[djsubatomic]

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Inspired @connorsquarter ‘s post

[ziraseal]

I feel like I’m playing the most suspenseful moment of a Bioshock game and this is the audio recording I’ve found in the bottom of a trash can

[wolveswithhats]

damn right he is

[slimy]

@asgore

[duyu-nim]

Native english speakers will never know the joy of purposely talking terrible english in your native accent

[drone-stricken]

[unpluggedbrain]

why are terfs so obsessed with hating trans people lmao like…..all of their blogs are centered around trying to prove that trans women are somehow “predator straight men” and trans men are “confused and/or traumatized girls”. like do y'all not have any hobbies? fuck off please

[notyourqueertheoryposterchild]

Do you ever just remember that “you must have dysphoria to be trans” is now a controversial statement?

Like, it’s now offensive to say you must feel disconnected from you designated-at-birth-sex to be trans.

That’s wild.

[nekasuz]

Cat Called Pumpkin 1961. Linocut by Sheila Robinson (British, 1925-1987). antiquehelper.com

[strangehorse]

my boyfriend and I sometimes struggle to be on the same page when it comes to comforting- often i just want to vent and don’t need advice, whereas validation confuses him and he wants a plan of action

to counter this, we’ve come up with a system where we ask: “do you want advice, empathy, both or neither?” 

if it’s just advice, i know to go straight to action points and not spend time on fluffy words 

if it’s just empathy, he knows i want to be reassured and comforted and that’s all

if it’s both, it’s time for advice that recognises how hard the situation is and is perhaps gentler in nature

if it’s neither, just a hug is really good

i recommend trying to use this in your lives! it makes sure you’re giving and getting what you need, and reduces the risk of resentment or similar

[thatocdfeel]

my bf is very uncomfortable with and bad at verbally comforting so we made a deal that when i’m having a horrible time he’ll give me physical comfort and let me cry on him. 

if i don’t state flat out ‘’i want advice’’ or ‘’i just want you to validate me’’ he gets confused and we usually end up fighting. best solution is just to communicate straight off the bat and not expect your partner to understand exactly what your emotional needs are, and to meet each othe half way

[deactivated-blog]

:)

[mercuryboy]

everyone: that feeling when you see someone and your heart starts racing and you're so in love and you want to hold their hand and go on cute dates and cuddle in bed while telling them they're beautiful

me, an aro: what

[skinoutqueen]

I really cannot believe how nasty I can be when provoked by the right person. It’s sensational.

[babyanimalgifs]

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[mercuryboy]

Me: *makes a small irrelevant mistake*

My Brain, banging pots and pans together: YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUC

Me: *makes huge mistake that will directly affect my future horribly*

My Brain, lounging on a lawn chair with shades on: ....acknowledged

[puppy95]

[stillhereunfortunately]

me all day everyday: softer voices please

[mercuryboy]

me: *blows kiss to mars*

me: for ziggy

[mud]