Trans-Inclusionary Radical Feminist! Bisexual! A Woman! Non Binary! A Woman again! Ultimatly a gender abolitionist, and i think that non-conformity will push us away from the binary and hopefully patriarchy. Fuck em up kids!
Hey everyone! I'm new to tumblr, im desperate to find some like minded tirfs out there! terfism just ain't my thing, and I violently oppose anyone who'd spread hate to the trans people in my life. I believe that fucking with the gender binary wether that's switching sides or ending somewhere in the middle is a subversion of patriarchal expectation of gender and is therefore the key in eventually abolishing gender. I think embracing the gender binary is a big fat no for me dawg, as much as I do see women as a class and men as the oppressing class. I support women, nonbinary people, and non-dominant men. I believe that our cultures current perception of gender could be boiled down to an extinction burst, we're fucking with gendered categories until they mean nothing. When faced with misogyny, I understand sticking your ground within your womanhood. I understand being enthralled and captured and full of resentment and love for womanhood, but I don't think effectual gatekeeping is the response. Gendered socialization is real, and I think everyone needs to raise their consciousness of it and unlearn it. I think it should be a part of womanhood, wether that's trans women or cis women. I'm very very anti-sex work, porn, surrogacy, very anti exploitation of women. I'm anti femicide, I'm anti trans and cis women dying.
What is a "non dominant man"? Do you mean sexist/misogynistic men, and/or or men who subscribe to toxic masculinity and/or men who support the patriarchy?
If we're breaking down gender as we properly should, then we have to acknowledge that if we think "dominant women" are cool and strong and "girlboss", then we can't say that same behavior is "bad" when men do it...
because we're fighting to say there's no difference between men and women, male and female.
i mean men who’ve been sexually assaulted by other men, in short. I’m a proud dworkin-loving man hater. i’m well aware that all men purport and benefit from patriarchy regardless of other class factors. but i do know men who —from a distance— support radical feminist ideology. it feels very wrong in my bones to even like, defend men? and i’m not doing that, i’d like to make it clear. feminism should never center men, nor will it benefit men as a social class. centralizing men in feminism is to defang it entirely. men’s issues aren’t mine. i’m not sure however the perspective you’re coming from. is it one of gender abolitionism? if so, how so? do you aim to dissolve sex as well as gender? do you believe that a strict adherence to gender norms is the way to consolidate that? or are you also of the understanding that non conformity the solution? you say there’s no difference between women and men? how so? there are distinct biological difference that should be centred in the creation of any society of equity, such as women needing menstrual leave. also the distinction between male and female socialization is the very thing is distain, that all feminists aught to. so when you say there’s no difference, with respect, what the hell do you mean?
A society that tolerates prostitution is an inhumane society. Not only are the direct victims (those who are trafficked and brought) harmed but women and children as a whole. As long as one dominant group (men) can buy the body of another, women will all be the “purchaseable sex”.
Any man who used me, moulded me into his perfect little fuck toy, instructed me to shave my legs, wear this, wear that, 'just try!' a blowjob even though just the thought would make me wretch and gag
Any man who saw me simply for my beauty, my innocence, my naivety, my young appearance, my neediness
You the devil on earth. Each of you. You take what isn't yours and destroy it, bend it till it breaks
May 2024 bring suffering to you all, while I reclaim my happiness and reclaim my body.
Men don’t call women sluts because of stigma around sex, they call women sluts because they hate women! “Sex positivity” or whatever is doing nothing to address the fact that men hate women! You can have as much sex as you want and talk about it as much as you want and “normalize” doing what men already expect of you as much as you want and it will not change the fact that Men Hate Women!
Has sexually assaulted, verbally abused and harassed several women. Strangled his ex. Shot a dog to "get in character for a movie". Has cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had and knowlingly given them STDs.
Elvis Presley (Singer)
Has sexually assaulted several underage girls (as young as 14) and married one of them. A woman his own age was deemed "too old for him". He only wanted to have sex with virgin girls. When his young bride told him she didn't love him anymore and wanted separation, he became extremely violent and raped her.
Dustin Hoffman (actor)
Has sexually harassed and assaulted mutliple women including a minor.
There's always more...
Cuba Jr Gooding (actor)
Has raped multiple women and no less than 30 women have come forward accusing him of sexual asssault.
Mel Gibson (actor, director)
Beat his wife and harassed his daughter.
Jared Leto (Singer,actor)
Has sexually harassed and raped several uderage girls.
Roman Polanski (Director, actor)
Has raped multiple women and children. Has admitted to drugging and raping a 13 years old then fled to France to escape justice. People still work with him and he's still receiving awards.
Armie Hammer (Actor of "Call me by your name")
Has raped multiple women and violently assaulted them. Has an obsession with dismembering women and cannibalism. Sent a series of texts to his ex saying he was masturbating while picturing himself breaking her bones. Actor Robert Downey Jr has paid for his "rehab" and offered him to live in one of his houses.
Ben Affleck (actor, director)
Has sexually assaulted two women.
Casey Affleck (actor)
Has sexually harassed and assaulted many women.
