use her as a toy because I value and respect her as a human being.

the-blue-fairie

Original comic by Rasenth

ebenana

Leelah Alcorn was a trans girl, a teenager, who sadly committed suicide nearly 10 years ago. I'm happy that her comic touches the hearts of so many people, years after her death.

I saved screenshots of her blog and last message to the world. Her parents had a lot of control over how she was perceived after her death, but it was also to prevent deletion by Tumblr itself. Even back then, Tumblr has been shadow banning trans women on this platform.

My heart goes out to all trans women who are struggling with society's expectations of who they are supposed to be and who they are allowed to be. May you find peace, growth, and respite from whatever you're going through. You deserve happiness, most of all. Thank you for living, thank you for being here with us.

decepticonsensual

I was just thinking about how important it is to have authors (both fan and professional) with whom I feel... safely unsafe, if that makes sense.

Like, this is going to hurt, there are going to be things that happen to these characters that I absolutely Do Not Want to happen, but I trust you and I trust this ride.

decepticonsensual

@prosocialbehavior you're right and you should say it.

Seriously, this is the philosophy of kink. And theatre. And tabletop RPGs. And rollercoasters.

"I want to experience the emotions of a situation that would be unsafe in real life, but in a safe, make-believe environment, and I need someone I trust to help create that and hold me through it," is a surprisingly common and very powerful thing.

katsdom

Small funny example in the last reblog of abbreviations with multiple meanings. Around here, an RPG is a role playing game. But, in other circles, an RPG is a rocket propelled grenade and having one of those on your table top is DEFINITELY unsafe.