i don’t consider myself part of the rpc and rarely take part in this kind of stuff but MAN HAVE I BEEN WAITING FOR THIS CALL OUT. posting under a read more for screencaps and general length.
story time! not only is sian a bully and an avid hate-anon sender, but a ship pusher. i’ve been on and off adminning in marvel rp’s for the last few years, usually without any big issues, standard admin things. but i believe it was about a year ago when sian joined a marvel group of mine, playing a character that in comics, dated a character i played. ( i don’t ship it, i find their relationship to be toxic, but as i didn’t want to offend them as they seemed to love the character, i didn’t say i found them toxic as bluntly as i should have ) but i did tell them flat out that i already had a ship planned with another member. they told me that was fine, i thought that was the end of it.
soon after, they asked if the characters could have a history/dated in the past. it didn’t quite work for where i had her, but i figured out a way to include in something casual, just to have some sort of history since they did in canon and i felt like i owed it to them for some reason. the problematic behavior hadn’t begun yet at that point.
they then sent me this, which may not seem like a big deal, but would’ve have essentially been when their “something casual” happened. essentially, they were looking for a ship thread when i wasn’t open to shipping. i politely declined as i wasn’t comfortable writing my character at that point in their history as it was a very triggering time for her. i offered a present day thread, they never answered.
we did thread multiple times, and each time they had their character continue to express feelings for mine and seemed defensive when she didn’t return them. for a long time, i tried to write it off as them just wanting ic drama, but hindsight is 20/20 and they never asked me if this was okay or if i was comfortable with an unrequited feelings plot.
these are just two small examples but most of their replies were along this same context. this all seems like small potatoes though, right? the biggest grievance here is they made me very uncomfortable. along with this, they constantly hounded for replies.
and then they took the next step. they spammed my character account, my friend (who i was shipping with), and our main with hate anons. i truly wish i saved them all, but alas i only have a few. my friend played several characters but only the character that she shipped with me received hate, such as telling her to drop the character, that she didn’t write him well, and my favorite: accusing us of being in love and that must be why we shipped with each other and not just we think these two characters could be good for each other. ( as a side note, we’re both married to other people, not that we should have to justify that ).
these are some gems sent to me.
i include the top one because it came from the same ip address and i do have statcounter, these were both sent by sian. i believe the intention was they wanted their character to be the father of my characters child. ( the child is half hispanic, her character was white, so i really felt the need to specify. ) the second anon is in reference to the character i ship with, and my answer was accurate. i’d been replying to everyone, my best guess is that they weren’t happy our ship was progressing. the last post before this, i believe involved a kiss. i can’t say for sure, it was over a year ago, but that’s what i remember.
sian also claimed to have received hate anons as well. the wording of them was exactly the same as the ones we received, that we knew to be her from her ip on stat. obviously i can’t say with 100% certainty but i feel confident that she sent the anons to herself either to cast suspicion elsewhere or for sympathy? who knows.
and then we come to jane. “jane” joined our group as the brother of sian’s character. this character was extremely aggressive at mine, accusing them of doing things they didn’t do, and saying it in replies to other characters as if it was fact. i messaged them as it felt very godmodding and i was uncomfortable. they gaslit me for several hours about how “i was forcing their character to have to like mine” which i said several times wasn’t the case. i was just trying to explain the different between saying “lorna did this” and “scott believed lorna was doing this”. i have this entire conversation saved and will happily share but it’s long so i wasn’t going to put it all here.
if you haven’t figured yet, “jane” was sian. i found on statcounter that replies for both characters, sian’s and “jane’s” came from the same ip.
i can also share my statcounter privately. given that it has roughly locations and ip addresses, i’d rather not do it here. i don’t dox even the shittiest of people.
she went on to finally leave our group, try starting another group that stole portions of our pages, the group never opened though.
over a year later, we got this message to one of our groups
do we have them on statcounter sending it? you bet! again, please message me privately for caps of statcounter if interested.
none of this amounts to the same type of shitty a person must be to continuously play abusers and claim a “consensual” thread between a rapist and victim is okay, but some background to let you know that they’ve been shitty before and i’m sure will continue to be.
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