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@lordeofwisdom
Have you heard? You were supposed to be taught as a child that you don't need to be perfect for any reason and definitely not to earn love, and that it's human and even fun to make mistakes. Have you also heard? You can learn this still even if childhood taught you to fear failure to the point of debilitating paralysis and self-hatred. Have you heard? There's still time. Have you heard? I love you, stay safe out there.
today i overheard a girl say "no, f*ck that. i will be lovely to everyone. maybe some people will remember they have a heart."
Twilight by Artem Chebokha on Instagram
seeing the photos from Webb up against photos from Hubble just makes me… I don’t even know like, wow! Look at that!
most common abuser way to get away with abusing you is to convince you they’re not abusing you
If you have to speculate if someone loves you and wants to be with you, chances are they don’t. It’s not that complicated. Don’t waste moments waiting and wondering. Don’t throw away your time dreaming of someone who doesn’t want you. No one is that amazing, and certainly not someone who would pass you up.
Donna Lynn
priscilla.abji.therapy ~ Instagram
Spend less time trying to make yourself interesting and more time trying to make yourself happy, and I think you'll find that you're truly and deeply one of the weirdest fucking creatures alive (as is everybody else).
Like, once you stop trying to amplify the "bizarre but marketable" aspects of yourself and realllllllly get in there and find what makes you you, then and only then can you really begin to freak out your parents big-time.
Teaching children to always obey adults is grooming them for abuse.
Teaching children to accept unwanted physical contact (spanking, required hugs and kisses from family, required sitting on Santa's lap, etc) is grooming them for abuse.
Teaching children to take "mature" as a compliment and "immature" as an insult is grooming them for abuse.
Ignoring children's struggles, which could cause them to idolize the first adult who listens to them, is grooming them for abuse.
And people who do that on a regular basis believe that teaching children that some people have two dads is grooming. They never actually cared about protecting children from grooming.
furthermore i truly believe you should eat a meal before making any big choices, confrontations, vents, etc. i promise 100% of the time you will feel better and more balanced with food in your stomach. you should never do anything that will have consequences on anything less than a full stomach
love how the "superpowers" gained via reality jumping are explicitly from other versions of you. it's not like pressing a big, green "download kung fu" button, every skill was explicitly, lovingly cultivated over a lifetime. sure, that life may be ridiculous, but it's indelibly YOURS. you're not becoming stronger but borrowing your own strength from another world
Everything, Everywhere, All at Once (2022)
when the just some guy version of waymond wang said, “you tell me that it’s a cruel world, and we’re all just running around in circles. I know that. I’ve been on this earth just as many days as you. when I choose to see the good side of things, I’m not being naive. it is strategic and necessary. it’s how I’ve learned to survive through everything. I know you see yourself as a fighter. well, I see myself as one too. this is how I fight.”
"nothing matters so do what you love and be kind" is the single most viscerally impactful message i have ever gleaned from consuming media and i'm going to live every day with that kind of hopepunk nihilism for the rest of my life
Surrender is easiest when you are mindful and first notice the stirrings of resistance inside.
“This shouldn’t be happening to me.”
“Not again.”
“I knew it.”
“Why does this always happen to me?”
These are just some of the initial reactions that lead to patterns of resistance. Paradoxically, it is often those very patterns of resistance that cause the same occurrences to continually cycle.
When you notice resistance begin to arise, breathe. Be present. Don’t ask yourself if you like this moment or circumstance. Don’t ask yourself if you approve of it.
Inquire into what this moment and this challenge is asking if you. And then meet it in the most direct, courageous, and graceful manner available to you.
You will not regret it.
Daily meditation and continual mindfulness practice is what prepares you to accomplish this when it takes you by surprise in the moment.
We continue to fail until we don’t. Be patient and forgiving with yourself and with others.
“When the ‘fight or flight’ response fails to protect us, it increases our chances of becoming traumatized. One of the body’s most basic responses for survival has failed, leaving us with no options but to shut down, or play dead. The more that our fight of flight response fails to keep us safe, for example, after repeated or re-occurring traumas, the less effective it is. The brain begins to learn that 'fight or flight’, one of your body’s most basic ways to keep you alive, is failing. Fight or flight is not effective, and therefore will immediately revert to most basic and final survival mechanism, to play dead and surrender. This means, you dissociate.”
— -DissociaDID
