P R E G N A N C Y / M O M T A G
I tried to find some questions about motherhood/pregnancy to know each other better.
1. At what age you get pregnant for the first time ?
I was 23, when I got pregnant with my first baby.
2. What were your two feelings when you come to know about your first pregnancy ?
Fear, because it was my first pregnancy, my first baby so I didn’t really knew anything about motherhood and surprised because it wasn’t really expected.
3. What was your feeling seeing your first newborn baby?
I was shocked and stunned, I think. I just had given birth to a
baby so I think it's more than understandable. I totally fell in love with him, of course. ♡
4. How many children do you have ? How old are them now ?
I have four little ones. Lohan (3 and 1/2), the twins Aëlys & Iris (2 and 1/2) and my baby Kaïs who just turned one.
5. How does your boyfriend/husband react each time after knowing about pregnancy ?
Lohan’s pregnancy : He was surprised, because a baby wasn’t in our plans at the moment since we just moved together.
The twins pregnancy: He was shocked, it happened really fast after the birth of our first baby. When we found out they were two babies, i’ll let you imagine his face !
Kaïs pregnancy: Without any surprises, it wasn’t planned either ! So he didn’t take the new very well... I guess me either. He was really worried since we already had a toddler and twins, our appartment was really small but everything worked out.
6. Who named your child/children ?
Both of us. I mean, picking a name to your children is something really important since they will carry it for the rest of their life but it’s also a pain in ass because the name you like, isn’t the one your husband likes. So when it came to pick our children’s names, both of us picked our favorite names and shared it with each other and our opinions.
7. What was the hardest thing while having a baby ?
Taking care of a newborn who only cries to communicate ! If you’re a first time mom, it’s awful and stressfull, you don’t know what’s going on with your baby and you just don’t know what to do either.
8. Which child is mama’s baby ?
All of them are, but mostly Kaïs because he’s still a baby.
9. Which child is daddy’s baby ?
Iris ! Definitely her, because she’s always around him cuddling, kissing and keeps saying she will marry her daddy and I can tell you he’s totally happy about it *rolleyes*
10. Did you marry the father of your children ? If yes, when ?
Yes I did ! On July 2016, almost two years ago.
11. Who among you and your boyfriend/husband dominates in deciding things for your children ?
Both of us. We totally agree with each other on the education we want for our children, so there’s no “domination” when it comes to decide things for them.
12. Tell three changes you felt between a married life and after becoming a mom ?
Three changes I felt about married life and becoming a mother ? I don’t know, there isn’t probably any changes except the ring on my finger and the fact that I have his last name. We lived already like a married couple, so. About becoming a mother, well... You can’t go out whenever you want without getting the diaper bag ready first.
13. What is the best thing about being a mother ?
Loving them more than anything in the world. Don’t let it fool you, because being a mother is like a rollercoaster every single day haha.
14. Husband or children. Who is your first priority now ?
All of them are my priority !
I tag any moms who want to do it ! Let’s go !