MELL/NIPOWIN

me coining stuff! queer stuff, alter stuff, otherkin stuff!! just stuff!!!!!

[mellow-queer]

Intro post !! 🕷️

[PT: Intro post !!]

This is a coining blog !

- For : Xenogenders, orientations, presentation labels, alter roles, otherkin identities, etc !! Feel free to send requests or suggestions !!

- Not for : TransIDs other than transspecies, MUDs, anything NSFW, anything fandom related

It/its + Nonhuman or Masculine terms !!

Mellohi/Nipowin !! Mell or Mellow are also fine :3

Tag Guide :

🕷️ Spiderpunk -> Complete coining posts, meaning there is a flag, a name, a definition, image IDs and proper tags

🕷️ Spiderman -> Incomplete coining posts, usually older posts, missing image IDs, alt text and/or a proper definition

🕷️ Spidergirl -> Reblogs of terms from other blogs

🕷️ Symbiote -> Answering asks that aren't requests / Text posts

DID system with autism, schizoaffective disorder, aspd and npd. Please don't use tone tags in asks, we find them condescending and entirely not useful !!

We are indigenous, Metis and Christian !! We will probably coin terms related to those experiences. Any term coined related to Christianity will be tagged #cw christian imagery !!

Main is mellohi-in-death !!

Do Not Follow / Comment :

- Syscourse Focused blogs

- Discourse blogs

- Radqueers + Adjacent

You are still free to reblog and like my posts, and use my terms, and even send requests on anon, but I would rather avoid public interactions !!

Insta Block :

- Terfs/Transmeds

- Transphobes (Transmysogynists, Transandrophobes, Exorsexists, etc)

- Fakeclaimers (Including aggressive Anti Endos. If you harass people, you're getting blocked)

- S/H or ED blogs

If you must use my terms, screenshot them and post them to your own blog

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[moremarriott]

　⸺　　꩜　꒰ DTTDALBUMIC ꒱

a label which the user is impacted by , explained by , or otherwise connected in some way to the album don't tell the dog by james marriott . or whatever that means to the user .

　　╋━━　　TAGLIST:　　@britcoins 　　@inkveiledarchive　　@casinogender

[headlightcoining]

holybloodic ; a gender identity related to the blood of animals that are considered "holy" (lambs, doves, etc)

unholybloodic ; a gender identity related to the blood of animals that are considered "unholy" (snakes, goats, etc)

symbols ; 1 , 2

taglist ; @radiomogai @rab-ler @boygirlpetewentz @houndsic

please ask to be tagged or untagged

pt: no dni ; op is pro minding their business

[mellow-queer]

Steve Harrington NPD

[ alt text : Steve Harrington NPD ]

A term for pwNPD who feel that they have NPD in the same way as Steve Harrington from Stranger Things, e.g, beings who feel like their NPD symptoms present in the same way as Steve Harrington is portrayed, beings who relate to Steve Harrington because of their NPD, etc

Exclusive to pwNPD

[ please don't request terms related to media, I don't usually coin media-related terms, this is incredibly self indulgent ]

[Already coined? Consider this an alt term]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

Jonathan Byers Autism

[ alt text : Jonathan Byers Autism ]

A term for individuals who feel that they have autism in the same way as Jonathan Byers from Stranger Things has autism, e.g beings who experience their autism in a way that presents similarly to the way Jonathan Byers is portrayed, beings who see themselves in Jonathan Byers because of their autism, etc

Exclusive to individuals with autism

[ please don't request terms related to media, I don't usually coin media-related terms, this is incredibly self indulgent ]

[Already coined? Consider this an alt term]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[tired-of-white-cunts-deactivate]

Amose

An identity label similar to auto-attraction that refers to loving oneself or other versions of oneself.

The entomology comes from amos, a latin term for “love, affection, beloved,” and se, a latin third-person reflexive pronoun for “self.”

Pronounced "ah-mo-say."

Examples include but are not limited to:

Auto-attraction to oneself.

