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So....the dysphoria was unbearable, I have started testosterone again and I no longer consider myself a radfem
Anyway watch this video it perfectly puts into words everything that I've struggled to word before and finally put the nail in the coffin for me
Female class solidarity means supporting your sisters in law when they complain about your brothers. Supporting your husbandโs friends wife over your husbandโs friend. And just generally being nicer and more allegiantย to women around you.
This is extremely important. Patriarchy conditions us to antagonize other women, especially women we donโt know and have only heard about. This way we canโt have solidarity and males can continue to oppress us. Whenever I meet a guy who had a girlfriend or wife I immediately think that I would rather be friends with her than with the guy.ย
I have made it clear to my brothers girlfriend that I am absolutely on her side with regards to protecting her rights within the relationship, particularly once they are married and with children.๏ฟผ This doesnโt mean that I hate my brother. What it means is that I recognize his privilege over her and her vulnerability within the relationship, particularly once she is a mother, and I will protect her rights if I feel that he is not respecting her rights.
๏ฟผI will always call out and check the men in my family as often as itโs needed, especially because who the fuck else will? Thatโs as much an expression of love as anything else๏ฟผ. I do not relate to the desire to help the men that I love avoid accountability for their actions. Thatโs not how you love someone; thatโs how you enable them. Love requires holding people accountable. People who think that female solidarity is about hatred of men are stuck in a patriarchal lie in which loving men means allowing them to get away with bullshit.๏ฟผ
You're not a prude for refusing sex acts that would bring you physical discomfort.
You're not boring for refusing acts that would make you feel demeaned.
There is nothing wrong with wanting comfortable, pleasurable, safe, loving sex.
You don't have to require any less respect in the bedroom, than outside of the bedroom.
Vanilla sex doesn't have to be a stepping stone to "kinky" sex. You don't ever have to "spice up" the bedroom by making yourself uncomfortable.
Your sexual boundaries aren't a hurdle to be overcome.
You can have vanilla sex for your entire life.
If someone can't envision finding excitement in sex that doesn't involve domination, they have a limited view of sex.
calling ur wife a bitch is a beheadable offence
Taking my cousin to visit the Nelson Mandela House museum, there was a tour guide there with a group of New Yorkers there from some educational programme. There was a very interesting reaction when he told them that the CIA was responsible for giving Mandela up to the Apartheid government in 1962, I forget that it's not common knowledge that the USA saw Apartheid South Africa as a bulwark against communism in Africa.
Out of respect for the Queen's funeral:
GPs are closing
Surgeries are cancelled
Funerals for non royal citizens are cancelled
Food banks are shut
People are kicked from holiday parks and forced to find accommodation in a foreign place
Protesters are getting arrested for holding signs
Billions will be spent on the funeral whilst people freeze in their homes and children starve
I've only been looking into news articles and restrictions for five minutes... I'm sure there's much more.
But oh don't worry, it's out of respect.
i dont need therapy i need more tattoos & piercings & to have gay sex
hope it helps
this is the men's vs women's outfits for the same 100m USATF competition. the men are wearing tight tank tops and shorts to the knee, the women are wearing pretty much bras and underwear. don't tell me this is about being aerodynamic. it's about sexualizing women. can you imagine if the men were wearing the women's outfits? they'd look stupid because we're so used to seeing women practically naked.
same sport. same year. same competition. look at the outfits.
tell me it's for moving easier.
same sport. same year. same competition. (also the women's one is also practically underwear with a see-through skirt that goes up all the time when skating)
Menโs Beach Volleyball:
Womenโs Beach Volleyball:
If it really had advantages in performance male athletes would be fucking STRIPPING THESELVES!!!!! I want this unfair practice to stop
Some may not consider it a sport, but as someone who has been involved in the world of Competitive Irish dance for the last decade, it absolutely is- the training and athleticism needed is beyond intense, and the young people involved dedicate almost every hour they aren't in school to stretch/workout, classes, practices, performances, competitions.
