Marwi

🇺🇦 she/her, UKR/ENG | my art blog https://www.tumblr.com/kewriam?source=share art cr: _joviiii & 8mipie

[eboneeblak]

Black femme goths

[perfect-jerry-blossom]

i genuinely can't fucking deal with the larger internet anymore holy shit what the fuck are you people TALKING about. i am at my limit with this stupid bullshit. who the fuck cares if a man is hired to draw medical diagrams for young girls jesus christ we're pearl clutching about medical illustrations now? next you're gonna tell me male pediatricians shouldn't advise parents on their kids' vulva issues? male surgeons shouldn't be in the room when performing a procedure where a woman's breasts or vulva might be exposed? male researchers shouldn't conduct gynecological medical research? sure. better for men to live in ignorance and NEVER ally themselves with us to expand access to sexual education and reproductive healthcare i fucking guess. Twenty thousand likes. i hate it here KILL ME

[perfect-jerry-blossom]

THIS is the post that got me my first ever anon hate. i'd like to thank the academy tbh

also not related but can ppl on this post being like "yeah STOP being mean to men!!" pls stop cuz that's not the point of what i was saying 💀 i'm not mad bc someone was mean to a man i'm mad bc feminism is being hijacked by bioessentialist conservative Christian moralist bullshit where the goal seems to be the complete and total segregation of women from men instead of like, the material improvement of women's lives. i don't care if some intsta commenter is mean to men i care that feminism is culturally turning into Nu Conservatism

[44-axyer-44]

NOTICE FOR PSYCHOTIC PEOPLES LIKE ME AND THE NEW TOMODACHI LIFE: Please please pretty pretty please be careful while playing Living the Dream, esp if you’re currently unmedicated!!!

The game treats the Miis like they’re real people and makes zero mention ever that they are not, and only ever refers to them and their POV as if they are real and you are their caretaker! While playing this honestly messed with my head pretty badly at times and made me worry a lot on if I was hurting real people/not doing enough for real people while I was playing!

I cannot imagine how much worse this would be for someone who’s unmedicated, non-dormant, or experiencing breakthrough symptoms! Do please be careful and PLEASE remember to have a way to reality check yourself while playing the game!!!

Also: If you’re not psychotic, please reblog this anyway!!! It may not seem like a big deal to you but these kinds of things are REALLY important to know for us psychotic folk in a world that is both hostile and negligent to us and our needs!!!

[caine-shrine]

These aren’t the reasons I personally relate to Caine, but I thought I’d pass them along if some of you might need em!

[habijob]

Translation: There might be some memories you haven't processed and healed from yet. You should do that.

[nocommentcat]

"He's so me! "

No, you're just autistic

[sumorunessu]

I hate having an artblock so far :'/ meanwhile, here's some doodles of backup AU Caine of @katzebruh

[cannibal-flowerbomb]

I suggest getting angrier about misogyny.

[cannibal-flowerbomb]

"at least be nice about-" no. Girl. Kill him over it. We're done. It's been centuries of this bullshit since time immemorial and he hasn't learned. Obliterate him.

[spinatstitches]

I hate them SO MUCH!!!!

[gorgeous-in-greenxx]

is this a safe space to say that making jokes about a person's situation after they opened up to you about extreme paranoia/paranoia in general is extremely weird and insensitive

If i were to open up and your first thought was to say "dont go to sleep bro someone will kill you" im blocking you.

That really goes for any situation

Unless the person has said they are ok with it, its completely inappropriate.

"Its not that deep" no I promise it is.

You have to think, these are REAL fears, they aren't jokes.

There are times im shaking and crying over how scared I am.

Basically just dont be a dick

[chipzle]

Yippee!

[squishranger]

man i just dont know why im so afraid all the time (<- has the disorder that makes you afraid all the time)

[chantenhalf]

"Because I said so" straight up isn't as good an answer as you think it is.

[asexual-amanita]

“Self-harm isn’t for attention, most people try to hide it!”

PT: “Self-harm isn’t for attention, most people try to hide it!” End PT

Okay, but what about when it is for attention, because all self-injurious behaviours need to be taken seriously, no matter the reason. No one hurts themselves when their mental state is sunshine and rainbows. To even consider intentionally harming yourself, you have to be in a pretty dark place. Plenty of people self-harm a desperate cry for help. Asking for help outright is something most people struggle with to some degree, why would people who self-inure be any different?

[perturbed-bird]

"my narcissistic ex" "omg you're delusional" "she's so bipolar" "schizoposting!" "he's a psycho!" "that's so ocd" SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!!! JUST SHUT UP

[positivelyqueer]

If you're someone who struggles with interoception (knowing/understanding what your body is feeling):

if there's a task, especially a recurring one, that you find difficult to do and that you keep avoiding, check whether you're in pain or physical discomfort.

For a long time I would avoid doing tasks like showering because they nebulously made me feel 'bad' or i just instinctively felt like avoiding them. It wasn't until I got a shower chair that I realised standing to shower was causing me pain. My bodymind knew that on some level but didn't tell the conscious me.

Similarly with sensory aversions (things you don't like). Before I got kitchen gloves, I did the dishes but it took me a long time and I never wanted to. Afterward, it got a lot easier to motivate myself.

"But how can you not know you're in pain/uncomfortabke?" Extremely easily if your brain is wired a specific way or if you were taught, intentionally or not, to downplay your own experiences or distance yourself from your body.

There's no shame in struggling with these things. hope y'all are having nice days and you're able to do something today that makes it a little easier.

[traumatizeddfox]

“omg peoples mental health is so bad they don’t shower??” girl some people have such bad mental health they kill themselves

[estrogenesis-evangelion]

my rule of thumb for this, for any behavior that you look at and go, "god, how can you not (X)?" is to ask myself: well. how bad would it have to be, for me? how bad would it be before i would stop doing that thing? how bad would i have to feel?

what would have to go wrong in your life, and how wrong would it have to go, for you to stop bathing? to stop eating? to let the garbage pile around you until you can no longer see the floor?

how bad would you have to feel, and for how long, before you would stand on the street screaming at anyone & anything? beating your fists on your head and crying? how bad would it need to be?

do you think there's some fundamental difference between you and people who suffer until their lives are unrecognizable to you? can you face the knowledge that if things went badly enough, you would be just like them? just like them? just like

[asexual-amanita]

Your OCD awareness/advocacy should not stop when people have “unsavoury” obsessions. People with pOCD, zOCD, harm OCD and moral scrupulosity OCD deserve to have a place in your advocacy too. It’s a mental health disorder, it’s not going to be sunshine and rainbows.

[lobotomyscars]

"everybody experiences that" says mother who has the same symptom of the same mental illness