Lost Forest Witch

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️💖 she/her, 30s. I love nature, music and most likely you too. very easily flustered. i pretty much just reblog stuff, mutuals ask for disc 🥰

[witchpassing]

[white-knuckling a submachine gun] i'm never puppy stressed when i do my puppy best

[missstrogen]

At some point you're going to find that every tgirl you know will have an accusation of rape or some other horrible things levied upon her. Then you have two choices

You can decide that all trans women must truly then be horrible and dangerous monsters

Or you can understand that that's how transmisogyny works, and that these acusations are false and overblown, for the purpose of harming trans women

If you try to pick a third option or a middle path, you will invariably end up on the first.

[mythawolf]

And she wonders why people hate her?

[villainessbian]

sex criminal j k rowling bullies amnesty international into retracting unbiased report about genocidal risks, after paying for the manufacture of a scottish devolution crisis over the same issue

[puppetpile]

hi everyone, puppet again, 5th day in a row getting terminated.

as always, it and its partner are homeless and disabled trans women living purely off donations from tumblr as they keep terminating us both every single day, and we still badly need support as we're going to be fully on the streets again in less than a month. please keep reblogging this aid post, and its paypal is here. anything would be greatly appreciated.

tumblr keeps killing it for begging but we really need a place to stay, n only have less than a month ago to look. please help us find somewhere to go or hell if you live in Seattle, please >-< its so scared..

remember, puppet loves you ! itll always be here for you

[tainbocuailnge]

"we're all faggots in the eyes of the state" okay but the state recognises different category of "faggot" where one is "idiot womanchildren with delusions of grandeur" and another is "subhuman predators that must be excised from society posthaste" like neither are a great way to treat another human being but can we pleeeeeeease acknowledge the difference here

[tainbocuailnge]

"stop queer infighting we're all-" okay so is this actually queer infighting or did a trans woman describe her lived experience in a way you didn't like

[estrogenerational-trauma]

if ur a girl and a loser I love you

[estrogenerational-trauma]

daily affirmations 💜

[girlfailure-poetics]

“if transfeminists weren’t so mean, more people would agree with them” and other Rush Limbaugh lines that are shockingly common beliefs on tumblr

[caffeinewitchcraft]

A 75 yo man proudly came into the cafe wearing an Ultra Maga hat. I excused my barista from the register to handle the transaction.

"The hat is customizable," he said, struggling with the velcro patch on the front. "If I need it, I have an ICE one too. I pick based off the business i walk into."

"Customizable is an important hat descriptor," I said. "what can I get you?"

"You wouldn't believe how offended people get these days," he said. "And I'm supposed to do something about it if you're offended? You chose to be offended!"

"We all have hundreds of thousands of decisions everyday," I said. I thickened my accent. "That's what my stepdad always said. But I can make one easier - we have a delicious Ethiopian roast available."

"Like if I told you you have a bull ring," he said, "because bulls have rings in their noses. Is that offensive?"

I laughed. "I've heard that before."

"It's a joke, but people get offended. Maybe you're offended."

I looked at him. I smiled. "You aren't trying to offend me though, right?"

Of course he was. I was being friendly and the friendlier I was, the faster he switched topics. He was saying anything inflammatory he could think of to see if I'd take the bait. After about 20 minutes of my redirecting and deescalating, he settled into a more normal interaction. He took up too much of my time showing me a product I'd feigned mild interest in to get him to stop talking about getting accused of inappropriate behavior at work. When we finally disengaged, he spent 10 minutes trying to catch my eye again. When he failed, he left.

There's this new breed of customer who insists on trying to incite political conversation through their clothing and, when that doesnt work, their snide little comments. If I owned my own business, maybe I would have given the guy the fight he wanted. But I work for a corporation and I love paying my bills so I deescalated.

Anyone wearing that type of shit and preying on workers for their own spank bank material is a brainless fucking sheep.

