Sugar Diary

21 year old Southern Californian sugar baby.

[acloudnothing]

[mediaite-blog]

[rynnay]

watch both their faces go from “courteous TV smile” to “not paid enough for this bullshit”

[manicpixiesugargirl]

So my goal is to have some new sugar profiles up in the next couple of days, I got my hair cut the other day and took some new pictures after but I still need to take some full body pics. At least one positive result of my breakup has been being able to go back into sugaring without feeling guilty because my current job is giving me hardly any hours. I'm also working on getting a second job, but being able to find an SD would also help a lot.

[anna-learns-to-love-herself]

You have this one life. How do you wanna spend it? Apologizing? Regretting? Questioning? Hating yourself? Dieting? Running after people who don’t see you? Be brave. Believe in yourself. Do what feels good. Take risks. You have this one life. Make yourself proud.

(via senyahearts)

[bbymoonchild]

No matter how good of a woman you are, you’ll never be good enough for a man who isn’t ready.

[minusthelove]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA-AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN

[kateoplis]

California has become the first state to require students on college campuses to receive active consent before all sexual activity. Gov. Jerry Brown on Sunday signed into law a bill that will impose this new standard for consent at all colleges that receive state funding, including all public universities and many private institutions where students receive state grants. Consent can be conveyed by a verbal “yes,” or signaled in a nonverbal way, but lack of resistance or objection cannot constitute consent. … The new law will also offer other protections: universities will be required to offer on-campus victims’ advocates; victims who come forward to report a sexual assault may not be punished for under-age drinking; and all institutions will be required to teach incoming freshmen about sexual assault and consent during orientation.

Active Consent Bill Signed in California | NYT (via wolfcola)

[loukilacee-deactivated20140619]

[gold-kushkloudz]

[abcdefruh]

THIS

[heavenhillgirl]

[manicpixiesugargirl]

swtsinren replied to your post “So I said before I was going to only test the waters with getting back...”

Why am I going through the same thing! I'm thinking about sugaring

Because boys suck. But if you feel ready for sugaring go for it, it's not easy and sometimes it doesn't even feel worth all the bullshit you put up with but then regular dating doesn't make you feel much different it's just safer. Just make sure you know what you're doing and have done your research is all.

[r-o-c-h-a-78]

[spanglypants-mcfuckyou-blog]

romanticise the fuck out of your identity. build a shining palace around your identity and decorate it with sparkles and shit if you want. it’s yours. no one else gets a say

[avantgardener]

[robert-winchester-novak]

I am a feminist. I’ve been female for a long time now. I’d be stupid not to be on my own side.

Maya Angelou (via dahlia—noir)

[psych-facts]

The fact that you’re struggling doesn’t make you a burden. It doesn’t make you unloveable or undesirable or undeserving of care. It doesn’t make you too much or too sensitive or too needy. It makes you human. Everyone struggles. Everyone has a difficult time coping, and at times, we all fall apart. During these times, we aren’t always easy to be around — and that’s okay. No one is easy to be around one hundred percent of the time. Yes, you may sometimes be unpleasant or difficult. And yes, you may sometimes do or say things that make the people around you feel helpless or sad. But those things aren’t all of who you are and they certainly don’t discount your worth as a human being. The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved. You can be difficult and still be cared for. You can be less than perfect, and still be deserving of compassion and kindness.

Daniell Koepke (via psych-facts)

[manicpixiesugargirl]

So I said before I was going to only test the waters with getting back into sugaring because of my relationship but that's no longer an issue. I got broken up with today and it sucks, but honestly if I was dating someone who couldn't handle a 2 hour distance and has to break up with me over the phone then I'll be better without him. I'll miss him and it'll be a bit hard but at this point I'm more pissed than anything because if you don't think I'm worth the effort of a 2 hour drive then fuck you because I am. Anyway I still want to move back out of my city and need to save money for it, so what better way to get that done a bit quicker then going back to sugaring. I am worth so much more than my now ex clearly ever thought after all.

[ashoutintothevoid]

Emma Sulkowicz is on the cover of this month’s New York Magazine and that is the coolest thing wow