Gerard Depardieu (Actor)
Has sexually harassed, abused or raped at least 13 women and is currently being investigated for it.
Snoop Dogg (Rapper)
Used to be a human trafficker driving around with a van full of girls he would sell to men, sometimes to a whole athlete team. He claimed he could have sex with any of the prostituted women he owned anytime he wanted. He was married at the time. He wrote multiple rap songs about beating up women to make sure we're kept under control, calling us sexist slurs. He was recently accused of sexual assault by multiple back up dancers.
Charlie Chaplin (actor)
Raped a child and got her pregnant. At the age of 48 he married a 18 years old girl.
There's always more...
David Bowie (singer)
Raped a 15 years old girl when he was 25 and committed statutory rape on a 14 years old when he was 17. He's been well known for preying on minors well into his 40s.
Jack Nicholson
After raping 2 prostituted women he refused to pay them. He beat them up and tried to kill one who ended up at the hospital.
Donald Trump (US president)
Has sexually harassed and assaulted multiple women.
Vincent Van Gogh (painter)
Has harassed and assaulted multiple women, even following them home. A petition was therefore created by the locals to have him removed from the community and put in a hospital.
Sylvester Stallone (actor)
Raped a 16 years old girl.
James Franco (actor)
Has sexually harassed and assaulted multiple women and a minor. He would use his "acting lessons" and classes to manipulate his female students into doing sexual things.
Chris Brown (singer)
Beat his partner black and blue and raped another woman.
Freud (psychoanalyst)
Has facillitated the sexual abuse and rape of his female patients, some were children, protected rapists and participated in the disfigurment of a female patient in particular. He claimed his reluctant female patients were hysterical, lesbians and witches.
Marlon Brando (actor) et Bernardo Bertolucci (director)
Both raped an actress on set.
There's always more...
Dominique Strauss-Kahn (politician, formally head of the monetary fund)
Has sexually harassed multiple women and raped a roomkeeper at the hotel he was staying in.
Johnny Depp (actor)
Has been arrested multiple times for violence. Has raped and beaten his ex wife and called her a whore (among other things), notably commenting on the "fishy" smell of her vulva and writing about how he wants to kill and rape her to death.
Emile Hirsche (actor)
Assaulted a female collegue. She was a film executive and he strangled her before throwing her on the ground.
Woody Allen (director)
Has assaulted and raped multiple women, including his adoptive daughter who was 7. People still work with him and he's still receiving awards.
Cee Lo Green (singer)
Has raped a woman and explained on twitter that it wasn't rape, because "if the woman is unconscious it implies consent".
Nicholas Cage (actor)
Beat his wife.
Terrence Howard (acteur)
Beat his wife and threatened to kill another woman.
Tupac (rapper)
Raped a woman.
Luc Besson (director)
Married a 16 years old girl and beat her. Raped another woman and sexually harassed several others. Despite this, many famous actors still work for him.
There's always more...
Ike Turner (musician)
Beat his wife.
Mike Tyson (boxer)
Beat his wife and raped a woman.
Sean Penn (actor)
Beat his wife.
Tariq Ramadan (theologist)
Has raped and sexually harassed multiple women.
Morgan Freeman (actor)
Has sexually harassed at least 15 women.
Charlie Sheen (actor)
Beat his wife.
Nelly (singer)
Has raped and sexually assaulted several women.
Steven Seagal (actor)
Beat his wife. Sexually assaulted several female collegues.
Mickey Rourke (actor)
Beat his wife.
There's always more...
Slash (musician)
Beat his wife.
Louis C.K (comedian)
Has sexually harassed multiple women.
Christian Slater (actor)
Beat his wife.
Victor Hugo (poet)
Raped prostituted women on the regular and was abusing his wife.
Quentin Tarantino (director)
Has sexually harassed multiple women and protected several rapists.
When discussing what Roman Polanski did (drugging and sodomizing a 13 years old girl) Tarantino said it wasn't rape, that the child wanted it, that the child was Polanski's girlfriend, that an actual rape is violent and that this one wasn't. When the radio hosts told him that the girl was clear about not wanting any of what happened, Tarantino responded that her interfering mother had coached her to say that.
Yanni (musician)
Beat his wife.
Michael Douglas (actor)
Sexually harassed a woman.
Josh Brolin (actor)
Beat his wife.
Cristiano Ronaldo (footballer)
Raped a woman.
There's always more...
R Kelly (singer)
Raped and tortured many, many girls.
Franck Ribéry, Karim Benzema et Sidney Govou (footballers)
Acted as pimps and sexually exploited a minor.
Joe Biden (USA president)
Has sexually harassed several women and girls.
Seal (singer)
Has sexually assaulted a woman.
Julian Assange (whistleblower)
Has raped multiple women. Assange has written about his obsession with impregnating virgin women and he has alread impregnated several women (who are now single mothers). The rapes he's accused of all involved him trying to impregnate the women without their kowing. He is a fervant anti-feminist and racist. He's still supported by most of the left and celebrated as a hero.
Michael Fassbender (actor)
Assaulted his ex multiple times. One time he threw her and dragged her alongside their car. Her injuries included a swollen ankle, a burst ovarian cyst, a broken nose, and a blown out kneecap.
