Lavender | 🏳️‍⚧️

he/they/it | mid-20s | nonbinary transmasc femboy | sub | i follow from my main blog | 18+ minors DNI | 💖asks open! 💖

[lookatlavender]

my boyfriend and I have been practicing shibari occasionally, are there any ties people recommend us to learn? for fun, for function, whatever 💖

also i have multiple pairs of safety scissors, so no worries there

[lookatlavender]

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[tyjrose]

[dumbpuppyfag]

if your economy requires the free-use puppysubs to get jobs then your economy is a failure. that dog should be at home ripping a bong and jerking off, not this. never this.

[lookatlavender]

being in a relationship is so much more complex than i could have ever imagined. and I always knew that was the case, because I had never experienced one until now.

but actually experiencing it all first hand is so different than i expected. I’m realizing im rigid in a lot of ways I don’t need to be. and Im also learning when to advocate for myself and tell him what the issue is and how it’s affecting me.

i never understood before how couples could fight and then come back together and still want it. but i’m realizing now when you love a person like that it’s a completely different ballgame. and the moments after the fight are often times so much more important than the fight itself.

I hope I get to keep learning with him 💖

[11hp]

[zeninsama-archive]

pussy slapping is so hot to me i love when their hand is large enough to completely cover your cunt and they show you absolutely no mercy

[angel-in-your-basement]

You should hold your sub’s head down on your cock. I promise, they love it. They love having your cock down their throat. The longer you hold them down there, the better! Don’t worry about them hitting and pushing against your legs, that’s just encouragement! And don’t worry about the tears, they’re just so happy to be serving you! They like it down there, I guarantee it. They’ll be sooooo happy when you let them breathe. Make sure they say thank you, and then do it all over again!

[evilrandy]

hey can you sit on my lap? don't grind or anything, just stay still. yeah, you can touch me, but just above the shoulders. sure, brace yourself, hang onto them. i'll just keep my hands on your hips for a second, maybe rub some circles into you through your bottoms since you won't have those on much longer if you do what i want you to. you wanna be touched there, don't you? so you'll do what i ask? what would you do, right now, to be touched? don't answer that. just open your mouth. wider. let me put my fingers in here. you know how warm it is in here? have you ever felt this? it's sort of like a pussy if you close your eyes and just take in that warmth. this inner part of your cheek where you nervously chew at. see, you're suckin me deeper, just like a cunt would. here's another. three fingers is a lot, isn't it? it's okay, i won't let you choke or gag, i know that's unpleasant. you're so warm though and it just gets warmer to further i push in. you're really swallowing me down, do you want another? no? well, it feels like you do. you're drooling a little, did you notice that? sorry, i can't understand you anymore, you're just gargling around my fingers. might as well have another. that's four now and you're still coaxing them deeper with your slutty throat. that stretch must be a lot--you look kinda stupid stuffed with my fingers like this. and moaning like you're actually being fingered? i think you like this more than you wanna admit. i don't care if it's gross, if it's embarrassing, and it doesn't seem like your body cares either. i'm pushing in a little more and you're just staring dumbly at me. do you even feel yourself tearing up? don't answer that, you look too good like this.

[intramomnition]

its one of those days. guards? put me in a mating press

[princess-momkisser]

so I looked up my symptoms in the bDSM-5 and it said I'm a pervert

[marlborocrow]

btw when a person tells you they usually don’t cum or have a hard time with it, pushing them to cum (“come on, baby, cum for me!” “are you close?” “i want to make you cum” etc) makes it less likely for them to cum and will in fact make them feel very pressured and have less fun because they now feel like you’re not going to have fun if they don’t cum.

the goal for sex isn’t to cum. the goal of sex is to enjoy yourselves. you can have fun without orgasms. orgasms are a bonus. stop treating sex like it’s not good enough if your partner doesn’t climax.

[prettyfvckpls]

Don't just ask them to cum... ask them what feels best and try combos to see if you can help them reach that point instead AND DONT PRESSURE THEM IF THEY STILL CANT???

[lookatlavender]

they call me hell’s kitchen the way i’m FUCKING RAW

[the-sensitive-sadist]

Fingering your mouth and making you gag until your face is covered in spit and your eyes are filled with tears while I stretch that pretty little hole on my cock.

[godlikedyke]

essentially all I’m saying is that you need to be less afraid of being a pervert. You have to train and practice the pervert muscles in your heart so they can grow strong. Literally everyone is a pervert about certain things and many people still think they’re perverts for chill regular things like being gay because their upbringing has left them with atrophied senses of sex. We solve both of these problems at once by encouraging burgeoning pervertedness at every step of the way and ensuring people do not feel like they have to hide it under lip service to norms

[lookatlavender]

hey ms amoxicillin you don’t actually have to give me a yeast infection every time

[konoko]