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[kindnotestoself]

Seasonal depression is no joke. The sun is setting at 4pm, it’s cold and it’s dark. It’s easy to feel hopeless. So reach out. Talk with friends, Have a nice hot glass of tea (or coco, or coffee, whatever makes you happy!) Invest in a SAD light therapy device, Eat plenty of food with Vitamin D, and remember better days are coming

[tiffanyzeyer]

SAD hits me hard every year, and i try to think of it as- i love the night, things are more fun at night, so i pretend it’s the middle of the night and i’m just bopping about, feeling like a teen that’s out after dark. Idk if it will help anyone else but that’s how i’m trying to cope with it. 

[slimeandspice]

u know when u scroll past a post because it’s talking about a serious topic? for example a national crisis in a different country or a donations post detailing abuse or just something triggering to you, because you don’t have the emotional capacity to deal with it at that exact moment? that’s okay. you don’t have to feel like a bad person just because a tumblr user said “don’t scroll!!!” you can scroll. if you know something will be triggering, you should never feel bad for skipping it.

[gahdamnpunk]

THIS RIGHT HERE

[kimreesesdaughter]

Let’s not forget about the “give it to God” card. Hate it!

[cult-hopper]

People who don’t understand the difference between punishment and discipline should, like, never have kids

[clown-butch-deactivated20240919]

hey op i dont understand the difference could you please explain?

[cult-hopper]

Yeah ofc!! Sorry for being vague I was just venting and didnt expect reblogs haha

I’m gonna try to explain my point through examples.

Ex 1: toddler screaming and crying in the walmart

Punishment: I’m going to spank you or embarrass you or yell at you! Shut up! I’ll give you something to cry about!

Discipline: stop doing what you’re doing because it isn’t productive and it disturbs others as well as increasing your own upsetnes. I’m going to take you out of the environment that’s upsetting you until you’re calm and we can identify what upset you together so I can explain to you why it’s like that/help you find ways to productively express upsetness as you grow.

Ex 2: your teen is failing, like, all their classes

Punishment: you’re grounded! You’re not allowed to go out with your friends or play games or do anything fun or enjoyable until your work is satisfactory!

Discipline: it’s important to do well in school. You need to communicate with me when you are struggling so I can help you. You also need to learn to manage fun stuff and work as that’s an important life skill in adulthood. I’m going to monitor your work more closely so I can help you find that balance. And if this is a deeper mental or emotional issue, we can seek help for you together.

So basically, discipline is something you teach that requires time, communication, and sternness. Punishment is a single action meant to deliberately cause discomfort in an attempt to implement negative reinforcement. Not good.

[bairnsidhe]

The TL:DR soundbite version is “Discipline teaches, Punishment hurts”.

[ghost-slut18]

THIS ^^^^^^^^^

[luthorsandsupers-blog]

[goblinsnufkin-deactivated201905]

same energy

[bloodyborsch]

[fairyfawm]

another Same Energy: so ive asked my family to refer to me as they/them bc im nb, and a few times ive corrected my cousins when theyve misgendered me. and so when my little cousins were playing superheroes, one of them said i could be supergirl, and my four year old cousin immediately pipes in with “but sams not a girl” and then, after a bit of thought, “you can be superthey!”

[schrodingers-fyke]

Theydies and gentlethem

[rot-gospel]

Same Energy ™️: my good close friend didn’t want to call me queen or king, so they ended up calling me monarch, which was funny as fuck cause my brain instantly went to “the butterfly???”

[saint-batrick]

one of my friends calls me madamonsieur and i love it so much.

[jesin00]

See, THIS is how you make gender jokes!

[replystacks-deactivated20131114]

But seriously.

People will call celebrities by ridiculous stage names that were made-up to sound more unique, but they refuse to call trans* people the names they have chosen to match their gender identity. 

If you can call Nicole Polizzi by the name Snooki, then you can call a trans* person by their chosen name. 

[anarcha-pigeon-blog]

THIS.

[sunbutch]

i think we as a community should stop calling men lesbian icons

[fish-to-male]

While I understand the argument, and have some level of agreement, I would like to note that this is actually not a new trend. Lesbians have been recognizing men as lesbian icons since at least Johnny Cash, which many butch lesbians related to due to the fact that his masculinity was associated with pain and struggle. It is hard to ignore that in regards to presentation and demeanor some lesbians simply take some inspiration from men, and turn it into something all their own, myself included.

There is an inherent issue in idolizing anyone, but gay men have had straight women as gay icons for quite a while without anyone feeling it was a threat to their gay identity. I don’t think lesbians should feel that their identity is in jeopardy when they say dumb shit about men who are celebrities.

[luvyourselfsomeesteem-deactivat]

Vaginas are expected to be bald, super soft with no stubble, smell like fresh picked lavender and taste like a mango yet there are so many hairy, discolored, sweaty and salty ballsacks out there demanding to be in a mouth.

[dickprintbandit]

girl.

[iwantursex]

And not a lie was spoken

[tarynel]

Gospel.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

sometimes it just hurts beyond logic and reason and rationality, because it’s a core piece of human feeling. it rips into you and you feel like you can’t take another breath. it’s okay. it’s okay to hurt and not be able to explain. it’s okay to hurt even when you want to fight it. it’s okay. it will be okay. you will be okay. but sometimes, it’s just going to hurt.

[relatablepoetryandquotes]

“I exist, that is all, and I find it nauseating.” - Jean-Paul Sartre, Nausea

[snorlax-and-co]

[chisaharu-chiha]

KPop really out here talking it's toll on mental health. If anyone needs to; have a break, eat, drink, step back from Kpop or anything to help your well-being, then by all means do it. Too much is happening and so I want you to make sure you take care of yourselves.

[m00nk1ld]

BTS break the internet for PAPER magazine

[kingknowbody]

I just want Black women to be safe and comfortable in their own skin

[assyrianjalebi]

[yoonguurt]

The last 3 months of my life

[canibecandid]

I wish that there wasn’t this feeling of “Haha, I suck.” Among fan fiction writers. Don’t apologize for not being able to update regularly. Don’t apologize for what happens in your life. Enjoy taking your time with things. Update when you want. Consume other works when (and while) you’re stuck. You’re not a word generating machine. You’re a person, and I am grateful that you’ve chosen to share your stories with us. Thank you.

[allbusybees]

forgive yourself. whether you fail a test, eat too many cookies, say the wrong thing, fail a class, or spend a whole day in bed — learn to forgive yourself. the next day will be better. the next day will be a day closer to your next success. you can do it.