Oscar Pistorius (athlete)
While his wife had taken refuge in the bathroom he shot 4 times through the door with a gun, effectively killing her. He'll be out of prison next year after spending 10 years behind bars.
Morgan Ciprès (figure skater)
Sexually harassed a 13 years old via messaging.
Joaquin Phoenix (acteur)
Has sexually harassed multiple women.
Kurt Cobain (singer)
Tried to rape a mentally disabled girl, a "retard" as he'd say, but gave up because her "vagina" smelled too bad. Later the girl's father came to find him and screamed that he had taken advantage of his daughter. Cobain was therefore nicknamed the "retard fucker" by his classmates.
Not letting your daughters develop a creep alarm is abuse.
Not teaching your daughter to uphold her boundaries when men make her feel uncomfortable is abuse.
Insisting your daughter be polite to creepy family members is abuse.
Expecting your daughter to cuddle and kiss family friends she barely knows is abuse.
You know one day you will be sending an eighteen year old girl into a world full of rapists, weirdos and creeps. You are intentionally training her to ignore her instinct to pull away from these men and intilling one where she puts male comfort over her own safety.
You know that dangerous men take advantage of the way women are socialised to be polite at all costs, to never even give a man a hint that they think he's a little bit creepy, and you are teaching her to behave in exactly the way these men look for in a mark.
She will go to college one day. Just her and 10,000 20 year old men. Do you really think the purity culture narrative you have instilled in her is going to protect her if she's drunk at a party and is starting to feel unsafe, when you've taught her that her saftey comes second to male comfort?
She will have a job one day. How hard do you think it's going to be for her to navigate creepy advances in a professional setting if you've taught her she's being rude when she so much as tells a man he's making her uncomfortable?
You have 18 short years to instill into her a sense of caution and a firmness in her boundaries that for the rest of her life the society she lives in will try to beat out of her. You know she won't learn it later if you don't teach her now.
You're intentionally setting her up for an adult life of silently witnessing her own abuse, why? So you don't have to have a slightly awkward conversation about no meaning no with another grown adult? So your perfectly obedient child can be used as an entertainment accessory at family gatherings? I'd genuinely like to know what the reasoning is to intentionally endanger your child by teaching her to be perfect prey to violent men for the rest of her life.
i went to buy this nail primer/oil for my nails from the brand i Always go to, i read the 1 star reviews and found that the second ingredient in it was Bisphenol A… they included a pic of the ingredient list from a pamphlet inside the packaging. anyways. not buying it now. but i checked the rest of the nail polishes that i have from that brand and none of them have it in there. they’re specifically listed as non-toxic and it says all the shit they DONT have in there. sometimes i feel like we never really graduated from when women would put like arsenic and mercury on their faces and i feel like i’m a part of the problem
every day i see more and more depraved content coming from men toward women, more and more vitriol and hatred and explicit wishes for the destruction of women. men posting their misogynistic fantasies about how much they want to rape, damage, and kill women. and somewhere, somehow, there will be someone arguing about how this is women’s fault because we’re driving society to fail our lost little boys, we’re not socializing them well enough, they’re being left behind while we move ahead (no explanation for how these two threads are meant to connect). no punchline, i just want to get away from it all sometimes. there is apparently nothing a man can do to women that can’t be explained by women not coddling them enough.
Hey everyone! I'm new to tumblr, im desperate to find some like minded tirfs out there! terfism just ain't my thing, and I violently oppose anyone who'd spread hate to the trans people in my life. I believe that fucking with the gender binary wether that's switching sides or ending somewhere in the middle is a subversion of patriarchal expectation of gender and is therefore the key in eventually abolishing gender. I think embracing the gender binary is a big fat no for me dawg, as much as I do see women as a class and men as the oppressing class. I support women, nonbinary people, and non-dominant men. I believe that our cultures current perception of gender could be boiled down to an extinction burst, we're fucking with gendered categories until they mean nothing. When faced with misogyny, I understand sticking your ground within your womanhood. I understand being enthralled and captured and full of resentment and love for womanhood, but I don't think effectual gatekeeping is the response. Gendered socialization is real, and I think everyone needs to raise their consciousness of it and unlearn it. I think it should be a part of womanhood, wether that's trans women or cis women. I'm very very anti-sex work, porn, surrogacy, very anti exploitation of women. I'm anti femicide, I'm anti trans and cis women dying.
Nothing is more upsetting than being with a group of women who are bending over backward to defend watching porn. Girls are DYING and if they survive they live in a world that dismisses them and prolongs the nightmare. And yall are siding with the fucking men who torture us! These are your sisters and you latch on to these voyeuristic freaks who would gleefully masturbate to your corpse.
this is why it’s so important for feminists to talk about motherhood as well, instead of just saying “everyone should be child free” and leaving it at that. this is a HORRIBLE double standard that i’ve even noticed with my parents (my mom works during the day and dad stays home). when my mom is sick, she still does what needs done. my dad, however, hides in his room and ignores all responsibilities. it has nothing to do with who does the majority of the household duties and everything to do with male vs. female socialization.
