Caregiver Survey: For Your Little
This survey is intended to open a discussion between you and your little, whether you’ve been together a long time, just met, are considering a relationship, are a couple new to CG/l, or anything in between. The Caregiver(s) fill out this survey, and the little(s) fill out this one: http://mermaids-mommy.tumblr.com/post/136030705347/little-survey-for-your-caregiver Then, compare answers and discuss.
REMEMBER, your answers should not be set in stone (other than your limits!) and should hopefully begin an ongoing dialogue with your little about your needs, wants, and limits.
What does Caregiver space mean to you?
How often are you in Caregiver space? Is it dependent on your little being in little space?
Are you sexual in Caregiver space?
Would you be able to be with a little who was sexual (if you aren’t) or wasn’t sexual (if you are)?
What do you need in a little?
Do you play with your little?
Will you read to your little?
Are you open to watching little movies and shows with your little?
What kind of accessories are you familiar with? Pacis? Special clothes?
Are you interested in feeding your little? Making certain little foods? Cutting up their food? Preparing their meals?
What is your ideal bedtime routine?
What is your ideal bath time routine?
Does your little have to be potty trained? Does your little have to wear diapers?
How would you deal with a temper tantrum?
How would you deal with an upset little?
How would you comfort your little?
How would you calm your little down?
What level of public vs private little behavior are you okay with?
Are you open to using a “punishment” which your little actually enjoys to punish “bad” behavior that isn’t considered true misbehaving?
Are you accustomed to any rules?
What kinds of rules do you want to try?
What rules do you not mind enforcing?
What rules do you hate enforcing?
What are your rule hard limits?
Are you accustomed to any punishments?
What kind of punishments do you want to try?
What is a minor punishment to you?
What is a major punishment to you?
What punishments do you not mind enforcing?
What punishments do you hate enforcing?
What are your punishment hard limits?
Would you utilize a reward system for good behavior?