[headedoutleft]

something i want to mention because i’ve seen it growing as a trend online is that not only do people do this just for their own gratification, but watch for glasses. smart glasses are a growing segment of the consumer market, and creeps like this are harassing people in public in order to gather content without the victims being aware they’re being filmed

good job on how you handled it, op!

[queen-mihai]

I'm stuck renting a tiny cabin in the town where I live because I've gotten turned down by every prospective house rental that I've applied to since AUGUST

I make good money. I've paid my rent on time. But still every single place either turns me down or doesn't even respond when I reach out.

I can afford every single rental house on the market today and still since August not a single one has offered a rental contract.

It's not money.

It's gotta be something else.

Could it be the 20 false noise complaints that I received? Where I had to HIRE A LAWYER to get the homeowner to stop?

Could it be that I'm American? I speak Norwegian, I live like a Norwegian. I do my best to make Norwegian friends and enjoy life in Norway. I've spoken nothing but good about Norway but still every single place I apply to takes one look at me and turns me away

Half of these places are STILL ON THE MARKET. SINCE AUGUST

They would rather let the place rot than rent to me

I wonder what the problem is.

Oh yeah maybe it's just the fact that I'm black and transgender

Or maybe just black.

[rainbowgod666]

...

Are you fr.

[imbada-tnami]

It's worth pulling this out of the tags because you're right.

Frustration does not begin to cover it

[queen-mihai]

Not gonna list details but it's still happening.

"We're just worried that you might not fit with the rest of the people"

What. Does. THAT. Mean.

Also I'm not moving IN with anybody. I'm renting MY OWN PLACE. This is some serious 1950s garbage

[queen-mihai]

By the way, this just happened now.

[queen-mihai]

New house on the market. Sent a very friendly introduction message. Let's see if they answer or if they just happen to not see it as have so many others

[queen-mihai]

That house answered. We'll see in the coming days/ weeks I guess.

In the meantime I applied for emergency housing. There's a whole application that you can go through with the government.

NAV (Basically the Norwegian government) calls me today.

"We don't have any houses we can give you in an emergency"

Then why

THE FUCK

Do you have an application

FOR EMERGENCY HOUSING!?

[queen-mihai]

And I'm not blind to the fact that their questions seemed to be VERY SPECIFICALLY aimed at trying to force someone to say that they're not trying hard enough.

"What type of houses have you been looking at?"

"In what areas have you been looking?"

"How big of a house are you expecting?"

Are you serious?

This. Is an

Emergency

Your only concern is whether I'm being too picky? You have NO INTENTION OF HELPING

[queen-mihai]

Let me rephrase that last segment

I'm in an emergency and their only concern is trying to FORCE me to look like I'm being picky

[queen-mihai]

Update for those who care

So I'm technically homeless for the time being. But luckily, as some of you will have guessed, I do have people that care about me and want me to have a place to stay, and one of them happens to be my partner.

He lives quite a distance away, but it's drivable, and my time of being technically homeless is temporary, since I did sign a lease for a new place.

The government called me again, and while they still didn't have a place for me to lay my head, they did offer me information on financial assistance so I don't go broke between now and when I can move into my new place.

They also pointed me in the direction of an organization that can help me in another way as well. That one, I need to keep a bit close to the vest until something real materializes.

And I successfully moved out of my house. 3 days from a fully livable house to completely empty, and I did the job ALONE.

The queen is maybe just a little bit of a badass.

Anyway I'm still organizing, cleaning, adjusting, and preparing for the long drive to go see my boyfriend. I think this, a few days ago, is the lowest I've been in a long time. And now I'm bouncing back. Not because everybody was so nice (although my boyfriend is a life saver. And, at least at present, my new landlord seems pretty wonderful) but because I've continuously worked my ass off and got done what needed to be done.

I do have kind people in my life. And I know they care about me. They're helping me bounce back in a very big way and I'll always appreciate it.

I love yall

[queen-mihai]

I

Never

Wanted

To

Update

This

Again

.......*sigh*

So my doctor is now refusing to send in a new sick leave certificate

My boss is blaming me for not getting it

NAV basically says they can't do shit without it

And I'm sitting here with every piece of my legal status on a precipice with one person standing in the way of me actually being able to live

Good news? I got notice that I might finally get my green card

Complicated news? That means the process isn't over and I still need to be extremely careful how I proceed and not rock any boats so that I can secure my legal status in the country where I live.

