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tbh the vast majority of erotica throughout history plays around in some way with consent and either subtly or blatantly rapey situations and concepts and for the most part people just get mad at cnc/rapekink/whatever you want to call it because they don't want to look that reality in the face. everybody wants to ravage the wood nymph but nobody wants to call it what it is
going back in time and convincing Allison Bechdel to pursue a career in drawing the lesbian version of ugly bastard hentai instead of semi autobio newspaper strips and when I come back to the modern day the soviet union has won the cold war
Stop buying toys and gear from Am@z0n. Support LITERALLY ANYONE ELSE instead.
This is a repost from my old blog–with updates! Here is a massive list of recommendations of shops across the board. I put an emphasis on queer- or women-owned/focused shops but not all have been vetted or verified. Starred (***) shops are ones I have personally shopped at or my friends recommend. I focused on quality materials and reasonable (but not always cheap) pricing.
You have no excuse to be buying sex toys off of Am@z0n when all of these shops exist. Most Etsy shops offer free shipping on purchases over $35!
GENERAL
Shops that sell a variety of toys, tools, and gear
Stockroom***
The Pleasure Chest***
Good Vibrations
Babeland***
Sugar
Good For Her
Come As You Are
Smitten Kitten
Wet For Her
Early To Bed***
She Bop
Knotty Vibes
New York Toy Collective***
Oxy Shop Shibari
Oh My Butt Plug
SheVibe
STANDARD TOYS
Shops that sell realistic or standard-shaped toys
Tantus Inc.***
GODEMICHE
Uberrime
Portland Toy Company
Seductive Stones TR
Lee Nee Mee Nee
Gem’s Little Pink Box
Dong Deals NY
FANTASY TOYS
Shops that sell fantasy-themed or non-standard toys. Alternatives to B@d Dr@g0n.
Qimera Forge
Twin Tail Creations***
Primal Hardwere***
Fantasy Dangus
Xeno Cat Artifacts
New Folklore Silicone
Strange Bedfellas
Pleasure Forge
Shapely Toys
Sinnovator
Pheonixflame Forge
Northern Fantasy Toys
JoyFlex Toys
Geeky Sex Toys
Lovecrafters Toys
Frisky Labz
Nerd Climax
Bad Wolf PL
Nameless Angel Works
Fantasticocks***
Self Delve
Concocktions
The Crafty Hedonist
Built Up Beasts
Fairy Lust Fantasy
Nawty ToyBox
Wandering Bard Toys***
Senmurv Studios
Deep Fantasies
Wildo’s Dildos
Vaa Char
HC Fantasies
Cultured Fiction Labs
Zlotech
Masterwork Toys
Love Smiths
Neotori Customs and Hoard
Desire Toys
Manufuktory
Top Notch Dongs
LEATHER
Shops that specialize in leather tools and gear
Blue Velvet Leather
Leather or Knot
Decoria Belle
Spill Adornment***
RACK Leather Goods
Harness by Olga Ku
Gestalt Fetishwear
RHEA Leathercrafts***
Xenolux
The Brig Leather Co.
Unicorn Collaborators
Dirty Darlings Leather
Ideologia
Bound Aries Leather
Simply Kink
Leather or Knot
Restrained Grace***
NON-LEATHER
Shops that specialize in leather alternative gear and tools–vegan friendly!
Beastly Bootique
GNAT***
Liquorice And Lace
PlayVegan
Kinky Nerd Toys
LINGERIE
Shops that sell lingerie and other undergarments
Origami Customs***
Gender Bender LLC
Shapeshifters***
GC2B***
TomboyX***
Rebirth Garments***
Carmen Liu Lingerie
JBC Lingerie
PlayOut Apparel
Pyramid Seven
Marco Marco Underwear
Girls Will Be Boys Clothing
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Look people who are stingy about who they give out candy too, like those people who live in nice neighborhoods and get mad that poor kids come and trick or treat there or those ones who refuse to give candy to parents or teens, can honestly all get fucked
Halloween is the one night of the year that the spirit of giving is really fully embraced. Like there is something so magical about being able to go around to almost any home, dressed in some silly costume, and get candy. How dare a single person try to police that?? Anyone, and I mean ANYONE, could show up in even the shabbiest costume and I would give them candy. How DARE you desecrate what imo is practically a blessed evening with your classicism or abelisim or whatever gross prejudices that you might harbor.
I grew up partaking in this amazing night where I could go and get candy and have fun, as a kid Halloween was sacred to me. And it still is. For like 15 years by the grace and kindness of others I got to take and take and it is a fucking HONOR to get to give back as an adult. Like how can people not see that? You are doing something AMAZING!! Those kids in their dumb Fortnite and Anime and Minecraft costumes are have the night of there lives and that is so BEAUTIFUL and INNOCENT how could you possibly have the AUDACITY to claim to be allowed to control and ruin that.
