honeybee

remus 23 xe/hir/hirself bi

[duke-remus]

moving to a new account, send a message if you want to know the url

[mogairemus]

last chance to ask if you wanna follow my new blog!

[neurocoining]

NEUROBI »

a bi identity that is completely inseparable and / or completely influenced by one being neurodivergent . one may feel as though they are only bi through a neurodivergent lens . from “ bisexual “ and “ neuro .”

! this term is only for neurodivergent people .

[mogairemus]

think I might either remake my blog entirely or just turn this into a catch-all blog instead of just queer stuff. mogai isn't my special interest anymore so having an entire blog dedicated to it where I feel the need to act perfect is kinda annoying tbh. just let me post memes and fandom shit and selfshipping whatnot.

[princessgemma12]

If you like the word “queer” reblog.

[mogairemus]

why’d you follow me if I’m a proshipper??? lmao breaking your own dni

I'm confused. I'm a pro shipper too?? pro ship isn't on my dni, that'd be pretty hypocritical of me

[bunnelbaby]

🧸✨ Age Regressor Leaning, Caregiver Leaning, Age Dreamer Leaning, Pet Regressor Leaning and Pet Dreamer Leaning Flip flags (please reblog if you save)! ✨🧸

[bifacts]

Fact: Today (September 23rd) is bisexuality awareness day. Be aware of bisexuals. They are dangerous.

[spacelazarwolf]

not to be a fucking boomer but holy motherfuck i’m so tired of young queers on social media having temper tantrums about flags and words and fanfiction and just shit no one gives a fuck about in real life.

here’s a list of things i’ve encountered in irl queer spaces that no one batted an eye about that i have seen nuclear level freak-outs about on tumblr:

- trans man calling himself a lesbian

- trans man calling himself a femboy

- lesbian being married to a trans man

- trans man and trans woman calmly and respectfully talking about reproductive transphobia (me and my voice teacher who i adore)

- gay men in puppy masks simply existing

- trans woman not doing voice training/feminization because she likes her voice the way it is and somehow not “tRiGgErInG” the women around her with her scary deep Male VoiceTM

- queer people saying slurs in normal speech when we talk about history or community or for self identification

- talking about how cishets are shitty to us no matter how we identify and not policing other people’s language when they talk about their personal experiences

i am far from the first person to say this but oh my god go outside. meet other queer and trans people in person at queer events. if you can’t do that, see if there are any streaming events you can attend. but just get off social media. stop thinking of the queer community as this nebulous online thing with rules and regulations created by and for white tumblr teens. it’s a real living breathing group of people that has infinitely varied experiences that a 20 yr old white tumblr user will never be able to succinctly boil down into a one liner. definitions mean nothing. stomping ur feet on tumblr bc u saw a trans man use a word u don’t like or a trans woman like a thing u think is gross and bad is stupid and u should not do it. grow up and go do something fun.

[tucuteboything]

It's MSPEC

B/c I'm seeing this phrase increase in "inclusive" spaces, do not call fucking Mspec identities "Bi-spec"

I'm sorry but full offense my pan middle school ass did not spend years being told I was just bi and an attention seeker from BABs just for ya'll to start calling us "Bi-spec" under the guise of inclusive phrasing.

I'm pan, ply, abro. I'm NOT fucking Bi. I'm NOT BI-SPEC. I AM MSPEC. Our communities didn't go (and still go thru) years of harassment just for people to start doing this shit.

You experience attraction to two+ genders and consider yourself sorta Bi but not really and relate to the word Bi-spec? Cool. Great. You can use whatever terms for yourself.

Now stop putting MSPEC identities under Bispec.

Pan individuals are not Bi.

Ply individuals are not Bi.

Omni individuals are not Bi.

Multi individuals are not Bi.

Abro individuals are not Bi.

If they don't identify as Bi. THEY'RE NOT BI.

Saying any sorta orientation that is attraction to multiple genders is "Bi-spec" does nothing but reinforce the bullshit harassment of BABs calling us "just Bi but quirky" and calling use attention seekers. For the love of gods stop doing it. This shouldn't have to be said.

[astrophellian]

Inclusive Partial DID Flag

[ID: The Inclusive Partial DID flag. It had five stripes. From top to bottom, they are pale purplish blue, pale mint green, purple, sky blue, and gray. End ID]

I couldn’t find a partial DID flag that wasn’t made by sysmeds so I made one myself.

The purplish blue is for often having a “main fronter”. The mint green is for emotional and partial amnesia. The purple is for camaraderie with all kinds of systems. The sky blue is for often being co-conscious (and related states). The gray is for not being ashamed of who you are.

Anyone can use this, regardless of diagnosis status.

[bff0f7]

so can we start hunting down white liberals now or what

[adamtheredbeard]

The full picture is even more heart breaking after you open the uncropped version. Just a heads-up, it's rough

“The Roman Catholic Parish in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan was just grafitted.”

[afronerdism]

Nah let’s post it. Let’s feel it. Don’t look away.

[doobiebenson]

[butch-bakugo]

I notice alot of my followers on here skipping these posts just to mess with my lgbt ones, suspiciously the white popular ones.