Shitty news? My doctor lied and said NAV was refusing to let her update my sick leave

My boss is pissy because the certificate hasn't been filed (I GET THAT!)

And NAV is basically saying they're helpless until the next meeting

They say I could apply for money but again, as I explained above, I don't want to get fucking deported. I'll get shot the instant my black, transgender ass walks out of the airport! It's a fucking death sentence and everybody involved is treating it like "meh...I guess if you don't want to get shot in America you can starve in Norway"

Nevermind the fact that all my bills are behind AGAIN because this is the second time they've just refused to release my sick pay. It's basically the last month of actual sick pay that I'm even going to get and my damn doctor is standing in the way and LYING saying that she couldn't do the form, when NAV says she could.

These people I swear to God

I need to sell ten million books so I never have to rely on people like this ever again. Honesty? Professionalism? Kindness? No no no. Lies, shifting blame, and force is what is used by the people I interact with in Norway

[queen-mihai]

Hey guess what I have to update again.

I hate this post, I really do. Every time I need to touch it, I'm in a harsh, tenuous, "my life could be absolutely fucked if I don't beg the world for help" type of position.

And I'm there again.

So first the good news

I was lucky enough to find a new place

"But Mihai you found a place to live"

Yeah the landlord's bank isn't letting her keep the place and she can't sell it with me in it. She needed me to buy it or move out so she could sell it. I'm... not happy about it but I'm past blaming her for it. I'm neutral about the whole thing now, just taking the steps to move out.

So

I was very lucky and found a new place quickly this time. No 1.5 months of getting turned away or looked at like some alien like last year. I actually got a beautiful place and the owner seems wonderful and lovely.

I can afford it on my income but moving in here is gonna cost more than I expected. Meaning I need to put my ego aside and beg. I literally need to beg for donations because trying to sell books means the money might arrive in my bank next month, or the month after; and I'm gonna be hurting starting basically now.

Any amount helps. Literally anything. The more donations come in, the bigger problems I can tackle without starving to death or having one of the nicest people I've recently met have to kick me out on the street

I'm gonna set my donation goal at $1800 because that's how much bigger the deposit was than I was expecting and putting that money down is gonna hurt bad.

If yall want me to, I can make a new post that I will update maybe like once a day or something so yall know how I'm doing

Buy Queen Mihai a Coffee

Become a supporter of Queen Mihai today!

I appreciate yall. And with some hope, I'll never have to update this post again. I really want to leave this chapter of my life behind. Constantly being forced to relocate is HELL on my soul and while I'm also trying to shift into writing as my full-time work, this absolutely does not help to keep my focus on creating a universe you all can enjoy or helping bring peace to Palestine or ridding the world of dictators. I really want to help, but right now I need help myself

Please

And thank you. Thank you all

[queen-mihai]

Somebody reblogged this and you know what? Fuck it. It's genuinely close enough. I have my new place and it's nice and it's pretty and I'm getting settled in, but €1800 a month is a freaking lot

Please keep in mind that

1. This was the only thing on the market that could fit me and my kids

And

2. Rent prices have gone down pretty significantly, for me to be able to afford what I'm getting for this price.

That being said, my unemployment is nowhere near what my sick pay was. Absolutely nowhere near. I'm in this place where basically every month I'm going to be falling significantly behind no matter what I do unless I sell a fuckload of books or beg the internet for donations. Or most realistically both.

Now on the good side, a few people have bought books. Two people who, to this point, owned books but hadn't read them, have started reading. One has read both books and one is almost through "Meet Annabella"

And happily, the reviews from them are great! Probably gonna recommend. Yall may see reviews coming soon. I'm sure I'll be blushing myself into Mihai soup

And I just shipped two books to someone who has a fairly enormous following. If they have a similar experience to others who have read these books, there may be a day soon where I'm getting a lot more orders

But that day hasn't come yet

And there's no guarantee it ever will

But I can guarantee the bills will keep coming

It's the most expensive time of the year and it's tight for everyone; which is why I'm asking for this support.

