Femme as Fuck

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[marxpussy-deactivated20180726]

God the ace flag is just SO fucking ugly. I think it’s that putrid gray color.

[marxpussy-deactivated20180726]

Including myself, it appears being disgusted by the ace flag is a lesbian experience.

[fumbledeegrumble]

oh my god

hey tell me again about how it’s just about the cishet aces

[aroace-people-are-lgtbq]

Like, The only opinions that matter about the ace flag are ace people’s 

So anyway

Look at our lovely flag, I’m so glad that it exists. It’s so pretty and acethetically pleasing

[sarahsyna]

@aroace-people-are-lgtbq I can’t lie, I am so fucking jealous of your flag. Purple, black, and silver are my favourite colours. Basically, if someone did a metallics version of it, I’d be seething with envy.

[golbatgender]

This post: exists

Aphobes: still think it’s lesbophobia that we’re wary of blogs with URLs and aesthetics like that

[mommyqueerest]

Jesus how the fuck bored do you have to be to make fun of a fucking flag. Maybe get a fucking life 🤷🏻‍♀️

[mommyqueerest]

anyway bi women are heroic and strong and resilient and beautiful and we will perservere and thrive no matter how much shit gets thrown our way. 

i’m lucky to be among such esteemed company i love you all

[mommyqueerest]

Regular reminder

[mommyqueerest]

The award for best url goes to you i just found this blog and im lovin it.

Hahahha thank you I am pretty damn proud of this url.Ugh I haven’t been blogging much bc of all the mommying but I do miss being here. What’s new in the discourse, y’all?

[projectqueer]

80 percent of LGBT people killed are minorities

When violence strikes the LGBT community, the victims often look like those who died in the Orlando tragedy.

[ororomunroedontpullout]

When people say you can’t racialize Orlando

[arche-zomboid-deactivated202508]

When all the white gays said “it could’ve been meeeeee” but they never woulda gone because it was latino night

[amazinghowyoulove]

“It could have been me.”

Grindr profile:  No Blacks, no rice, no beans

[ithelpstodream]

[lgbtqi-support-equality]

Honestly being disabled affects so many LGBT+ people.

In my town there is only 1 bar that has wheelchair access and guess what?! It’s not the gay bar!

Gay bars are also not accessible (the vast majority of the time) to those who are sensitive to bright lights and loud sounds. Example; some people with epilepsy, autism, PTSD, Tourettes, social anxiety, ect.

The pride march I went to last year would not be accessible (reasonably) for someone in a wheelchair or let’s be real, anyone who can’t walk for an hour +. 

The local LGBT+ group I meet up at tries to be accessible but often forgets that if a location has to be changed then the same level of access will almost certainly not apply to the new location.

The LGBT+ friendly bookshop I visited while overseas had a tiny door which barely fit my small wheelchair. There was also a step halfway through the store which meant I only got to view half of the books that were aimed at me. 

A lot of LGBT+ resources online are not set out in a way that people with visual or learning disabilities can easily read, or read at all. 

The LGBT+ community as a whole (not just the disabled members)  need to make a conscious effort to include disabled people where-ever and whenever possible. 

We are just as much a part of the community as abled body/minded people. 

This is 100% okay for able body/minded people to reblog too. 

[gillygeewhiz]

re: split attraction

Can we stop using “hetero-/homo-/bi-romantic” as hip microlabels that artificially complicate attraction and encourage internalized homophobia? And stop making up new unnecessarily-specific labels inspired them when they have 0 practical use outside of the context of asexuality?

Romantic labels were never intended to indicate anything like a separate type of orientation. Some asexuals back in the day just didn’t want to associate themselves with the ‘-sexual’ suffix of their orientation and used ‘-romantic’ instead. e.g.: “Biromantic” just means “bisexuality as experienced by an asexual”. That’s it. Sexual orientation labels are already sufficient to describe all types of nonsexual intimate attraction; pedantic asexuals just renamed them to clarify that their personal experience of intimate attraction did not include sex. “Romantic orientations” describe the exact same feelings as their respective sexual orientations, minus the sexual attraction.

Asexuals in the 2000s weren’t concocting your Split Attraction Model when they coined homo-/hetero-/bi-romantic – those labels were specifically created to avoid sexualizing attraction, so in using them to try to legitimize the idea of splitting attraction into sexual and emotional, you’re completely twisting their original meaning and insulting the legitimacy of asexuals’ actual orientations. If you think romantic labels describe a whole other kind of attraction, those words aren’t for you.

