10 HARSH TRUTHS YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT
1 . People only value you for the value you bring. There's no such thing as 'love you regardless and people that use this phrase are either ignorant or manipulating you. The amount of love you receive is directly propotional to the value you bring/ how much value they estimate you are at.
2. You live life according to your position not your value or wishes. The broker you are the more values you are forced to overlook. The Bible literally says the poor have no choices & are slave to circumstance. You want success, play into your position. The only thing that will allow you to uphold your values & live a good life is 💰. Being broke is actually the root of all evil.
3. No one cares unless you're pretty, rich and influential enough. You want people to care? Have status. People will preach morality and virtue signal to you but Riddle me this, what more do they do after that? Your friends care more about the fact that Selena Gomez was cheated on than the fact that you were. What, pray I ask. Is the difference? That you're someone they hang out with and Selena is pretty, rich and has status. Be honest with me if they could hang out with with someone richer & prettier would they still choose you? It may be hard to stomach but keep this in mind. We are social animals. We are status seeking and hierarchical. And no you're not the exception that's why if Kim K ever liked a post we'd all know but your mom has been liking for ages and none of us know
4. Nature does not bow to virtue and evolution does not care bout sociology. You want success? Work within your natural boundaries first then venture outside. Women are women, men are men. You'll get the most success by treating women as women and men and men because millions of years of evolution & adaptation does not care about your 587689 word virtue signalling pity ploy. The higher power is learning how we evolved to survive and work within that, regardless of gender. Politics is a waste of time & the most misleading crap we invented. Human beings only have control over max 15% of their minds. The rest is purely run subconsciously, mostly by evolutionary adaptations.
5. No one cares about your pain past self righteousness. This might be the hardest to hear but vulnerability especially in public is self sabotaging. It's natural especially as women to need to vent, get a therapist or coach or internet friend 2 continents away , your day to day friends respect you less by every little form of weakness you show and what says I'm weak here harder than hey look I was hit and I hurt? This is really hard to comprehend bc we care about our maimed ones that's probably what makes us human, this is literally the marker of the human species- we care for our weak. we just don't respect them if they're over 16. We care for them. We want to help them. We will riot for them. We just lose respect. It sucks but it is what it is.
6. It is within the nature of a social species to attack their weak. " So you're saying if I'm getting attacked it's because I'm weak" no, we all are weak you're just showing yours. Have you ever had someone attack you for no reason? Like you literally can not pinpoint what it is you did that made them come at you like that? Now look at the people that are Hella shitty but never face backlash. What's the difference? Exactly. Survival for the strongest sorry. People don't come at you because you're bad or you messed up or you did something wrong- the only reason is you're showing weakness. Evolutionary speaking weaklings put the whole social group in danger and either they bossed up or got killed by their own and sadly we still function primarily on the lizard / & monkey brain. No Saber tooth tiger will anhiliate the whole tribe bc Alice is being wussy but your brain sees Alice being wussy and goes attack. Maybe not jump at Alice but why is she wearing that? Ew. & no its not about muscle it's about non verbal cues.
8. Life is a dying process, not living. Living is the process of getting closer to death. Never put to tomorrow what can be done, today.
9. "Loyalty" , "girlfriend" ," casual sex" and "male dependence" are the most misogynistic things ever invented 100% by men to keep women used. Do with this what you must.
10. You are not better off alone. Safer alone probably , but isolation is a fools game. "Lone wolf" lol no you just need therapy. It's no "sigma" whatever it's a trauma response. There have been countless experiments dating back to BC showing that the literal basic need of any member of a social species is community. When you lose community you seek death. Either directly by attempting suicide or indirectly ie you can't bring yourself to support life, you can't eat or drink or even get out of bed- you lose community & your body seeks death. Your best bet at a healthy happy life is to find community in as many places as you can bc if your bf is your only community if he breaks up with you you'll lose meaning of life bc the meaning of life in itself is community. The human basic need is community. That's why you scroll online for hours - seeking community.
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