I desperately want to be the one GIVING support at this time of the year.

Maybe if enough people fall in love with The Master's Quest, I will be next year

Thank you all in advance

[queen-mihai]

I have to revive this post again.

Because like....................

First off, thank yall. I never want it to seem like I'm ungrateful. You've saved me in ways I never thought possible.

But this world seems dead set on killing me and taking me from you.

I'm about to get my electricity cut off. I paid one of my electric bills. Turns out it wasn't 3 months and me getting caught up. No no. It was one month.

I paid my phone bill. Thought that was paid up to date too. It's not. They're about to cut my phone off too.

The only thing left is my rent and I don't even have enough money for that.

Norway and Molde, especially all these bill companies, are just bound and determined to see me die on the street. I've done everything I can. I've used up my savings, I've begged yall. Yall have even revived my donation links FOR me and yet, at this moment, these companies choose to hit me even harder.

€1700 for the electric bill I thought I had paid

€200 for the phone bill I thought I had paid

I DID pay these things. But apparently just nowhere near enough

And another €1800 for my rent that comes due on the 1st. It's the only thing I'm current on.

Yall have been wonderful, sharing my book links everywhere. There's even been a few people who have placed my flyers on bulletin boards around the world. But the orders aren't coming in. I'm too unknown. Nobody knows who I am and they, understandably, don't want to spend €32 on a book they've never heard of by some author they've never heard of.

I mean, I get it

The problem is, that very normal reality is killing me.

Mostly because of these companies and their fucking disgusting practices.

I've been fighting so hard for so long

It just keeps getting worse and worse. Every time I make a bit of headway, pay off all the bills, get caught up, and start to save... this world smacks me down harder than ever before and I end up lower than the lowest I've ever been.

I'm sorry yall. I don't know what else to do.

I would say donate if you can, but this is THOUSANDS of euro, thousands of dollars at this point. Even if yall weren't burned out from me asking you, I'm not sure yall would be able to donate enough to make a dent in this bullshit.

It's not your fault. I appreciate yall. I'm really only making this because if I go tell someone the world is crushing me; I don't want them to be able to say that I didn't try.

Thank you so much.

I love yall

[queen-mihai]

Buy Queen Mihai a Coffee

Become a supporter of Queen Mihai today!

I still need a lot of help, please. At least until I can get my phone turned back on

€0 raised of €240 needed

[queen-mihai]

Look at the timing.

June 2024 "thank you for letting me be me"

October 2024 "I'm in danger of becoming homeless"

DO YOU SEE IT?

[bitchautism]

here's two articles about how JK Rowling just posted on X an upskirt photo of Freda Wallace, a transgender woman, after deadnaming her and misgendering her repeatedly online.

JK Rowling deadnamed and posted 'upskirt' photo of trans woman on X

The wealthy author escalated a social media spat that resulted in posting a photo from a 2023 event at the Institute of Economic Affairs in

JK Rowling posts upskirt image of trans woman while begging to debate her - LGBTQ Nation

Rowling posted the picture taken from below because the trans woman, she said, was "refusing to debate me."

[sailatina3]

Thank you for posting without the fucking destiel meme

[crypticarchivist]

So in summation; Rowling demanded access to a woman’s time and when she couldn’t get it she retaliated by posting an upskirt image of her and called her fat, and some of her fans even went “I think I can see her genitals”.

She literally went “debate me! Debate me!” Over and over like the grifter she is and when she couldn’t get what she wanted and when “no” wasn’t enough she resorted to retaliatory sex-pestery, posting an image of somebody’s body with intention to shame and embarrass and spawn more waspish tittering from her internet followers.

Rowling is trash and this is disgraceful behavior, in case anyone has forgotten.

