I wanted to make a post on here clarifying that my posts are purely fantasy! It’s important to separate your sex life from your real life, I see so many reposts from tumblr doms on misogyny posts saying “how do I get a woman like that” and I’ll tell you:
My dom (fiancé) treats me so well and curates a safe space for me when we do scenes and provides after care every time. When I’m not getting treated like a little slut in the sheets, I’m getting princess treatment in the streets. When doing a scene, the sub should always be the one in control of what’s happening and doms need to respect boundaries and safe words.
Yes I do cooking and cleaning and satisfy my dom but it’s not expected of me - it’s because he makes me want to! And he does his part in all those things as well. We both work full time (as much as I’d love to be a stay at home housewife.. but in this economy??) and share responsibilities equally.
Anyways im just rambling at this point but the bottom line is don’t fall down the tumblr gooning hole so far that you expect life to be like the posts you see. Especially the young subs on here that I see that are 18, 19, 20 years old, don’t hold yourself up to this expectation that you NEED to serve men. Especially if he isn’t treating you right! Reenacting fantasies are supposed to be fun and safe <3
This.
