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abusers be like “um yeah i abused you but you breathed weird that one time so of course i had to punish you”

hi reminder that traumacore isn’t an aesthetic or romanticism. it’s vent art n a form of coping, artistic expression isn’t glorification, just because someone makes art out of their struggles n trauma doesn’t mean they’re glorifying it. STOP telling trauma survivors n those with mental disorders that their form of coping is ‘wrong’, STOP telling them that they cannot put their feelings into art. traumacore is a healthy coping mechanism so stop dictating those who use it. it’s invalidating and disgusting, shut up n mind ur own fuckin business.

traumatizeddfox

“IMAgine if ur MOM ABORTED U!!” lmao i wish she fucking did wouldve saved her some peace and i wouldn’t have trauma

#my dad once told me my aunt almost made my mom abort me #this almost happened

I'm struggling to come to terms with extent of my family's fuckery. My dad is pro-pedophilia and my mom basically thinks being a mom means she doesn't need to respect consent I was never raped or molested as a child but I've been touched in ways that made me uncomfortable and for years I felt that my body belonged to my parents and not me. I'm 21 now and my mom still wants to control how I look like and what I do with my body I feel violated quite often. Not in a sexual way but an emotional way My parents have left me traumatized and unstable. I'm genuinely afraid of them sometimes, I'm afraid they're gonna find a new way to hurt me and dominate me My mom makes me feel dirty. When she pays attention to me I have this sick feeling in my stomach. It's gross I wish there was something I could do to leave this place. I literally hate my parents so much that it hurts

#tw vent #vent #trauma vent #parental abuse

traumatizeddfox

people who are anti traumacore be like umm talking about your trauma is bad for your healing anyways go to therapy

doll-fae-deactivated20221111

people on here be like “i made a blog for trauma victims to help recover- but also DNI if you are a trauma victim and vent about what happened to you <//3″

like im sorry but if my TRAUMA offends you but you wanna try to act like me venting is “negativity”- then clearly you don’t give a shit about trauma victims.

the whole point about healing is realizing what happened, understanding how it wasnt your fault, and moving past it. but moving past it isn’t IGNORING it and pretending you can’t vent about your frustrations. that’s what non trauma victims try to shame us about all the time?? and you are literally repeating their behavior???

everyone isnt happy 24/7. traumacore is literally vent art. trauma venting is venting. and to say that is “anti recovery” is fucking gross.

thats literally like saying “hey man, dont talk about how much you hated what happened and how you feel- thats too depressing!” like shut up. trauma is a depressing thing.

whatever happened to “its okay to vent!!” ??? you want me to harm myself instead? is that what you are telling people? because that’s what’s gonna happen.

trauma venting is L I T E R A L L Y harmless. its a harmless coping skill. yeah others might get upset over it but you can’t make a blog meant for TRAUMA VICTIMS and then shame the ones who vent about their trauma. thats where i draw the line.

ablednt

Honestly i hate how not being self depreciating (and coping techniques like saying thank you instead of sorry, saying the opposite of what you feel to trick your brain, etc.) stopped being a genuine suggestion for people who want to get better and became an obligation to be a good person.

Let me be frank with you no one is toxic because they self depreciate. No one is toxic because they're genuinely suicidal. No one is toxic because they're open about their negative emotions and aren't forcing themselves to be happy. No one is toxic for liking traumacore or for self harming or for anything that y'all have decided in your toxic ass positivity circles is a "red flag"

Yes, those things aren't good to be. Yes there are toxic people who are also all these things. And Yes we should encourage people to try and improve their outlook but so many of y'all are forcing people to hide their pain lest they be painted as toxic.

Also stop saying shit like "they don't want to get better" you don't fucking know that maybe, just possibly, you trying to pressure them into helping because you internalized somewhere that violating mentally ill people's autonomy is necessary isn't helping them. Maybe they want to get better but the solutions your offering don't work for them.

Y'all in recovery spaces will say you don't stigmatize mental illnesses but then you'll call any sign of a stigmatized disorder toxic anyway.

It's fine to set boundaries like, "hey tag traumacore stuff it triggers me." Or "hey can you vent to someone else I'm not able to help sorry" and "please don't joke about suicide around me it makes my suicidal ideation act up."

