KISS ME GOOD-BYE

he/him

[losthomunculus]

den - he/him - 21 - white - tme

art only: @1ksporks

under 18 do not follow please and ty

[rodent-detector]

The girls got to play in their ball pit today.

[fayriequeene]

[meowmorials]

2002

[infestuous]

flickr

[archivearchangelica]

Gay Sex World, 2008

[patronsaintofweepingmothers]

"SITTING ROOM/DAYBED" (2004), KM07

[k0weaponmaster]

[thestoryofaslut]

Bro wake up 116 new genders just dropped

[chongoblog]

My gender

[loth-catgirl]

ah, yes

[kelzebub]

never gets old.

[wizard-email]

i lied. put your clothes back off, I do actually like sex

[gondorrevealparty]

Polycules should be able to trade people like sports teams do

[gondorrevealparty]

Listen -- you're a good defender and your pussy is fantastic, but that's not what our team needs right now. We're trading you to Greater Boston in exchange for someone who has a car.

[losthomunculus]

being on gel hormones kinda funny no one makes aesthetic art about that. injections or pills are the most common HRT iconography I see. who’s gonna glamorize slathering yourself in cold goo and reeking of rubbing alcohol.

[losthomunculus]

I promise I’m not an online discourser I’m just diary posting a little and thinking about the friction of not being easily categorized to people’s satisfaction. And like the multiple ways that shows up for me.

[losthomunculus]

am I insane or is it kinda weird that there’s a tendency to blame the categorically bi people who don’t ID as bi for the misconceptions about bisexuality. I think ppl are mistaking a symptom for the cause and I don’t think berating people for not calling themselves bi is a productive or necessary way to correct the widespread misconceptions that made the label feel unsuitable in the first place.

[losthomunculus]

Idk how to deal with the problem where even if a cis person 100% believes they support you and see you as your gender, they’re basically just memorizing pronouns and still consistently slip up even if they have only ever known someone as one identity.

Cause like I know they seriously are trying to be supportive and respectful, but I don’t know what tools I can give them to address the source of the issue. Idk what exactly I need to hone in on to break this barrier.

[pizza-thecat]

rare photos of Pizza in her bed

[tlirsgender]

People use agab terminology like they don't know trans people are actually materially real and different from cis people of their assigned sexes Like at this point the crazy fucking misuse of the concept is just transphobic innit ? I feel like we're well past the "well intentioned but kind of clumsily worded" stage

[tlirsgender]

Like the thing about transness is that it's not just a vibes based ~identity~ thing we're actually for fucking real about being the genders we are. Afab/amab are not nouns they're something that happened to you as a baby. The idea that everyone of the same assigned sex has anything in common is patently absurd if you're not a transphobe

[creekfiend]

gender essentialism is soooo funny bc it's like "this is what women are like" and you're like "I've met women and many of them, if not the majority, have not been like that" and it's like "well women SHOULD be like that" and you're like "why should women be like that" and its like "because that's what women are like"

[animperfectangelsblog]