Heres a not so friendly reminder, as an lgbt metis person, i dont give a single fuck what your blog is themed or if this is too painful for you to look at. Reblog this post. Reblog this post with the sources of the 751 children who were found.

Your compliance and silence as well as the compliance and silence of your ancestors is what allowed these schools to open and kill first nations children. The children of MY people.

Dont follow me if you cant reblog this post or the one with sources to your political blog or your most popular blog. Add trigger warnings if you must but if your political blog is only focused on the harms you personally face like being lgbt then you need to see some bigger pictures and stop being afraid of angering your racist mutural or actually saying some shit about racism. If you can reblog some antifa graphics or add blm to your bio to be a surface level ally, you can reblog some sources on the genocide first nations people faced and still face today.

They were CHILDREN.

They were murdered in cold blood.

[churchoftheconfusedchicken]

I’d like to add this photo I took last night in Victoria of the statue of Captain Cook. Though I myself am not indigenous, I 100% agree that these murderers, kidnappers and rapists shouldn’t have huge statues and plaques that decorate them and say how “great” they were.

Here’s another photo of the legislative assembly from yesterday. Later on there were more items, candles and signs at the memorial, as well as a big poster with 1505 painted on it but I didn’t get a picture

People need to see this. Not just quickly glance at the photos and keep on scrolling. They need to see this.

Reblog this or just stop following me

[ifiknewiwouldtellyou]

I had seen the first picture of the church, but not the second.

I went to a “Cancel Canada Day” event and burst into tears - not because I was surprised to learn of the unmarked graves (survivors told us they were there. Our government pushed it aside, and we let them), but because seeing all the people gathered in mourning drove it home: They. Were. Children.

This is my country’s legacy - and it’s not history. The last schools closed during my lifetime. My Father went to school with students who lived at the local residential school, after it was changed to a boarding house (read: holding centre) for indigenous youth who went to local schools.

They were all children, injured, abused, and killed in my country’s attempt to erase them. I want the world to see this and hold the state accountable to *active* reconciliation> I mean we could at least truly adopt UNDRIP in action instead of words for god’s sake.

[captainizzyhands-deactivated202]

The term Gender Outlaw coined by Kate Bornstein in 1994 was one of the first used to describe what we would now refer to as nonbinary genders. Using the cover of the 2010 updated version of the book of the same name ive designed a pride flag for all the Gender Outlaws out there

[theaceandaroadvocacyproject]

This week we are talking about Queerplatonic Relationships, aka QPRs!

[ID: Two images with light yellow backgrounds, black text, and the TAAAP logo in the upper right corner. Both images show graphics of people engaging in various activities, such as dancing and talking. The first reads “Queerplatonic Relationships. Queerplatonic relationships purposefully blur the lines of commonly accepted relationship dynamics. They don’t fit into the categories of what is traditionally considered to be a friendship or a romantic relationship. Every queerplatonic relationship is defined by those participating in it, and therefore may look different, but they often include some level of commitment.” 

The second reads “Queerplatonic Relationships. Things not to say about QPRs: That’s just a friendship. That reduces a friendship to something basic and places it in a hierarchy below other kinds of relationships. Don’t do that. While it may overlap with friendship, it may feel different to participants, and you shouldn’t dismiss or demean that experience. That’s immature/lacking/incomplete. People in QPRs might have other relationships that fill other needs, but QPRs can still be valid and important. On the other hand, if someone’s only significant relationship is a QPR, that does not mean they are lacking any kind of human connection.” End description.]

[cambriancrew]

Recently, Corvidae from Twitter posted these screencaps from the ebook version of Transgender Mental Health by Dr. Eric Yarbrough, Distinguished Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. I'll be buying a copy in the near future so I can copy and paste the text for accessibility purposes and not have just images, but for now, here's these:

It's quite interesting to see such explicit validation from a respected source.

[nullpointr]

they/them in a boy way. he/him in a nonbinary way. i’m a boy and i only want to be called they. im nonbinary and i only want to be called he. i’m the most unboy boy. the most boy not boy. schrodingers boy

[nido-emojis]

PLURAL HEART EMOTES

ft flags by extranth, not-your-introsource, pluralrights & the plural circle symbol

requested by anonymous!

[penisbloggin-deactivated2021101]

wait what r the flags

[nido-emojis]

An all-inclusive plural pride flag, a flag for systems whose (main) origins have changed over time, and an endogenic pride flag!

[rammgender]

while i'm thinking about it, here's the pronoun masterlist that i worked on and possibly will never work on again unless i get bored and decide i have the motivation.

it has about 12,100 pronoun sets in it, and they're sorted into columns alphabetically. emojipronouns are sorted by color. sheet 2 is emojipronouns i haven't sorted through because they also need to be put in the format that i want them in.

this sheet is a conglomerate of pronoun sets copy and pasted from various tumblr posts, along with a few variations of some sets that i typed in. due to the fact that most of this was pasted and sorted automatically without actually looking through it, there may be some potentially offensive material, but i'm not sure. i'm not responsible for any sets that may have been posted that are offensive and/or are now out of the context of a reclamation post.

if anyone finds this to be a project they're interested in helping with, you can send me a dm and we can discuss it :]

@pronounsmegamix (tagging you because i know you're working on a masterlist and might find mine helpful, idk)