But it's not okay to call someone toxic or "anti-recovery" for just existing.

aliengelic-princess

This post that's like 'let make really edgy traumacore edits about eating a cheese when ur lactose intolerant 🤣' makes me so angry. I mean, I'm so sorry that my way of coping with being neglected, abused and abandonned as a child and suffering psychological and sexual trauma as an adult is *too edgy* for you, you're totally entitled to expect whatever I create to deal with those inherently negative and ugly feelings to be more palatable to you, so sorry about that....

(Also before anyone tries I've seen op justify themselves and I don't know what bothers me more, the 'well I have trauma too so I'm allowed to say what I want about other people's coping mechanism' or the 'well I guess those people are allowed to make traumacore edits as long as it's not all of their life uwu' -first of all I didn't asked for your permission and second of all bold of you to assume that someone's trauma blog is the entirety of who they are and of what they do-)

rottingashes

hate anti traumacore people i saw someone in the tags try to claim we r profiting off of this and retraumatizing csa victims. guess what im broke and make 0 money off of this + I'm a fucking csa victim. if you dont like my blog, block it. i dont give two shits. i come here to vent and express myself and thats what most other traumacore blogs are doing too. fuck off out of our tags and learn to use the block button

keibay

MAY AS WELL PUT A TWITTER DUMP TOO we got: THE KANETETS we got: THE KANEKEI we got: THE KANETETS w

qifreyplushie

they're dumb

psych0zero

You Guys could have just been friends and talked it out fuck you.

phoebejaysims

Bubble Baths Run Out

For over a decade, bubble baths have lived as immortals in our save games. Enough is enough!

Not only do bubble bath bottles have a (tunable) limited use, by default: 15, now, they even smell good!

There are 3 types: scent free, rose scented and lemon scented. Buy a bottle or two from the grocery store, bathroom/accents or plumbing/misc. and put them in your bathroom to get started.

If you have multiple bottles in your bathroom, once your sim starts their bath, they will pick a random bottle to use. So, if there’s a specific scent that you want to make off-limits, either take it out of the room or put it in a sim/object inventory.

All bubble baths will give your sims a custom 2hr ‘Took Bubble Bath’ buff.

- Scent-free bottles have no extra added buff but snob sims will receive a negative ‘Bubble Residue’ buff once ‘Took Bubble Bath’ wears off.

- Rose scented bottles give a ‘Smells Like Rose’ buff and remove ‘aching back’ and ‘buzzed’. Others near your sim will receive a positive ‘Roses are red’ buff, just by proximity. Rose scented bottles also decrease your sim’s energy level slightly.

- Lemon scented bottles give a positive ‘Lemon Squeasy’ buff and remove ‘buzz crashed’. Others near your sim will receive a positive ‘mm lemons’ buff unless they are grumpy or mean-spirited, in which case they’ll receive a negative buff. Nobody is allowed to smell like lemons but them!

Bubble baths use up 1 ‘dose’ of bubble bath solution. However, once the ‘took bubble bath’ buff wears off, if your sim is still in the bath, you best believe they’ll be using up another dose!

Have fun taking bubble baths! And if you play rotationally, have fun finding out which bottles other sims are bathing with! You can extend the buff lengths if you wish by editing the XML.

Conflicts: Mod-wise, none. Object-wise, there is an optional default replacement package for the original EA bubble bath, so if you download that, make sure you don’t already have a default replacement installed. Ps. this mod is also base game compatible.

Download:

Simfileshare: http://simfileshare.net/folder/167205/

Modthesims: later

Feedback Thanks: @bietjie, @misspats3, @desiree-uk, and Sonya A. for the testing, feedback and ideas!

Translating Thanks: @misspats3 for providing the French translation of the mod, @greenplumbboblover for the Dutch translation and @simbouquet for the Spanish translation!

Object Thanks: @aroundthesims for the bottle meshes which I used.

I hope I haven’t missed out anybody!

Thank you in advance to all those who will download and use this mod! I plan to add more scents in the future so stay tuned!

#mods #ts3 #ts3cc #s3cc #mods:other #tagged by @katsujiiccfinds