A selfshipper who is fictionkin with their f/o.

A relationship between those who share a kintype/alterhuman identity.

A relationship between two headmates of the same introject. (Can be a sys4sys or in-system relationship.)

A relationship between someone who shares a kintype/alterhuman identity that matches the identity of an introject in a system. (Can be a singlet4sys, sys4sys or in-system relationship.)

I originally coined this term on  September 14th, 2023 from an abandoned blog.

[radiomogai]

[PT: Amose. End PT]

[mellow-queer]

Mentiorempath NPD [ Mentior - Lie in Latin ]

A pwNPD who considers themselves superior to their peers because of their ability to fake empathy, emotional and/or cognitive. They may specifically feel superior to other individuals with low/no empathy, or superior to others in general because of their ability to seem empathetic, and may feel like people envy their ability to feign empathy

Exclusive to pwNPD [and very self indulgent]

[Already coined? Consider this an alt term]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

PDlover / PD-Lover 🕷️

Template for the PDlover flags so that people can coin their own versions with whichever personality disorder they want

"PDlover" is a term generally meaning individuals who love a lot of people in a way that they feel comes from their personality disorder

Anyone can use these (with the exception of "transPDs") but I would love to be tagged if you coin your own term just because I'd love to see it

[mellow-queer]

maybe dependent-lover please ? when you love a lot of people because of your dpd and desire for a support system ? thank you and no worries if not

Dependantlover / Dependant-Lover

A label for pwDPD who feel like they love strongly and loudly in a way that's inherently dependent. Someone who is a "Lover" in a way only someone who's dependent could be

For example :

- Someone who loves a lot of people in hopes of building a strong support system

- Etc

Exclusive to pwDPD

[Already coined? Consider this an alt flag]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

Avoidantlover / Avoidant-Lover

A label for pwAvPD who feel like they love strongly and loudly in a way that's inherently avoidant. Someone who is a "Lover" in a way only someone who's avoidant could be

For example:

- Someone who loves a lot of people because they're a group of secure people that the pwAvPD feels like won't judge them

- Someone who loves a lot of people because they have an easy time gaining safe people and love all of their safe people

- Etc

Exclusive to pwAvPD

Coined for my partner ♥️

[Already coined? Consider this an alt flag]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

Narclover / Narc-Lover 🕷️

A label for pwNPD who feel like they love strongly and loudly in a way that's inherently narcissistic. Someone who is a "Lover" in a way only a narcissist could be

For example:

- Someone who loves a lot of people because they enjoy the feeling of being loved back

- Someone who loves a lot of people because they love everyone who admires them and they feel like a lot of people admire them

- Etc

Borderlinelover / Borderline-Lover 🕷️

A label for pwBPD who feel like they love strongly and loudly in a way that's inherently borderline. Somehow who is a "Lover" in a way only someone who is borderline could be

For example :

- Someone who loves a lot of people because they feel like being surrounded by many people makes abandonment less painful

- Someone who loves a lot of people because they gain fps very easily and they love all of their fps

- Etc

Exclusive to pwNPD and/or pwBPD

[Already coined? Consider these alt flags]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

Apita-Iskwew [ Apita - Demi in Atikamekw ][ Iskwew - Woman in Atikamekw ] 🕷️

A gender describing the experience of an Atikamekw individual who feels that their identity as a woman is partially influenced by being Atikamekw, that they are a woman in a partially Atikamekw way, either because of the way their culture influences their gender or just the way they perceive their own feminine identity

Apita-Napew [ Napew - Man in Atikamekw ]

A gender describing the experience of an Atikamekw individual who feels that their identity as a man is partially influenced by being Atikamekw, that they are a man in a partially Atikamekw way, either because of the way their culture influences their gender or just the way they perceive their own masculine identity

Exclusive to Atikamekw individuals

(If you know the language better than I do and notice any mistakes in the words I used, please let me know! I'm not as familiar with Atikamekw as I'd like to be)

[Similar term already coined? There isn't, I've looked, but I appreciate the enthusiasm]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

