milk teeth

no thank you, turkish, I'm salty enough

[feefal]

Do u got any art tips

this one tweet changed my life actually.

[steamandcream]

thinking about how when you experience a lot of shame in your formative years (indirectly, directly, as abuse or just as an extant part of your environment) it becomes really difficult to be perceived by other people in general. the mere concept of someone watching me do anything, whether it's a totally normal activity or something unfamiliar of embarrassing, whether I'm working in an excel spreadsheet or being horny on main, it just makes my skin crawl and my brain turn to static because I cannot convince myself that it's okay to be seen and experienced. because to exist is to be ashamed and embarrassed of myself, whether I'm failing at something or not, because my instinctive reaction to anyone commenting on ANYTHING I'm doing is to crawl into a hole and die. it's such a bizarre and dehumanizing feeling to just not be able to exist without constantly thinking about how you are being Perceived. ceaseless watcher give me a god damn break.

[steamandcream]

sorry to put your tags on blast on this insane breach containment post I have since muted, but you're right and you should say it.

It is defeatable. Go for the throat.

[donutdrawsthings]

my most sick and twisted fantasy

[heyatleastitsnotcancer]

Regular reminder that you don't have the right to someone else's medical information.

You don't have the right to ask them what's wrong with them, what happened, why they need an accommodation, and so on.

You may be curious but it doesn't mean you're entitled to the information.

Stop asking. Stop pressuring. Respect people's boundaries. Respect our autonomy.

[melasoneiroi]

And yes, that also applies to requests for reasonable housing accommodation in the US!!

While a disabled tenant does need to:

state they are disabled

explain how their disability impacts their daily life (as it pertains to their ability to fully and equitably enjoy their home/the reason for accommodation)

and detail the exact nature of the accommodation

…they do NOT have to disclose their protected medical information in order to be granted accommodation.

A landlord may NOT:

ask about the nature or severity of your disability

demand the disclosure of any diagnoses or medications

request medical records

demand you submit the request through any specific means (many landlords illegally demand the use of submission forms with invasive questions; automatically denying incomplete forms or requests made through any other means)

Note: however, a landlord MAY be allowed to ask for “supporting evidence” to clarify that you meet the Fair Housing definition of disability, IF the disability is not readily apparent. This could include a letter from a doctor, case worker, therapist, even a family member or friend, etc, corroborating your disability and need for accommodation. But even a doctor’s note still shouldn’t include sensitive medical information like diagnoses, medications, etc

[disclaimer: I’m not a lawyer or anything, just a disabled tenant who was forced to become knowledgeable on disabled tenants’ rights. Do not take this as legal advice. For more information, check your state’s HUD/FHEO or Civil Rights Commission; or find a local Disability Rights Organization for advice and support. You deserve accommodation.]

[only-cat-memes]

[shuckstruck]

where’s that justin mcelroy post when i need it

[shuckstruck]

[blossomfully]

“And,“ she said, “if you have someone who stays up with you in the middle of the night to make sure you’re okay - somebody who answers your calls at 2 or 3 or 4am - someone who listens to your sobs, or your silence, or your words with patience, you have somebody who loves you. And you’re lucky for it. And no matter how dark things get, you shouldn’t forget that.”

— Sue Zhao (via blossomfully)

[melasoneiroi]

years

i don’t even know how long I’ve been gone. i couldn’t be in my brain for years. it’s like walking into your childhood home, abandoned and dusty and nauseating.

I was in an inescapable abusive relationship. I had to stay with him for survival. I became lonelier. The abuser took advantage of that. I asked my friends for help with the abuse. They abandoned me. I became lonelier. The abuser took advantage of that. I tried making new friends. The abuse made me too much of a burden. I became lonelier. The abuser took advantage of that.

It got dark. It got as dark as my vision when he choked me out. Gasping for breath, barely squeaking out “I can’t breathe”. His arm around my neck, telling me he isn’t even touching me.

He punished me for seeking help from the domestic violence networks. He punished me for telling anyone what he did.

I was that frog in boiling water. He didn’t choke me day one, he made sure I was completely alone first. He made sure I had no resources to survive without him, he made sure I had no safety networks. Nobody to hear me say “I can’t breathe”.

Then I finally got disability pay, even if it wasn’t enough to make it own my own, even if I still didn’t have the physical or mental help I needed, at least I could finally get out. I’ve been in a trauma center for 3/4 of a year. I found new people who actually love me. I’m finally allowed back in my own head.

I used to miss the people who left. I hope they get right fucked. If you find this, sometime in the future, and you think this is about you- it is. Your hands helped his. Your hands tightened his grip.

I’m finally back, and I’m not fucking around.

[cameme-desmoulins]

heads up my brother made a Lego guillotine

[goodbyeeveryonepeacendblessings]

where’s that video of the naked crackhead literally running the speed of a moving car and I use the term literally literally he was deadass keeping up with the car

[goodbyeeveryonepeacendblessings]

[signlesstheredbloodedtroll]

Hi! Humans don’t have an eye shine, so that’s not a person!

[legitimatelala]

😨

[nyanbinyuri]

[supernaturaltakeover]

I’ve never laughed so hard so quickly

[itwashotwestayedinthewater]

whats wrong with you? you got some sort of……..some sorta syndrome? you got a syndrome or something? youre tryna tell me youve got like, a syndrome

[itwashotwestayedinthewater]

[goes to doctor]: whats wrong with me doc. tell me the ‘prognosis’ doctor: well, its looking as if you have some kind of syndrome [thinking] hmm.. thats not good

[quinndolyns-deactivated20220403]

i diagnose you with symptoms syndrome

[quinndolyns-deactivated20220403]

sorry to say but it seems you’ve got problems disorder

[picsthatmakeyougohmm]

hmmm

[mega-bitchass]

Anyone else hear that beat drop in their head or just me

[melasoneiroi]

View this post on Instagram

walking into the club like, what up i got eds [video description: Troy James dressed in a suit contorting and dancing in a myriad of poses as an advertisement for stretchy-fabric suits]

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My favorite behind the scenes clip from the making of The Descent

[impotsiblelife]

Sometimes, when you’re chronically ill, you have to do things that seem “selfish.” You can’t do favors for anyone else because you don’t have the energy. You have to take that last seat on the subway instead of leaving it for someone else. You might have to apply for public assistance because you can’t work anymore. You’ll definitely have to ask the people around you for a lot more help than you used to need. 

That’s all OK. You shouldn’t feel guilty about any of it. You’re not selfish, you’re sick. 

[melasoneiroi]

does anyone else have Depression Hair™ like, i usually have bright colors and bold styles and then depression hits and suddenly it’s 5 months later and my hair is just Black and Long and Shitty

[lisasterle]

Modern Witch Tarot Deck Q & A

Will there be a full deck?  -100% yes. I’ve found a publisher, more details soon!

When will it be released?  -No exact date yet, sadly. Designing 78 cards takes time, but I’m working as fast as I can!

Will there be an accompanying book? -Most likely there will be.

Sorry to everyone interested that I can’t give more specific answers yet! I promise I’ll post more info when I have things solidly in place. Progress is slow at the moment because I can only work on these cards in my spare time, but that will change in the upcoming months.

And thanks for the support! In the meantime, you can always purchase prints of the cards at my web store!