We dem valid boys!

A transmasc-focused positivity blog that welcomes all genders and sexual orientations! Run by @cutekeigo.

[dendriticheep]

Hawks says Happy Trans Day of Visibility!

 Things are difficult right now but don’t think that you’re not important or that your struggles are being ignored. Everybody hang in there and stay safe. <3 

[dmc3dante]

it's tdov so I drew this to celebrate and also I love snails

[a-trans-comic-by-me]

March 31 2020 - Happy Trans Day of Visibility!

[yamujiburo]

Happy Trans Day of Visibility!

Team Rocket says “trans rights” and “back off terfs”!

[michellepsychologist]

⚪️ Instagram ⚪️

[darkacademiamlm]

trans men:

are men

dont have to bind, change their pronouns/name, take t, or have any surgeries

dont have to dress or act masculine

can be any sexuality

are still men

[warriormlm]

a lot of positivity for fat mlm say stuff like “cute” – which isnt wrong, but i think we should expand on that a little bit

fat men don’t have to be cute or fit into any soft aesthetic! you’re allowed find fat men hot, sexy or handsome or attractive. fat men can wear punk fashion and play in bands, we can wear suits and be classy, or we can wear backwards hats and muscle shirts. 

reducing us to one aesthetic is doing our variety a disservice!

[pop-punk-anakinz-deactivated202]

Yo if you’re a boy with mental illness, a boy with disabilities, a boy who is/was an abuse victim, a boy who has an ED, a boy with trauma, I need you to know that you are not a burden, that you don’t need to “harden up”, that you are very brave, and that you shouldn’t just have to “get over it”.

[faeriemagicka]

∧＿∧

（｡･ω･｡)つ━☆・*。 whish woosh!

⊂　　 ノ 　　　・゜+. ur amazing

しーＪ and i'm so proud of u!

[smokymlm]

trans boys who paint their nails are lovely

trans boys who dye their hair are fantastic

trans boys who wear dresses are wonderful

trans boys who wear skirts are amazing

trans boys who watch cartoons are phenomenal

trans boys who have stuffed animals are incredible

trans boys who like pink are marvelous

trans boys who cry and laugh and smile often are stunning

trans boys who don’t conform to masculinity are absolutely astonishing

[thepowerwithin]

Take a moment to remind yourself right now that, regardless of your current level, you are doing a phenomenal job. One can only move so fast, so please give yourself more credit.

[bering-strait-deactivated202005]

the world is a better place with trans women in it. trans women are valuable and important members of our communities. trans women deserve safety and protection and love.

[openblogtomyabusivemother]

Your feelings are allowed.

No matter what.

[d-135am]

remember, you do not need to be perfect and fit in some stupid standards. you just need to be you. you do not have to wear clothes you do not like, or have the best grades, or put make up if you do not want to, or act that you are happy all the time. you are beautiful, worthy, you deserve to be loved. you are enough just as you are. i love u

[grshn]

i know that this may be hard to believe, but:

you are not a burden

you deserve happiness

you deserve to be listened to

you are so strong

you are kind

you are amazing

your situation right now is not your forever

it’s going to get better

your best is good enough

you are good enough

you are beautiful

you deserve to live your best life

you’re working so hard

you’ve gotten through everything that has been thrown at you so far; you can get through this too

you are worth so much

you are wonderful

you can choose positivity 

your past does not define you

your mistakes do not define you

your grades and achievements do not define you

your mental health does not define you

your struggles do not define you

it’s never too late to try again

it’s never too late to start

you are cared for

you are valued

you are so important

i am so proud of you

you’re going to be okay

[queerforscience]

Notes to self:

You’re still sick even on good days

You don’t have to push yourself too hard and make youself worse to prove your pain is real

The best way to do things is the way that’s best for you, not the way that’s more “””normal”””

Not wanting to self accommodate is the internalized ableism talking. Doing things “normally” doesn’t help anything and it’s not worth the pain.

[gloupblog]

Don’t throw away a whole day, a whole week, your whole life even, because you made a mistake. Slipping up does not erase all the progress you have already made. Any progress is good. Keep going as if nothing happened and you’ll get there in no time