This is a must for us. While we donāt play 24/7, I enjoy making him wear a chastity device frequently when weāre apart. I work nights, so if Iām at work, chances are heās locked into āThe Viceā. This is a locking chastity cage, similar to others, only this one has an anti-pullout mechanism that makes it very difficult to remove without the key. Basically āThe Viceā Ā is a plastic sheath for his dick that attaches to a ring around the base of his balls. It prevents erections and masturbation very well for the price. I donāt want my manās dick mangled by a piercing for this game we play, and some of the other devices out there require that to be secure. The Vice keeps it secure and out of his (or anyone elseās) hands. Its so empowering to be able to restrict access to his own dick. I have the power to grant him erections and orgasms, he canāt have them without me or my approval. The length of time he wears the device really changes, but is up to me. I usually donāt keep him in it for more than a couple days, but weāve had times that I left him in there for over 3 weeks. He really wasnāt happy about the time I had to leave town for 4 days and took the key with me, AFTER heād been locked up for a week already.
There are a log of fun chastity games you can find online. Some fun chastity games we play:
Try to cum. I enjoy leaving the device on him, and tell him to try to have an orgasm with it on (no vibrator allowed!). Its fucking entertaining to see him hump his hand, finger his asshole, shake the cage around, pinch his own nipples, etc. I like to offer some cheering words of encouragement here for him. Usually I have him do this on the floor in the middle of the living room while I sit on the couch and watch. He hasnāt been able to cum yet, but maybe one day heāll get there. (Another great video opportunity)
Coin flip. If heās been locked up for several days, Iāll strap him to the bed or handcuff him to remove the device.
Then Iāll start stroking his dick until heās very close to orgasm, right on the edge. Then I flip a coin, heads I finish him off. Tails, I immediately stop, put an ice pack on his dick and lock him back up once heās soft again. Better luck next time honey.
Roll of the dice. If he rolls a six, he gets to cum. If not, thatās the number of days he stays locked up until he gets another chance. This went on for over 3 weeks for us at one point. He was really on edge lol.
Chastity can also play into the control aspect as well. Sometimes when we play I donāt take the cage off. For example, he doesnāt need an erection to get fucked in his ass or to use my dildo and vibrator on my pussy, so why take it off? If he starts giving me a bad attitude, Iāll simply add another day or two to his lockup time. I use this as punishment for disobedience when playing, so it gives me more control.
One of the big things youāll notice if you start incorporating chastity into your sex life, is that he will become more and more agreeable and obedient as time goes on, if you restrict his orgasms. If weāre playing with chastity more seriously, I like to make him wait 1 to 2 weeks between orgasms. He has a high sex drive, so when I do this, he gets so horny heāll do anything to get out of his chastity cage. Its really entertaining to see what I can get him to do. Once, after 13 days locked into the Vice, I insisted he detail my car if he wanted out of the device. He whined and complained, so I told him that he just earned himself another 3 days in the device, and I still expected the car detailed.
The MOST IMPORTANT thing when incorporating chastity into your sex life is this. SAY NO. Donāt be swayed by his begging, whining, or complaining. Firstly lets get this out of the way, no one NEEDS to have an orgasm. He wants to cum, he doesnāt need to. So lets get that little idea out of the way immediately. We have a rule, when heās locked up, he gets to politely ask for an orgasm once per day. If I feel like it, Iāll have him earnestly beg me. This is great for extracting promises from him. But if I say no, he needs to shut the fuck up about it immediately. Occasionally Iāll say yes, but most of the time Iāll say no as Iāve already decided on how long heās going to be locked up. Do not feel bad about this. In fact, relish your power here.
I get off on having him go down on me right after I tell him āNo, youāre staying locked up.ā While we both agreed to incorporate chastity devices into our sex life, the lockup duration is my decision alone. Use the device to modify his behavior to your liking. If you want something from him, sexual or not, give him the order. If he doesnāt comply, add time in the device. The power is intoxicating.
Teasing. Sometimes he wears The Vice around the house, sometimes not. But regardless I like to wear skimpy clothing, rub up against him, feel and squeeze his balls, ass cheeks, and body just to see him get a boner (or try to, hehe). Iāll take this a lot further sometimes, stroking his dick until he starts leaking precum, getting him close to orgasm, only to stop and tell him to calm down. Sometimes I even let him fuck me until I have an orgasm or two, then tell him to stop. This is delightfully frustrating for him. Other times Iāll leave him in the chastity cage and masturbate right in front of him. One of my favorite teases is to use his mouth to make me cum and send him away completely denied. Sometimes I tell him Iām going to make him cum, only to stop at the last second and tell him I changed my mind.
Ruined Orgasm. By far the funniest aspect to this whole femdom thing. Its really an artform. The basic idea is that you get your man very, very close to the point of orgasm and then stop all stimulation. If you do it right, heāll just tip over the edge, and his semen will dribble out of his dick with barely any force, and next to no pleasure. This works best with his hands restrained so he canāt try to finish the job himself. I like to pair this sometimes with the shock collar to make it completely miserable.
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