Little Miss

Submissive & Bratty Here to write about my 24/7 d/s relationship. 25 years old

[ayyildiz]

[hex-urge]

"You've been independent all day... let's dumb you down now..." 💕

[drkthoughts-k]

Need someone to tie me up and bend me over their lap, gently working me open, using lots of lube and spreading my holes, playing with my insides while I squirm uselessly on their lap. Grabbing different toys to stretch me more and more until I'm a whiny mess begging to stop cuz it's enough

[roughribo]

Making her shake her head yes to increasingly humiliating questions because I have a tight hold on her hair would fix me. Might fix her too.

[roughribo]

Spanking her hard over your lap as you ask her over and over "Which time do you obey me??"

Her squirming and mewling and tearing up and pleading as her ass grows redder "The first time! I obey you the first time you tell me!"

[roughribo]

Fucking their face, occasionally almost pulling them off of my cock to give them the false sense of getting to have a full breath of air. But nope, just a half-breath or barely getting any air before I start pounding into their mouth like a cunt again. I could care less whether or not I get to cum, as long as I get to edge her with her own oxygen like I would edge her clit, I'm wholly satisfied. Keep trying baby, maybe next time you'll get oxygen/orgasm. That's it hun, keep trying. That's the part that brings me joy, you suffering to earn it. You want to breathe again don't you? You ever want to cum again? Then suffer for me.

[apollosunn-moved-deactivated202]

anyone else relate

[midnightclover]

[boomer-mythology-destroyer]

[ladynoe-l]

@strid3rofthen0rth

[strid3rofthen0rth]

I'm certifiiably the 9th worst woodworker on the planet.

[angelexile]

when you send him a little selfie and his reply is “very fucking breakable” 🥺

[no-longer-another-bondi-blonde]

[roughribo]

One of the things I love about my control kink is how calming it can be. I have a total power exchange relationship (tpe) with my sub, and being able to focus on controlling them and controlling whatever our current situation is while they focus on obeying me can be very calming. I'm not worrying if the task I've assigned them won't get done because I know I set them up for success. At the same time, they're not worried, they know they've been set up to succeed and they've put total trust in me to lead them.

It can be almost nirvanic and zen-like for them to just obey, no thinking involved. Meanwhile I'm at ease because I'm in control and can adjust as needed. Control and obedience, a great way to be happy together and experience a heightened sense of calm as a couple.

[princesswitchlatte]

[eldesvandesheyenne]

[moonlights-smile]

Turn that girl into the prettiest little house pet

[nando161mando]

They aren't wrong

[yeesiine]

[hcnnibal]

just got back into gardening so i’ve forgotten. are basil leaves supposed to be this big

[hcnnibal]

am i the problem

[mousegirlheart]

op are you a hobbit

[dorcha-aer2315]

op what on god's green earth is in your soil?

[roughribo]

I love the idea of preemptive punishments so much. As the dom of an ultra obedient sub, I almost never get to use all of the creative ideas I have for punishments because she's so very well-behaved. She does what she's told the first time without fail 99.999% of the time. Honestly it's great, I wouldn't want her any other way. When a punishment is needed, it's practically an anomaly.

But if your sub is a masochist, you could always just... do the punishment to them. It's enrichment for a painslut, so make them suffer regularly. However I've found the vibes for punishment style activities can feel off sometimes and I'm not always in the mood for that style of pain play. It can lack a certain righteous je ne sais quois that a punishment has.

That's where preemptive punishments come in. You're not punishing them because you think they will be bad. You're just giving a guided tour of the immense downside that would happen to them if they were to disobey. Aww, you don't want to stand on one foot in the corner sucking on a bar of soap for 10 minutes? Too bad, keep balancing, I want you to know the true taste of disobedience so you can properly appreciate how much better it feels to be an obedient, well-behaved rule follower of mine. And feeling what the consequences could be for them if they were to misbehave inspires better attention to detail and more enthusiastic service.

The only trick is you absolutely have to punish them if, on the rare occasion, they mess up. They know what they'll get for misbehavior and any leniency will feel like they're not being held accountable, like you're not as in control as they thought and that cognitive dissonance is very unpleasant to them. So make sure to follow through swiftly and strictly to maintain the power dynamic and regulate their emotions. Per esempio:

"You knew what the punishment was and you still failed. Hold these weights with both arms held out wide while you balance on one foot with soap in your mouth. Only I can say when you can stop and balance on the other foot."