[mcfuckoffs]

ever think of just letting ppl do what they want

[mommyqueerest]

Hey OP why do you hate queer people so much

[fuckmogai]

does ace tumblr realize that eating cake is a well known euphemism for eating ass or

[mcfuckoffs]

does fuckmogai realize that u don’t have to make every single expression sexual

[mommyqueerest]

Man how sad of a person do you have to be to be this goddamn petty. You need better hobbies :(

[discoursette]

Honestly being “demisexual” is fine if you want to ID with that label, but you’ve gotta recognize that it’s also something that MOST people experience, the vast majority of people don’t have a desire for sex with strangers, most people don’t have sexual feelings until a bond is formed, and only wanting sex with people you know well DOESN’T make you LGBT. It makes very little sense to put a label on it that sounds “queer” and alternative and then hype up this way of experiencing attraction as if people are systematically oppressed for not having sex with strangers.

A straight cis woman who only wants to have sex with men she has emotional connections with is just your average straight cis woman and benefits entirely from straight privilege and is not LGBT or queer in any way so jot that down

[titterglitty-deactivated2018021]

This is acephobic trash and totally inaccurate, but I guess you’d have to talk to ace spectrum folks and not just gatekeep wildly to know that

[mommyqueerest]

Look at this fucking garbage jfc

[bisexual-detectives]

shout out to polyamorous and promiscous bisexuals for punching respectability politics in the dick and living the life that makes you happy

[dreamy-bisexuall-deactivated201]

bi women asking to not be written off based on relationship status =/= “forcing you to care about m/f relationships”, so jot that down

[dreamy-bisexuall-deactivated201]

honestly this wouldn’t be an issue if people viewed bi women as fully fledged humans and not units within a relationship (usually m/f ones because people LOVE to treat us as extensions to men)

so what if she’s in a monogomous relationship with a man? she’s a whole person who has a whole world and identity outside of it. To deny her community based on relationship status is to deny her personhood outside of her relationships.

[dreamy-bisexuall-deactivated201]

and to deny her personhood outside of her relationships is to isolate her and make her more susceptible to abuse from straight men!

[daniels-ramblings]

If you're an LGBT+ blog that includes aces/aros, please reblog this so I can follow you!

And if you’re just reblogging to spread this, say so in your tags please!

[transjewry]

Tumblr for Trans Jews

Shalom, let me take a moment to introduce TransJewry — the TL;DR? A blog whose primary aim is transgender and non-binary Jews of all backgrounds, which posts resources and materials that are otherwise extremely difficult to find as a small community.

I talk more about myself and the blog here, but feel free to ask questions or share resources. I would love for this to be shared, so that this becomes an active and easily accessible resource for those who need it!

[newsbypostcard-deactivated20221]

Will Finch, who came out into the gay world of Times Square in the 1930s, noted in his diary in 1951, ‘The word “queer” is becoming more and more derogatory and less and less used by … the homosexual, especially the younger ones, and the term “gay” taking its place. I loathe the word, and stick to “queer,” but am constantly being reproved, especially in so denominating myself.’

Gay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World 1890-1940 by George Chauncey. (Just in case y'all thought the discourse on this was remotely recent – it’s not.)

@vaspider

(via delirieuse)

funny how that works

(via vaspider)

[mommyqueerest]

the moon.

the fucking MOON???? people can think about the moon however the fuck they want to FFS you don’t own the fucking moon

jesus christ get a life you twits

[flyingpurplepizzaeater]

please sign the Chelsea Manning petition

- she did not hurt anyone, she leaked information in the public interest

- even if you disagree with what she did, there is no possible way she can do it again

- she was sentenced to 35 years, longer than anyone convicted of similar crimes

- she has already served six years, longer than anyone convicted of similar crimes

- she is being held in a men’s prison

- she was held in solitary confinement, which is considered psychological torture, for almost a year

- she was put in solitary confinement again this year for attempting suicide

- she has attempted suicide twice this year and may not survive her sentence

- she has spent her time in prison attempting to help other people

- she needs to be released while Obama is in office

- this is not a change.org petition, this is a whitehouse.gov petition, which the government has to respond to if it gets enough signatures

- it needs 49,000 more signatures in six days

- sign it, reblog it, queue it

- call your representatives and ask them to encourage Obama to free Chelsea Manning

- call the white house comment line at 1-202-456-1111

- https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/commute-chelsea-mannings-sentence-time-served-1

[dyrtydyke]

LG🐝T