if this post gets 100,000 notes by August 21, 2020 (my 18th birthday), i swear on my own mortal soul that iāll get a tattoo that says āsometimes it be like thatā
I feel so gross atm. People (TERFs) keep telling me Iām just some gross fujoshi who fetishizes gay relationships???? And??? That??? Gave??? Me??? Dysphoria???? Ahhh???
black mould has infected her apartment, and with the rainy season full upon us, itās become a genuine medical risk. please donate to her gofundme, reblog this, spread it around. this is a genuine medical emergency and we are terrified.
It's been a year since I was left to live alone, and I've finally gotten the word back from my doctor that it's killing me. I suffer from F
here are her own words about the situation:
Itās been a year since I was left to live alone, and Iāve finally gotten the word back from my doctor that it'sĀ killing me.
I suffer fromĀ Fibromyalgia and CPTSD(the suspected cause of a whole health of poor immune responses and other health issues.) I sleep shallowly and fitfully, and wake up in the mornings barely able to breathe. In the last three months Iāve madeĀ multiple trips to A&E, with fibro flares so bad the first responders had to check for aĀ heart attackĀ first.
ā¦ Why?
My current flat is leaky, creaky, andĀ full of black mould. My landlord is entitled, violent, and not afraid to try to use his key to get in whenever thereās an issue.Ā
Past appeals to our letting agent and other authorities to control him (after a series of surprise visits only coming when my girlfriend and I may have been still in bed, for reasons Iām sure are obvious and upsetting) have only resulted inĀ more visitsĀ andĀ poorly-concealed threats.
Only a month ago the roof began toĀ cave in, leading to giant torrents of water flooding the hallway outside, going unfixed for days. The front doorĀ stillhasnāt been replaced properly and swings open in any weather.
I canāt manage to go to work with my symptoms this bad and keep on top of regularly scrubbing and drying the multiple damp patches, so theyāve entrenched. As someoneĀ already susceptible to lung infectionsĀ after a horrible months-long battle withĀ bronchitisĀ last year, Iām on borrowed time.
What Iām asking for is money to cover a handful of simple things.
1.Ā Pay the deposit and first few months on a new flat, with a better regulated landlord and no ongoing rot issues.Ā My girlfriend is willing and able to sign the lease with me, as she qualifies for a Commonwealth Mobility Visa that would give her five years to finish her studies and find work in the area, further helping with our finances. The chance to live somewhere with a door that locks - to not have to sleep with my keys in the lock at all time for my own protection - would be lifesaving.
2.Ā Pay a moving company to help me save what I can of my furniture and get it there.Ā We had to sell our car last Christmas, and have been unable to replace it since. Iāve spent a year cooking exclusively on a foreman grill and in a rice cooker, so the opportunity to pick up a secondhand stove would also be lifesaving.
3.Ā A support cushion to cover any bills in the meanwhile.Ā I need to find a course of medication that manages my ever-increasing pain, on the advice of my current doctor (whose treatment this year has taken me from needing a cane just to stand, to being able to cycle again, so I trust her). Experimenting with that intersection of medicines will be a long and difficult road, and anything we donāt spend getting to safety will be spent protecting us finanically from side-effects that impact my ability to work.Ā
Ā£8,000 is a lot of money to need but Iām hoping itās not too much to raise.Ā
This Christmas, give me the gift of somewhere safe to live. Give me my life back.
@trans-mom please reblog to help spread this around, as a medical emergency itās very genuinely terrifying.
once again you can send money to either ā ļø [email protected] ā ļø or to her gofundme
It's been a year since I was left to live alone, and I've finally gotten the word back from my doctor that it's killing me. I suffer from F
im blown away by the notes here, but my partner has only received in the ballpark of Ā£450āthis is an incredible start, but it isnt even half the deposit alone needed to get her out of a home that literally poisons her as she sleeps. please, please, continue passing it around. i know christmas just having come means money is tight, but literally every Ā£1 counts.
im scared for what will happen as soon as the weather starts to warm, and thats not too far away. please, continue signal boosting this, thank you.
@trans-mom youve been a tremendous help reblogging, if i could ask you to reblog this one more time i would be incredibly appreciative, thank you!
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