One thing that's always irked me, especially because the youngest age categories in Irish dance accept kids as little as 4 years old, is the difference between how boys and girls, and men and women are required to dress in order to participate -
Here's a list of what women are required to do in order to not lose points for clothing/appearance at competition
Wear large, heavy bun wigs, often pinned to their heads so tightly with multiple bobby pins and clips that girls will lose hair and develop headaches and semi permanent bald spots.
Gel/hairspray back and dye any visible hair in their natural hair color
Wear concealer, foundation, eyeliner, mascara, blush, and lipstick, which must be kept neat even in hot rooms and while participating in strenuous physical activity
Wear dresses which often cost in the range of $1000, but can be more than $2500, and if they are lucky, end at the mid thigh, but are often cut at the upper thigh
Spray tan, professionally tan, or bottle tan their legs multiple shades darker than their skin in order to emphasize their legs
Accessorize with things like tiaras, hair clips, and earrings
Smile, even when they are preforming strenuous physical feats
Here's a list of what men are required to do in order to not lose points for clothing/appearance at competition
Wear competition pants/dress pants in a material with give (typically required to be black, but this may vary based on competition)
Wear a dress style shirt (typically in black or white)
Wear a custom dance vest or blazer with embellishments, which I've seen for as little as $150, but typically fall around $300, and can even be customized from traditional vests
Brush their hair, possibly use a small amount of gel if it is long
Do these things seem anywhere near equal? In time, pain, effort, cost, how much it inhibits your ability to actually dance? How comfortable you are while competing?
No
But of course, people will constantly justify every additional step women are asked to take. The girls are asked to smile because they aren't just dancing, they are preforming (Are the boys not?). They wear makeup because the stage lights wash them out, and so blush, mascara, and lipstick are necessary in order to see their features (But the boys features being seen is not relevant). They wear short dresses so the judges can see the muscles moving in their legs (A factor which apparently becomes unnecessary when the boys are preforming, as their legs are fully covered). They tan to emphasize the leg muscles, and so their legs stand out against the stage better (the boys are allowed to simply wear dark pants). They wear wigs because the movement of the curls emphasizes the jumps (The boys jumps need no additional emphasis). On and on and on.
Clearly from both the description and the photos you can tell that an aspect of the clothing is rooted in tradition, and in looking formal for the sake of performance, but the extent that girls are pushed to is simply for the sake of pageantry, often at a detriment to their comfort while preforming.
Irish Dance Costumes for Nationals 2022, Montreal
And for any who may try to claim this is simply a part of the tradition and culture, not an argument I like to begin with, here are some more traditional-leaning Irish Dance Costumes (1950's-70's), which are, surprisingly for the time, closer to the same for boys and girls/men and women than the ones made in 2022
i'm throwing one in here too why not.
the first fast pitch team i played on made us wear shorts instead of regular baseball pants that allow you to slide on the ground without getting hurt/getting dirt up your clothes.
tbh the fact women even have to play softball vs baseball is sexist enough for me. i wanted to play baseball bc i could throw very well for a kid. but i had to play a dumb underhand pitch sport bc vagina ๐คก
I used to think that porn could exist, but it would just have to be behind a paywall or require ID so that children couldn't easily access it. Then I realised how horrid the pornography industry is, so I thought that commercially produced pornography should be banned. Then I learnt about how many men secretly record the women in their lives to put on porn sites without their consent so you never know which pornographic content is ethical. So if it's really that rotten from the inside out and you can't delete content people have downloaded and saved even if you try to scrub violations yknow what there should be no porn at all none is acceptable none is ethical all should be illegal. If not that then what
not nick diramio coming out as nonbinary and being like โwhen somebody misgenders me by saying โoh a 30 year old man criticising a 19 year old girlโ and associates being a man with bad behaviour, that is an issue for meโ like wow 30 year old man opts out of being part of the oppressor group how original -.-
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