[shabby-blog]

She had also claimed Freda "deserved" this sexual harassment because of what she was wearing... You know... The same excuse used over and over to try and justify rape.

[villainessbian]

J K Rowling committed a sex crime against a trans woman (specifically, violating the Sexual Offences Act 2003)

(1) A person (A) commits an offence if—

(a) A intentionally shares a photograph or film which shows, or appears to show, another person (B) in an intimate state, (b) B does not consent to the sharing of the photograph or film, and (c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents.

(2) A person (A) commits an offence if—

(a) A intentionally shares a photograph or film which shows, or appears to show, another person (B) in an intimate state, (b) A does so with the intention of causing B alarm, distress or humiliation, and (c) B does not consent to the sharing of the photograph or film.

[dumbtrannybitch]

she needs to go to prison for this

[cryptotheism]

If staff reformed the ban system to stop banning trans women and used the resulting good will to re-introduce pornography, this site would become a juggernaut. It would swallow Twitter whole.

[glazeliights]

[transfemme-char-aznable]

staff hates trans women so much they'll sink this website over it

[princncess]

porn is bad because [christian talking point] and [alt-right study] and [misunderstood neurochemistry] and of course [feature of capitalism]

[princncess]

thank you SO MUCH for reminding me about [feature of patriarchy] and [problem caused by lack of kids' sex ed] random tumblr user in the notes! louder for those in the back!

[fantaboy91]

The adult content warning on this post is really just the icing on the cake

[normalest-lux-ever]

Fun fact for anyone who does this, being a misogynistic man isn't funny just because you're trans or you think the idea of treating trans women like women is inherently funny, how funny do you think she finds your "ironic" misogyny when you punch down on the women that don't have cis privilege over you

[strawberry-crocodile]

also no one says it but the punchline of "trans inclusive misogyny" is almost always the implicit assumption that transfeminine people do not actually experience misogyny in our day-to-day life. thats why its considered humorous and acceptable to do, rather than just being. misogyny against women.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

it shows their absolutely vile views on womenhood as a whole and also their views on specifically trans women.

on women in general, it shows that they think misogyny is deserved, natural even, so much so that it is the default way that all people interact with women. if you exist as a woman, at any possible moment, you can and should be subject to misogyny, and thats normal.

on trans women specifically, it shows they don't actually see us as women. they think we aren't subjected to misogyny on a daily basis. they think we dont experience this behavior already, when it's not as they refer to as a "joke". they think that like themselves, no one in the world could possibly see us as actual women.

therefore, when we are subjected to misogyny, it should be "affirming". its someone briefly winking and nodding at us, saying "ill pretend you're a woman, get back in the kitchen and make me a sandwich". its the belief that they're doing us a favor, that they're being trans positive, even. they think its the same as calling us pretty. after all, they're momentarily treating us the same way they treat every other women.

the worst part is that they're partially right. it can actually feel slightly gender affirming the first time a stranger says your tits look great. but its not as fun the second time. or the third. or the 50th. or the 1000th. they are right, i would rather be called a cunt or a bitch rather than a tranny or an autogynophile. but id much rather not be called any of that. it can feel nice the first time a man hits on you because he finds you attractive (aka fresh meat), instead of hitting you for not being man enough. it gets old real quick having to cover my drink around literally everyone.

people think trans women aren't subjected to misogyny, and that they can be gender affirming by being misogynistic, something that comes so naturally to them that they already do it to all women. but they don't realize that trans women experience transmisogyny - that we suffer through every single thing a cis woman suffers through on a daily basis, and worse on top of that for daring to exist at all.