Femidynatá [Dynatá - Loudly/Hard in Greek] 🕷️

A presentation label describing someone whose gendered presentation is strictly and entirely feminine, with no wiggle room, and no changes. Personal definitions of feminine presentation are up to the user. This label has no connections to the users gender, only their presentation

Mascudynatá 🕷️

A presentation label describing someone whose gendered presentation is strictly and entirely masculine, with no wiggle room, and no changes. Personal definitions of masculine presentation are up to the user

[Similar term already coined? Consider this an alternative term]

[Taglist : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

Trashygirl / Trailergirl 🕷️

A feminine gender related to being "trashy", feminine in a way that doesn't feel proper, and instead feels dirty, playful, and cheap. Being a girl in a "tacky" or "tasteless" way. Somewhat related to what people commonly call "white trash", but not necessarily

[Already coined? Consider this an alt flag!]

[Taglist (this is scary ....) : @radiomogai @obscurian ]

[mellow-queer]

Hello, we saw your terms and wanted to know if you knew of a term, or were willing to coin, a term that encompasses the experience I'm about to explain. To try and summarize, my system has two protectors/caretakers but we act in very different ways. While we both take care of the body and system, I do it by taking away/preventing/stopping pain (whether emotional or physical). Oftentimes this involves emotionally dulling and occasionally involves fighting back and getting angry, as the main struggles with that. On the other hand, our other caretaker/protector tries to help the system by adding good things – helping take care of the body physically, getting tasks done and celebrating said tasks, and etc. We both soothe, but our methods of soothing are different.

Sorry, summarizing because we've been yapping! So, I was wondering if you knew or were willing to coin two terms for "helps the system by taking away negatives (in whatever way might be necessary, a la prosecutor and emotional duller + soothing in a rationalizer way)" and "helps the system by providing positives (in whatever way might be necessary, a la task manager and motivator + soothing in a comforting way).

Apologies for long ask!!! We started talking and couldn't stop, nobody wanted to shut up 😭.

-🌕🌻💚

Thetikóstector / Thetikós-Caretaker [Thetikós - Positive in Greek] 🕷️

A protector / caretaker who helps the system / fulfills their role by providing the system with positives [ie : providing motivation to do tasks, taking care of the body, celebration successes, etc]

Anairó̱tector / Anairó̱-Caretaker [Anairó̱ - Negate in Greek] 🕷️

A protector / caretaker who helps the system / fulfills their role by riding the system of negatives that are affecting them [ie : dulling emotions, fighting back against people who are upsetting the system, getting rid of things that are upsetting, etc]

[Sorry about the late response!]

[mellow-queer]

Ambisex / Ambisexué 🕷️

An alternative term synonymous with intersex, for individuals who would describe their sex as ambiguous, who dislike the term intersex for any reason, or who simply want to use an alternative term

Derived from the French "Ambisexué", meaning to have traits from both sexes, making ones sex ambiguous, not to be confused with the English term "Ambisexual", which can also mean "Bisexual"

Intersex exclusive, and incredibly self indulgent

[Already coined? Consider this an alt flag]

[Taglist because I've realized I'm in fact allowed to do this : @radiomogai @obscurian]

[mellow-queer]

Guardian Angel

Apathḗs Protector*

Terms for beings who feel no empathy or sympathy who think or know their purpose in life is to make everyone around them feel happy, loved and cared for. In the case of cluster B PDs, they might only feel this way towards their "special people". This term is exclusive to those with extremely low or no empathy and/or sympathy

Definition applies to both terms

* This term has been edited to add an alternative name and flag unrelated to the Christian idea of angels, or religion in general. This term was originally made for us, and we are Christian, but since the definition is so broad, we felt it was a good idea to add an alternative name and flag with none of those associations

[mellow-queer]

@radiomogai the first version of this term was reblogged, but with how much attention it got, we edited it to add a name and flag unrelated to Christianity, to make it more generally inclusive. We'd really prefer if this version was reblogged instead, if it's not too much to ask