Like goddamn I will never not be heated about this. Halloween is fucking inspirational and incredible and I honestly consider it a fucking blessing to be able to be part of it. How could anyone not see that???
one of my aspirational wealth dreams as a poor and homeless kid was to a) someday have a place kids could come to for candy on Halloween and b) give out full-size candy bars like some kind of weird sugar Scrooge after his transformation and let me say yes it’s the highlight of my entire fucking year
My kid is a teenager now and I’ve dressed up to go with him every year that I’ve been off work. (I would rather have Halloween off than Thanksgiving or New Year by FAR) We haven’t done matching costumes in a few years but it’s still a blast even when we don’t match. Every year I’ve had people insist on giving me candy too, even when I’m like “I’m the mom, it’s ok” and it just brings me so much joy to have that piece of my childhood every year. Everybody’s having fun and complimenting each other’s costumes and sharing candy, it’s wonderful.
porn is like horror a little bit where a lot of people think it sucks and is a morally outrageous or lesser form of art and actually a lot of work goes into pulling it off effectively but also there's a lot of slop. there's a lot of slop out there and the slop is really fucking bad for you. and it sucks so hard that so much of it exists like that and it somehow keeps making the most money even though it sucks
"x ship is normalizing incest-"
Buddy
If game of thrones hasn't normalized incest by now (pulling over 10 million views in the 7th season alone) then a small fandom ship most certainly won't
Spn ran for fifteen fucking seasons, it ran for over a decade, and wincest was consistently one of the two or three most popular ships. And it had no measurable impact on real world abuse. Maybe you think fandom is uniquely dangerous (why, idk, but this tumblr after all) but a pretty good rule of fandom is that if Spn couldn't do it, fucking no one else is going to manage it.
(link to tweet)
it's so funny when people are like 'bdsm is obviously fine but cnc/incest kinks are bad because they fetishise abuse and real world violence'. like lmao what do you think is being fetishised when someone gets spanked sexually amiguita? what do you think is eroticised when people handcuff their partners? those are the two most 'mainstream' 'uncontroversial' bdsm activities i can imagine and you can draw an obvious and direct line to child abuse and police violence if you think about them for five seconds. people who say this kind of stuff have just learned that it's considered passé to call bdsm evil without ever thinking about why
the overwatch blogger who called me a pedophile because i said trans women are disproportionately punished for shit like incest roleplay compared to cishets loves to fall back on 'pup hoods' as the thing that's Good Wholesome Harmless Kink and i would love to watch him explain to me exactly what is being sexualised there lmao
love going on callout posts for "thinks cnc is okay" and seeing people talk about how us freaks need the electric chair. fantasizing about violence is okay as long as its not sexual, funny that
idk about you but i'm more scared of someone who opently talks about executing people because of the way they have consensual sex than i am of the guy who asks his girlfriend to say "no, dont~"
got called a tranny r slur in my ask box for this one, keep sharing
need a fakeboy to be my stress toy. I’ll use your mouth like a pussy, hear you gag and choke on my cum- ill thrust harder so the cum gets forced down your throat. fingerfuck your mouth after, and use it as lube to fuck your pussy. youll be so numb and achy once I’m done with you. your wet cum filled pussy will be a reminder of what you are - a cumdump, fleshlight, stress toy for men to use
Something that I feel is important to say especially to the misgendering kink community:
It's okay to have a lot of limits.
I constantly see the sexualization of people having no limits especially with trans guys and enbies as we're seen as "easy" to get and open to everything.
But it's completely normal and okay to have as many limits as you need. If someone doesn't respect them, that is not because your limits are not valid, it's because they are a shitty person.
Especially within this kink, you are allowed to pick and choose what you like. You don't have to be into CNC to be into misgendering. You don't have to like chest play or breeding. It's supposed to be fun for you. Don't feel pressured into saying you have no or very few limits just because it's something you see a lot of.
It is literally crazy how often people will, without a hint of irony, say shit like "if you are into cnc/intox/somno/incest/etc I'll fucking kill you/kill yourself/you should fucking die" all in a million variations and it's like damn, looks like someone is really thinking about inflicting violence, you could even say perhaps fantasizing about it, quite a lot. But don't worry you're wayyy better than those filthy degenerates because unlike them, you don't ask for consent before telling them to kill themselves, negotiate boundaries prior, keep channels of communication open, and care for them afterwards and strengthen the relationship. No you're sooo much more moral than them cause you actually just want them to die. No further reflection needed 👍
Happy Pride Month everyone! Remember 4 months ago when the CEO of this platform harassed and chased a trans woman off this website just for posting her transition timeline, then chased her to other social media platforms to continue harassing her, and threatened to call the FBI if she continued disputing the multiple dubious terminations of her blogs that did not violate tumblr's terms of service in any way? And despite tumblr staff insisting that the CEO was acting against their interests, the broad transmisogyny evident in the site's culture and moderation policy has still not been adequately addressed?
