A LITTLE RANT
i don ‘ t want to post this on any of my rp blogs , but i have to get it off my chest somewhere ! so , i ‘ d like to apologize for the saltiness in advance . anyway , let ‘ s get this shit done ...
posting negativity on your blog might be a way to release some of your tension , but it can also have a huge influence on your followers / mutuals . i ‘ m experiencing this on several of my blogs right now . there are people i really like and want to write with , so i ‘ ve been reaching out to them , trying to plot something and just in gerneral build some ooc connection . these people are the exact same COMPLAINING about being left out / forgotten / replaced / overseen . and yet they are doing the exact same damn thing !
so , here ‘ s the thing that ‘ s bothering me : i totally get that someone has favorites , it ‘ s the same with me . but i am trying to have an open mind about meeting and getting to know new people and potential writing partners . ignoring someone who reaches out to you when you ‘ re not feeling well and tries to help you and is HONESTLY interested in you as a writing partner and person is NOTHING BUT BULLSHIT . i ‘ m sorry about the language , but i just can ‘ t phrase it differently .
and what ‘ s even more important : STOP WHINING ABOUT SOMETHING THAT ‘ S CLEARLY NOT THE TRUTH ! this is addressed especially to those who complain about having nobody who cares about them and only two seconds later they post something ooc including one / several of their mututals . you are NOT ALONE , you ‘ re begging for attention GODDAMMIT!!! and you ‘ re making the ones who care about you but YOU CHOOSE TO IGNORE feel like shit . like they ‘ re literally not worthy of your time or interest or attention . this seems to be a common thing especially amongst those ‘ popular blogs ‘ almost everybody seems to have complicated feelings about .
so , i guess what i ‘ m trying to say is : WAKE UP AND OPEN YOUR EYES ! STOP MAKING PEOPLE FEEL BAD BECAUSE YOU ‘ RE CLEARLY IN A MOOD AND DON ‘ T GET THE ATTENTION YOU WANT ! IT ‘ S NOT HELPING ANYONE ! IF ANYTHING AT ALL YOU END UP MAKING SOMEBODY ELSE FEEL LIKE SHIT AS WELL BECAUSE YOU ARE DOING THE EXACT SAME THING YOU ‘ RE COMPLAINING ABOUT TO THEM ! SPREAD POSITIVITY INSTEAD OF NEGATIVITY BECAUSE WHAT EVER YOU DO : IT ‘ S INFLUENCING OTHERS !
NOTE : i ‘ m aware that i ‘ m posting negativity instead of positivity right now , but i just can ‘ t keep watching this clear case of double standards going on everywhere !










