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I feel like I’m playing the most suspenseful moment of a Bioshock game and this is the audio recording I’ve found in the bottom of a trash can
damn right he is
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Inspired @connorsquarter ‘s post
I feel like I’m playing the most suspenseful moment of a Bioshock game and this is the audio recording I’ve found in the bottom of a trash can
damn right he is
@asgore
Native english speakers will never know the joy of purposely talking terrible english in your native accent
why are terfs so obsessed with hating trans people lmao like…..all of their blogs are centered around trying to prove that trans women are somehow “predator straight men” and trans men are “confused and/or traumatized girls”. like do y'all not have any hobbies? fuck off please
Do you ever just remember that “you must have dysphoria to be trans” is now a controversial statement?
Like, it’s now offensive to say you must feel disconnected from you designated-at-birth-sex to be trans.
That’s wild.
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my boyfriend and I sometimes struggle to be on the same page when it comes to comforting- often i just want to vent and don’t need advice, whereas validation confuses him and he wants a plan of action
to counter this, we’ve come up with a system where we ask: “do you want advice, empathy, both or neither?”
if it’s just advice, i know to go straight to action points and not spend time on fluffy words
if it’s just empathy, he knows i want to be reassured and comforted and that’s all
if it’s both, it’s time for advice that recognises how hard the situation is and is perhaps gentler in nature
if it’s neither, just a hug is really good
i recommend trying to use this in your lives! it makes sure you’re giving and getting what you need, and reduces the risk of resentment or similar
my bf is very uncomfortable with and bad at verbally comforting so we made a deal that when i’m having a horrible time he’ll give me physical comfort and let me cry on him.
if i don’t state flat out ‘’i want advice’’ or ‘’i just want you to validate me’’ he gets confused and we usually end up fighting. best solution is just to communicate straight off the bat and not expect your partner to understand exactly what your emotional needs are, and to meet each othe half way
everyone: that feeling when you see someone and your heart starts racing and you're so in love and you want to hold their hand and go on cute dates and cuddle in bed while telling them they're beautiful
me, an aro: what
I really cannot believe how nasty I can be when provoked by the right person. It’s sensational.
Me: *makes a small irrelevant mistake*
My Brain, banging pots and pans together: YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUC
Me: *makes huge mistake that will directly affect my future horribly*
My Brain, lounging on a lawn chair with shades on: ....acknowledged
me all day everyday: softer voices please
me: *blows kiss to mars*
me: for ziggy