[miralyth]

a few weeks ago my girlfriend got called a whore by a homeless woman on the street. she was wearing a full body dress. when she got home we thought it was funny and that she must have seen a panty line through it or something (there wasn't anything we could really see.) 2 days ago she wore the same dress to work and when she got home she asked me if I could see a panty line through it. after another inspection turned nothing up, she said something along the lines of "well, at least she gendered me correctly..."

back when i lived in florida with my parents, my dad and i went to the store to get some pool supplies. on our way back to the car there was an old guy who said something (i can't remember what exactly, i think it was something about swimming) and gave me an updown before i was able to turn to face him. i didnt notice at the time but my dad told me in the car. i felt simultaneously validated and repulsed and it was confusing, but looking back on it, it feels like my dad didnt react like he would have if i had been cis.

but sure, trans women don't experience misogyny.

when i was closeted, i convinced my parents to buy me a maid dress that i could wear to a convention (as a joke, definitely, for sure, thats why i borrowed one of my mom's bras and stuffed it with socks and underwear.) while i was going to get in the car my brother stopped in front of me and grabbed my chest and squeezed it. i pushed him off because i felt genuinely uncomfortable and disgusted, and luckily my mom saw it and chewed him out. i have never forgotten this and i have not forgiven him for it either.

even after i came out to my friends in high school, i still regularly had friends who would grab at and grope my chest """as a joke""" and it made me really uncomfortable every time. i told them to stop but they never really listened.

these are just a few personal examples, but my experience is tame compared to the things i have heard that happened to many of my close friends.

[tamamoland-of-destinys-demise]

why is a waist up sketch of a girl kissing another girl's boob considered sexually explicit enough to be hidden but live action animated gifs of the heated rivaly dudes having straight-up full-on anal sex isn't? well, i'm sure you can guess which one is being reblogged by transfems

[tamamoland-of-destinys-demise]

literally that's the determining factor here, without exaggeration

if transfems are reblogging it then the people stalking those transfems for being transfem are going to be reporting it to try to get those transfems terminated and that's why unlabeled live action video of fuckhands mcmike sucking hockey joe's cock fully nude center frame gets a pass but a drawing of two women cuddling gets hidden

[tboy-trash]

straight men enduring 24/7 sexual assault each other in order to not be labeled faggots is honestly the best example of how masculinity operates. the other day before work a coworker fr shoved a finger in another coworker's ass (above pants) as one of their little "ha ha you're gay" jokes. fuck is wrong with them. equal parts disgusted and fascinated by their behaviour.

[tboy-trash]

of course these people are fucked up and unable to hold healthy relationships grounded in mutual respect! they're constantly assaulting and being assaulted by their friends just to Not Be Gay/Like A Girl!!!

[tboy-trash]

the biggest reason men refuse to recognize a lot of what they do to women as sexual harassment/assault is bc of their misogyny and wanting to maintain our power over women, 100%. BUT can i just point out that maybe a smaller but not-insignificant reason might also be that they can't even recognize sexual assault when other men do it to them???? i didn't tell that coworker bc he's an asshole, but i have had to tell other guys at work "hey what they're doing to you is terrible and you shouldn't have to put up with it you know" which most of them hadn't ever been told before because """""roughhousing""""" is part of that "boys will be boys" thing that makes everyone ignore our abuse

[tboy-trash]

"boys will be boys" okay well maybe boys should be shot

[badgersandbees]

Every single non trans woman who proclaims to be an ally absolutely needs to be posting about how goddamn transmisogynist staff is.

Because when trans women dare to speak up for themselves, Tumblr nukes their blogs.

We need to be fucking loud about this, daily, because Tumblr staff is specifically targeting and deleting trans women who are not breaking ToS and who often have fundraisers up FOR THEIR SURVIVAL.

By deleting these blogs repeatedly, Tumblr staff is saying loud and clear what they hope happens to these girls.

Are y'all okay with that? Because if not we need to be posting about it more because we have seen by now it's incredibly fucking unlikely this sites moderation will delete our blogs for it because we are not trans women

Tumblr staff and CEO Matt Mullenweg want trans women in need to not be able to post their fundraisers, meaning they are okay with these women dying.

[autie-j]

Remember when Xbox was going to basically ban used games for the xbox one, and Playstation made fun of them with that video titled "how to share games on Playstation" and it was just one guy handing another a game disk? And now Playstation is getting rid of physical disks entirely

[larken-the-skies]

It’s like they expect us to just forget their original marketing schemes in favor of more and more money grabs.