Remember that staff is continuing to nuke the blogs of trans women even after all of this. Remember this post when they call this site the queerest place on the internet again this month
transfem t4t aftercare protip
a lot of transfems because of general societal transmisogyny get a pernicious brainworm that their sexuality is inherently predatory and abusive, and this can be made significantly worse after a scene where they're acting as the domme, especially after the emotional crash when it all finishes
so once you're in a mental state to do so (i personally know whenever i sub i take a good 5-10 minutes to be coherent enough to speak again), please please please reassure your domme that you wanted what she did to you and you enjoyed it all, and that your plays at resistance or stopping her were part of the moment and you would have safeworded if it did go wrong. seriously, it helps a lot to be able to hear that directly from the horse's mouth
and even if you do need to call a safeword, once you're emotionally recovered from whatever triggered you enough to need that, your domme is likely panicking that she hurt you permanently and you're going to abandon her and it is always worth reassuring that no, you still love her, accidents happen, things aren't always perfect.
dommes aren't kink dispensers, and transfem dommes are very likely to feel guilty for wanting to express that dominance at all. care for your dommes, y'all, it hurts when we're not cared for.
Talking from experience here, I used to have very low confidence when domming, but over time that issue did go away thanks to feedback from my subs. Nowadays I have enough confidence to do Whatever The Fuck I Want™ when domming, knowing I'm doing well, and having positive feedback.
I've experienced the other side of it too and it's so much fun, and my partners do a stellar job at making me feel safe when having my hands tied and getting my brains fucked out of me.
So to all the transfem dommes out there, you're doing great, keep it up. And yeah, messing up is natural, it's ok, what's important is you keep good communication with your partner(s), and that you have fun.
just some PSA's to subs:
hard doms really are like that. they aren't joking.
it's okay not to be into certain kinks. aftercare. ect. set the boundary.
babe, him being an online dom doesn't mean he's experienced. on that note, MOST doms are only online doms with no experience.
learn how to get yourself off. and never be scared to tell him how to.
there's someone into that weird thing you like.
oh, there's also someone into that deep dark one you'd never admit. trust me. it's literally fine.
hookup with other subs. trust me.
take care of your bodily health first.
ask for what you need. ask for it. if they refuse to give it to you. find someone who will.
EVEN AS A SUB. TAKE NO SHIT. DONT BE WALKED ON.
i love post scene discussion !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what was ur favorite part !!!!!! which part r u jerking off to later !!!!!! u should do tht thing to me again some time !!!!!!! do u think i looked cute gagging n crying n whining !!!!!! listening to everything u have to say w rapt attention n also kicking my feet n giggling!!!!!!!!!
Yeah, you support people who want to be rape-I mean, roughly fucked and abused until they're broken. But are you normal about people who want to roughly fuck and abuse them until they're broken?
Yeah, you support people who want to be fucked while they age regre-I mean, while they're cute little, innocent babbling toys. But are you normal about people who want to fuck them when they're cute little, innocent babbling toys?
Yeah, you support people who want to be fucked while they're drunk or unconsc-I mean, while they're asleep and high. But are you normal about people who want to fuck them while they're asleep and high?
Yeah, you support people who want to be beat up and cut-I mean, bruised and marked. But are you normal about people who want to bruise and mark them?
Yeah, you support people who want to be fucked while they're dogs and anim-I mean, while they're puppyboys and kittygirls. But are you normal about people who want to fuck puppyboys and kittygirls?
Yeah, you support people who want to be fucked by their parents and sib-I mean, by their pretend siblings, step bros, step sisters, mommies and daddies. But are you normal about people who want to be their pretend siblings and parents?
Yeah, you might support people having fucked up, dark, disgusting kinks, but are you actually ok with the people who will do fucked up, dark, disgusting things to them?
Or is it only wrong when those people are transfems?
People with 'daddy' kinks are very quick to point out how "disgusting" it is that there are people with "gross incest kinks." They feel the need to loudly state how they "don't support incest." What's the difference between you calling the person breeding you 'daddy', and someone calling their partner their 'dad', exactly? Where is the line?
To these people, it's all about meeting the threshold of what's socially acceptable. They will even pretend to be supportive of the 'fucked up, dark, disgusting kinks', except "the Actually Bad Ones."
They will share these kinks as long as the language used to talk about them is sanitized enough, as to distance the kink from its problematic aspects. It gives them leeway to say "I'm not into this gross, depraved thing. They are. I'm 'normal' about it, unlike those freaks who call someone their dad, or the people that babble like babies and use diapers, or the people who bark and pretend they're animals, or those who cut and want bruises on their bodies."
The self-censoring of darker kinks to make them appear more palatable is a response to the disgust (and maybe shame) of being into things that are considered socially immoral. So, they have to make it so what they're into is "not that disgusting, depraved thing", but something that's normal.
It's a lot of internalized shame, societal conformity, and fear of embracing that which will make u an outcast and a social reject. It's also the need to be being more morally righteous, and impure.
"It's ok to want to call the person breeding you daddy, as long as you don't call it incest, which is disgusting and depraved."
Using your disgust to shame and denounce people who engage in kink in a way that you don't find acceptable is not sexual liberation. It's being a fucking hypocrite
