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Female. Employed. Single.
Pushing thirty. Shy in general.
Surmise my awkward life
in one quote on thriving
with my best qualities in tact.
Look for me.
My geographical coordinates
are just North of the fact
I once had someone whisper
in my ear, âYouâre trouble,â
and out Southwest enough
to admit the fact
Iâll never understand
what they meant by it.
Stop comparing where youâre at with where everyone else is. It doesnât move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy and, ultimately, it keeps you stuck.
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Athletes require a variety of protein sources to maintain and repair muscle structure as well as provide the energy supply needed for muscle endurance. Vegetarian athletes often turn to soy based proteins since these are notably high in protein. However, soy has gotten a lot of negative press for its effects on hormones, particularly for women. This is especially true if it becomes one of the main sources of protein in their diet. For this reason, many vegetarians choose to consume a soy-free diet or significantly reduce their soy intake.
I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. If we donât vibrate on the same frequency thereâs just no reason for us to waste our time. Iâd rather have no one and wait for substance than to not feel someone and fake the funk.
1. Repetition Is the key to a good habit, the more you do something the more automatic it becomes.
2. Consistency Doing something consistently in-grains the pattern in your behaviour. Try to make the action a daily thing.
3. Make the task easier. The easier the task the more easy it is for it to become automatic. Complicated actions or behaviours take longer to become automatic. So break things down, make the task easier, do it at the right time and in the right place.
4. Trigger it. Make your habit an unconscious reflex by creating a trigger for the action to happen, for instance a daily habit you already have could then lead into the new one. Alternatively a particular state of mind (putting on your âwork headâ could also be a good grounding for creating a good habits.
5. Re-enforce. Consciously re-enforce the habit if you are slacking off. This re-imprints the behavioural pattern, itâs easy to relearn good habits just as easy as it is to slip back into old bad habits.
6. Reward yourself. A positive reward is always a good driver, the brain will always try to take you from a bad place to a good place. A reward for positive behaviour may give your habit momentum, you also know you are getting there with a habit when you feel bad when you havenât done it.
I fall in love with ideas and fantasies rather than whole beings and then I sit here and wonder why Iâm still alone. Itâs because I donât f*cking pay attention. Iâm too busy thinking about tomorrow that today falls through the cracks.
Ryan O'Connell, Iâm Trying To Love You More
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