[grlsluvbadbtchs]

[kosmogrl]

I will make a beautiful life for myself no matter how long it takes. I will I will I will

[black-culture]

Reblog if you’re Black for good luck

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

you have to get yourself out of bad places. you need to resist the temptation to let everything slip and become apathetic & cynical toward yourself and your life. you need to accept that it takes time to change and it’s ok to fall over as long as u get back up. every morning is a new start and things don’t have to be this way forever. you can heal and you can change.

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[capacity2]

I feel so bad for the annoying women at work. Like I actually feel sick when we’re interacting and I feel the annoyance occurring in my brain like she really doesn’t mean to be this way and she just doesn’t want to feel alone or rejected. you can tell she’s experienced being an outsider everywhere she goes it’s only a matter of time. And it’s not cool chic or edgy but in the ugliest most desperate and dehumanizing way. They always start hopeful. they want to connect and they go searching for someone receptive to her so she can find her people but everyone turns away from her slowly and u hear it in her voice. It’s happening again. she starts hesitating to speak and when she does you hear a shaky child ending every sentence like it’s a question. Testing the waters to know if she’s wrong for even trying. And then I realize I took her smile for granted now that it’s gone.. I have to make it up to her I can’t let something like this continue. Life is so hard for people everywhere, so building a tolerance for being irritated is nothing in comparison especially if the reward is less pain and loneliness in the world I will always be the bestie you have my word

[troublesometoremember]

Building a tolerance for annoyance is a beautiful intention, and you phrased it so well. This truly made me want to be kinder, thank you.

[thepinkernet]

the i833 baby phat motorola phone (2004) 🎀

[musepalace]

Nail appointments, fresh flowers, spa days, champagne, baking, skincare products, silk pajamas, studying at the library, girls day, bubble baths, journaling, expensive perfumes, getting dressed, shopping.

[hermajestyimher]

The moments of pain should be used to as a catalyst for good. Let anger drive you to work harder for the things that benefit and passionate you. Let disappointment make you more disciplined in avoiding the things that keep you distracted and separated from the path to greatness. But don’t let them extinguish the flame that drives you to show up for yourself everyday. Regardless of the actions of others you still owe yourself the best there is to to offer.

[hermajestyimher]

Life seems to be moving fast because you live a monotonous reality. You need to escape the trap of the mindless routine before it consumes you. The last thing you want is to blink and realize you’ve lived a good chunk of your life in ways that blended all days together with a complete loss of time. Your life needs excitement, activities, quests, challenges, novelty on a daily basis. Life is not happening in your bedroom, head, or you phone. It is happening outside. Go live it, now.

[theposhsworld]

As Dostoevsky said, the deepest form of slavery is the hunger for being understood

[fortuneaday]

[treecitysessions]

There’s a catastrophic female loneliness epidemic happening rn but nobody gaf bc women aren’t going out and hurting people about it we just betray and destroy ourselves for nothing

[oaluz]

self love practices

Therapy Bodywork Masturbation (‘an orgasm a day keeps the nothing away’) Tarot Meditation Shifting relationship to food Learning to say no in real time Unstructured time to feel myself, follow my intuition   Acupuncture Notice when I feel alive and happy Give myself permission to grow old Recognize my body is all I have Celebrate self love in self and others Jomo…cultivate the joy of missing out Self love day!  (Baba’s day – insert your name!) Sleeping in late Waking up early and being quiet Silent walks Dancing Decaf life No meeting Wednesdays (or whatever day you choose) Grow more food Care for injuries Don’t hate, collaborate Delegate Trust my intuition Being in spaces with my community that cultivate healing Spending time by the water Singing to myself Working out Playing sports Dancing and playing music Finding a tree in my neighborhood Read more books Free writing daily, or often Less Internet Cook Work with clay Good one on one interactions Prayer Making home a safe space Animal love Feeling land and air Let myself be danced by another Have good sex Making out for a really (really) long time Put hands in the dirt

Go forth and love ????????????

(from adrienne maree brown, “self love as a liberatory practice for the future”)

[politijohn]

Source

Some good news

[themotherofrevelation]

“The Goddess does not rule the world; She is the world.”

— R. Garcia y Robertson and Starhawk, The Spiral Dance: A Rebirth of the Ancient Religion of the Great Goddess

[thefinefriend]

rich, gorgeous, and the owner of a celestial pussy.