Mama Xephs Blog

Personal stuff and sfw drawings

[ladydrace]

This is not for you.

This is a post aimed at me and other people who constantly fall into guilt spirals over all the things they can’t do, and feel they should somehow magically be able to do anyway.

For me, and for the others, this is a gentle reminder:

- Posts asking for monetary donations are speaking to people who have money. Not your broke ass, still worrying how to buy food next month.

- Posts asking you to care about [extreme injustice of the day] are speaking to people who have energy to care. Not you, hanging onto your sanity by the fingernails. 

And, most importantly: posts telling you that you are horrible/cheap/awful/rude/unworthy/unlikable if you don’t pay/reblog/signal boost/care? Those posts can fucking die in a fire.

TL;DR: Posts asking for shit you are not physically or mentally able to give? 

THOSE POSTS ARE NOT FOR YOU. 

[jigglypuffsvevo]

Tomb Raider Cosplay

[nelllim-deactivated20260423]

Thought it would wash away everything

[conservativeprivilegemale]

[callmefreakfujiko]

“Unknown?”

[mamaxeph]

If all you find are bones, or some ash and bone splinters, exactly how do you figure out what skin color they were?

[sam-the-cat-lady]

WATER

EARTH

Fire

AIR

Long ago, the four nations lived together in harmony. Then everything changed when the Fire Nation attacked. Only the Avacatar, master of all four elements, could stop them. But when the world needed him most, he vanished. A hundred years passed and my brother and I adopted the new Avacatar, a catbender named Steve. And although his felinebending skills are great, he still has a lot to learn before he’s ready to save anyone. But I believe Steve can save the world.

[mamaxeph]

Wanna know the fastest way to piss me off?  Buy a new game system, new games, then put locks on everything that you “promise” you’ll unlock for me.  Then makes me sit there and just look at all this stuff all night while you sleep.

AKA, If I don’t kill my husband he’s getting a big warning that next time he does this I’m gonna take a hammer to all of the electronics in the house.  Don’t mess with a female gamer.

[callmefreakfujiko]

What system? Couldn’t you just make your own account?

Alternatively: Wake that lazy ass up for a second to do what he promised!

[mamaxeph]

Xbox one, he put a lock on it to keep the kid from buying stuff but it’s keeping me from playing the game we bought today.  So it’s at the password screen mocking me.  And the computer that has enough power to play games (not mine) is also locked with a password.

@batsutousai  apparently.  Cause I’m gonna kill him.  I didn’t play the 360 at all today because he made a disparaging remark about how much I like the game on it (skyrim) that I’ve only got to play for a few hours.  And that one is in the bedroom where he is sleeping.  

Xeph is just pissed off.

[batsutousai]

I get not wanting the kid to get at it, but the least he should have done was made sure you knew the password.

UGH. No mocking Xeph for wanting to play Skyrim. That’s an AWESOME GAME. *all the hugs*

[mamaxeph]

The thing that sucks is that I’ve given up pretty much most of everything to my family.  Any type of social life/ real life friends, all my money and time and every thing just to take care of everyone.  The only time I give myself to do stuff like relax and video games is at night when everyone is asleep and really, if he’s gonna waste money on stuff that isn’t paying the bills he should at least share.  But once again, fuck my life.  Cause when does anything go right for me?

[mamaxeph]

Wanna know the fastest way to piss me off?  Buy a new game system, new games, then put locks on everything that you “promise” you’ll unlock for me.  Then makes me sit there and just look at all this stuff all night while you sleep.

AKA, If I don’t kill my husband he’s getting a big warning that next time he does this I’m gonna take a hammer to all of the electronics in the house.  Don’t mess with a female gamer.

[callmefreakfujiko]

What system? Couldn’t you just make your own account?

Alternatively: Wake that lazy ass up for a second to do what he promised!

[mamaxeph]

Xbox one, he put a lock on it to keep the kid from buying stuff but it’s keeping me from playing the game we bought today.  So it’s at the password screen mocking me.  And the computer that has enough power to play games (not mine) is also locked with a password.

@batsutousai  apparently.  Cause I’m gonna kill him.  I didn’t play the 360 at all today because he made a disparaging remark about how much I like the game on it (skyrim) that I’ve only got to play for a few hours.  And that one is in the bedroom where he is sleeping.  

Xeph is just pissed off.

