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This just gave me a wonderful idea for a couple's game. Clothespins as pawns, butt plugs as rooks. Wax candles as bishops. Every time you lose a piece you get whatever that piece was on/in you. Someone help me figure out the rest lol ;)

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Those little things subs do that absolutely drive us doms insane - in a very good way - and turn us on way more than you can imagine

💕 The innocent smile they gift you with after you thought you brought them to their limit, that smile that says “Ah but I’m still good, why not continue, pretty please?”

💕 Every single time they got enough courage to ask or beg for something they really, really want, and they still turn bright red when you grin at them for being so sweet

💕 When they’re very, very desperate to be dominated, because of hormones or something else, and they subtly try to provoke you and turn on your dom mode

💕 Drooling

💕 Being so eager to touch you in a session where they were tied up or not allowed to lay a single finger on you for the most time

💕 Moaning/whining/screaming/whispering your title

💕 When you ask them if they want to be a good little slut/fucktoy/whore for you, and they just nod instantly and very eager, sometimes combined with a “Yes, very”

💕 Showing off how well behaved they are by going down to their knees without getting asked to do it

💕 Thanking you for bruises, hickeys, bite marks or any other kind of mark that you caused during a session

💕 “Can I please taste you? Please, please”

💕 Confidently teasing you

💕 Shyly teasing you

💕 T e a s i n g

💕 Softly trying to fight back when you’ve tied them up because they want you to push them down harder and show them their place

💕 Being so, so, so well behaved when they really want to be rewarded

💕 Puppy eyes

💕 Initiating a session themselves by coming into the room naked, or wearing lingerie, or wearing their collar

💕 Showing you things they saw online that are very fucking hot because they really want to try them

💕 Wiggling their butt when they want to be spanked

💕 “I’ve been really naughty, you have to punish me”

💕 Starting to touch themselves in front of you without permission to get your attention and turn you on

💕 Biting or scratching you when you’re fucking them real good

💕 Smiling at you innocently when they provoked you and you asked them if they’ll behave from now on or need a reminder who they’re talking to instead

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Yes, drooling will always get me. Especially around a gag. Instant arousal.

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I know a cute one like this..

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Online Aftercare

So, a lot of people seem to forget that aftercare is important in online scenes, too. It’s important to make sure that you don’t immediately log out after a session online - the emotions can be running high even after you have played together online. Here are some of the things that have worked for me in the past when I needed aftercare in an online relationship.

I’ve had Dominants talk to me in a soft, gentle voice afterwards. They gave me compliments, and they would tell me how much they enjoyed themselves.

I’ve had some Dominants sing or read to me afterwards, just because it would make me smile and lull me to sleep.

Some Dominants would tell me to take a long shower afterwards, and then to rub my whole body in lotion. Then, I’d get back to bed, and they’d talk to me until I fell asleep.

I had one Dominant who used to read me funny things he found online after we did our thing. It was a bit odd, but it definitely helped to bring me down.

Basically, my point is, there are tons of ways to give someone the care that they need after you’ve played together online. Don’t be lazy. Don’t play if you don’t have time for aftercare afterwards.

Take the time to bring your submissive down from her emotional highs. It’s part of your duty as a Dominant.

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more articles in the Library For Kinksters.

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This is really important for those in a long distance D/s relationship

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I wish that I could have you tied up right now. Tell you fantasies in your ear. Watch you get hard. And then hover my cunt over your face, as if we were going to do 69, but keep my pussy just out of reach of your mouth. And then…lean down and start to suck your hard cock. Slowly at first, but increasingly more passionate, aggressive — hungrily sucking you until you explode in my mouth. A chorus of your most primal grunts and moans surrounding us while I swallow every last drop of cum as it shoots from your cock, relishing in your salty taste. Then, reach one of my hands in between my legs to play with my swollen pussy while it is still hovered over your beautiful face — and let you see just how slick with wetness it is. Tell you to beg me if you want to have a taste, all while I rub and tease my juicy cunt, mere inches from your lips. Swallow your pride so that you can swallow my cum.

Don’t you want this pussy? Then be a good boy.

Beg for it.

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Tease Tips...

Males are such simple creatures. Flash them a leg or give them a gentle caress and you’ll activate them like robots to pursue you to the heights of pleasure… Many men even brag about how they “got game” thinking that they can con us into bed, but someone should tell these pick up artists that they are not taking us anywhere we don’t want to go…

But why just tease them for sex? Why not tease them to the point where they’ll do anything to please you… Like wash your car or pay your credit card bills… Or wear your panties to work… Or debase himself in front of your BFF…

The possibilities are endless once you get your game going. Here’s a list of tips to start the chase, gently work them in to your time with your favourite boy instead of all at once and you’ll find them highly effective. In just a couple weeks he’ll go from suitor to slave and won’t even know what happened, only that he loves it…

1. Make him strip naked while you keep your clothes on.

2. Have him kneel before you and kiss your feet.

3. Have him address you as ‘Mistress’

4. Have him kiss your ass… make him beg to kiss your ass.

5. Tie his hands and have him undress you with his mouth/teeth.

6. Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without your permission at any time.

7. Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of you while you read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with your shoes.

8. Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails!

9. Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever you please.

10. Show your slave your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission.

11. Tie your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum!

12. Put on his favourite lingerie and tease him with your feminine beauty.

13. Scratch him with your finger nails. Tickle him. Pinch his nipples.

14. Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.

15. Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else you might do.

16. Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of your panties…get more promises

17. Blindfold him and make him lick you to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again.

18. Rub his face against your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick you.

19. Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell your panties or kiss your ass…stay just out of reach.

20. Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator. Be vocal.

21. Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy you with it. Do it so his nose presses between your ass cheeks. He’ll be your little brown-noser and love it… Make him lick the dildo clean.

22. Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.

23. Put your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.

24. Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well in a pinch, even a zip tie, but be careful not to cut off circulation)

So there you have it, a few fun little mind fucks that will bring any ardent male deeper under your spell…

Thanks to Female Supremacy

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Dear submissive boy,

You don’t have to be strong all the time. You don’t have to have the answers to everything. It’s okay not to be okay.

Let others help chase your nightmares and fears away. Trust in them to hold and guide you back, no matter how long it takes.

Dear submissive boy, believe in the simple fact that even when you’re at your lowest, you’re worthy of good things.

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I’ll touch you whenever and wherever. You are mine.

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Classical conditioning is one of those psychological method that always work, when a superior mind trains an inferior one. It is about a slow comforting voice and a sensual effective learning curve. Say for example always, when she is giving head, ‘Good girl’ and caress her cheeks. Do it every single time, while she looks at you with big puppy trusting eyes. She will smile. She will think, you just compliment her on her ability. She cannot see the bigger picture. She is faithful and obedient, and doesn’t know what is happening to her. So say it again, day after day ‘Good girl’, when she is swallowing, ‘Good girl’ when she is licking ‘Good girl’ when she is engulfing and deep-throating herself,

and then enjoy the fruits of your efforts. Just sit, next to her in the restaurant, look at her and say ‘Good girl’ and she will drool and moan without any hesitation. She is now conditioned and will not care what people think. She will feel, wherever, whenever you say ‘Good girl’ your hard nice cock between her lips.