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Mewki, 23

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A good boy.

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Congratulations.

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it’s funny cause EVERY SINGLE time I see this, I’ve been scrolling for 30 seconds tops

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adrianmoyseyphotography

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Its Oscar, but as a frog!! Frogscar!!

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Orchid mantis.

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hmmm

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happy 4/20

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happy 420 and day i reserve a spot in hell

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Edit by me. Source.

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[learningtoletgo]

Lämp

[artofthecatt]

Klonk! [x]

[whoa-its-dani]

How would one word a text / message to someone in this situation? (I don’t really handle calls well so I probably wouldn’t answer, it’d likely make the issues worse)

If I’m struggling with depression / anxiety / whatever else I’m struggling with at that time, how do I word that? Especially in those states of mind, I don’t really put things well. And ESPECIALLY if it’s planned months ago. I don’t have the biggest grasp on “social decorum”.

How do I do it without being called a faker or told to “stop making excuses” or “stop being lazy”?

[dontworryfolkswetookallherteeth]

“Hey, I’ve really been looking forward to hanging out with you, but I’m not feeling great today and can’t make it. When can we reschedule for?”

Adjust as necessary for formality. The key points covered are:

Establishes you enjoy spending time with them

Not the other persons fault

You don’t feel well. This is vague, and could mean The Black Death, a migraine, or you’re having a depressive episode. It is also honest. Awkward questions have been politely avoided.

You can’t make it. It is not an option to do it today, and they do not have a chance to persuade you otherwise

Rescheduling shows you’d still like to meet up, so you don’t end up isolating yourself

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A good guide for how to let someone know you need to cancel/reschedule plans!