[mamaxeph]

Wanna know the fastest way to piss me off?  Buy a new game system, new games, then put locks on everything that you “promise” you’ll unlock for me.  Then makes me sit there and just look at all this stuff all night while you sleep.

AKA, If I don’t kill my husband he’s getting a big warning that next time he does this I’m gonna take a hammer to all of the electronics in the house.  Don’t mess with a female gamer.

[bujnik]

I'm sure a lot of people would think me rude to have such a problem with Blue's vocal habits.

It might seem like I’m being intolerant of a special needs kid but I have to look beyond that. His SW has been trying to find him a pre-adoptive home for months and even reaching out to other agencies. There’s no one. I’m terrified that if they do find someone they’ll be young and green and his behaviors would be very off putting. It’s hard to bond with a kid who speaks in a demonic voice randomly and spits in your face.

He’s 8 years old, autism or not, he needs to be aware of when he’s actions affect others. He has a very difficult personality on the best of days, these unnecessary behaviors (which I view as him acting out for attention) are going to hurt his chances.

I’m working hard to curb these behaviors because I love him, not because I’m annoyed with him. I don’t want him to scare off new friends. I don’t want him ending up in a group home because there isn’t a single person in this state who wants to be his parent. It’s horrible. But whatever life training and self awareness I can pack in before he goes is what I can contribute to his life. Letting him carry on like this would be doing an incredible disservice.

So if you have any behavior management tips for behaviors that are gentle habit breaking, please talk to me.

[mamaxeph]

I’ve had some success’ with my son.  We went through Incredible Years parenting course and Parent Child Interactive Therapy and I’ve seen area of improvement in a simular area. They have a book out, The Incredible Years by Carolyn Webster-Stratton, ph.d.  And I think chapters 2 and 3 would benefit you the best.  Maybe this might help out a little bit?

[ifleviplayedhockey]

Realization: Most shows can be summarized with “Everything changed when the _______ attacked.”

Avatar: Everything changed when the Fire Nation attacked

Attack on Titan: Everything changed when the titans attacked

Black Butler: Everything changed when the demons attacked

Ouran HS Host Club: Everything changed when the gays attacked

Death Note: Everything changed when Kira attacked

Free!: Everything changed when Rin attacked

Tokyo Ghoul: Everything changed when the ghoul attacked

Exception…

Fullmetal Alchemist: Everything changed when the Elrics TRIED SOMETHIN REALLY FUCKIN STUPID

[danzai]

[mamaxeph]

Is it just me or is the old automail on the floor a left arm with a right hand?

[iloveboxbraids]

“ Asian with box braids? .” been planning to get these braids done for a while, so much bashing on people having certain hairstyles especially through social media. I don’t see any problem with it. I think you should just be aware and respect where certain things originated from. A style of hair shouldn’t be a depiction of your thoughts of a culture ,I love my culture but I also enjoy exploring others. after lots of damage with bleach on my natural hair, I decided to try out this protective method and I’m loving it😊

[damngoodgoddess]

No bitch…

[dynastylnoire]

Not at all

@racistbeautybloggers

[audio-asexual]

Her roots looks like broom straws

[scarletgoldenthorn]

What are you talking about? She looks divine, like seriously.

[feels-by-the-foot]

She’s gorgeous. 

Everyone in this thread just sounds like a 3 year old finding out that they have to share. 

[callmefreakfujiko]

She looks nice… But I can’t stop being distracted by that awesome tattoo on her hand

[mamaxeph]

That looks more like henna than a tattoo CM.

[regrettispletti]

[igneousfrizzle]

For the awesome Batsutousai’s fmab fic Reverti Ad Praeteritum, chapter 4!

i. love. this fic. so fucking much. i cant sing its praises enough. im forcing everyone i know that likes fma to read it.

[batshieroglyphics]

I’M SCREAMING LOOK AT THIS PERFECT AND ED’S SMUG LITTLE FACE AND AND MAY’S ALL “OMG WHY ARE YOU A MASSIVE JERK” AND XIAO MEI’S JUST FUCKING CHOWING DOWN AND I– *spazzes, dies happy*

[mamaxeph]

Drunken makeout.   

or something...

[scientificphilosopher]

The Internet Names Animals

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[beekirbydrawsstuff]

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Soundcloud is being a butt so this is TUMBLR EXCLUSIVE for now

[toastyhat-deactivated20180203]

this is my NEW FAVORITE THING

[anakingskywoker]

@elpuercopeludo