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highlandvalley

rob-walks-deactivated20210614

no fucking way

thinned-skin

Isthis fucking reallife

magicalgirlmindcrank

Man this sports Anime has a really good budget

ommanyte

“HE ASCENDED THROUGH THE AIR LIKE A DEFENSIVE ANGELLL!!!!!1!1!1!1”

madeupmonkeyshit

i died when they put him back on the floor and started cheering

candiikismet

IM CRYING! Get this away from me

rabbitinthemeadow

A voice, soft and sweet and low and familiar, beckons you beyond the path Deeper into the wood

// Part 13

moodofvesuvia

God I hope it kills me lmfao

my-darling-boy

“Oh careful, Lad.”

When you’re the new footman and you’re really nervous and you accidentally run into the most attractive first footman you’ve ever seen in your life

sheis

thebootydiaries

delivery man: delivery for…Sacred Mistress Of Dark Spirits And All That Is Unholy?

me: (standing under my ebony Victorian doorway, stroking a large raven in my arms) oh cool my Pillow Pet. where do i sign

blizzardphobe

growing up, i dont remember my dad yelling at me when i got in trouble

he yelled when i was playing outside and he wanted me in for dinner, but that was only so id hear him. he yelled the day i told him and my mom about the abuse going on at school, but that was when i was up in my room and he was downstairs yelling over my special ed teacher abusing me and my classmates and the school letting it happen and how messed up it was. he yelled the night he went to kill my uncle cuz he was upset that my uncle had raped my cousin

but he never yelled at me. i wasnt afraid of him screaming at me or worried that he might hit me when i got in trouble

and i grew up just fine. i grew up feeling loved. i grew up able to talk to him about my hobbies and interests. i grew up comfortable around my own dad

its messed up that my experience was something many people i know never had. a lot of those people feel distant from their dad or tense around them. they dont connect with their fathers, and that is a fault on the fathers part. and that issue is yelling

blizzardphobe

‘but hermes how did he discipline you? maybe you were just a good kid?’

im really disorganized, and god i was much worse when i was younger. i didnt finish my homework a lot then either

so when wed get a note home about my incomplete homework and disorganization, my dad….didnt yell at me. wed go about our day and when we were alone, hed bring it up. he was always gentle about it and he took ‘i dont know’ as an answer when he asked me why i had trouble finishing homework or organizing

according to my mom, enough ‘i dont know’s led to me getting my adhd diagnosis

and like…..i got better with organizing and finishing work. why? cuz my dad helped me. he sat down and helped me with my homework. we made a system that helped me finish assignments. he helped me organize my backpack and folders. i still use these systems even though im older and hes not here

when we moved, i didnt like my new special ed teacher at first, mostly cuz i was afraid shed be like my old one. i skipped going to her room a lot. i did whatever i could to avoid her

and so my dad asked me why i didnt go to her class. he asked me while we were doing something we liked, he was gentle about it too, and he had never been even vaguely threatening to me before……so i felt comfortable telling him i was scared

he helped me with this too. he told me to write down everything that happened in special ed and keep the page, so id see after a period of time that she wasnt going to abuse me. he worked with my special ed teacher for us to interact outside of a classroom environment for a little so i wouldnt feel pressured or that she had power over me

yelling isnt discipline. yelling doesnt teach your kid to do the right thing. building trust with them, accepting their answers, and helping them overcome difficulties teaches them to do the right thing

blizzardphobe

the fact that people in the notes are genuinely shocked that a parent doesnt yell at their kid and wish that their parents were like mine is fucked up

imfemalewarrior

I think we could all take a page from this person’s dad’s book.

-FemaleWarrior, She/They

strongorcbutch-deactivated20220

Biggest fucking mood.

sinnahsaint

They’re also meant for hiltops, not small rooms. Cant get the right reverb with all that echo.

anais-ninja-bitch

they’re also meant to make you fight the english. don’t forget that part.

fool-errant

My fav bagpipe player was a dude who would go out to the middle of a soccer field near my college apartment on Sunday. No one was using the field and he’d just be out there playing his heart out and the sound were just spread out over the plains. I’d be working on art for class so I’d open the window and listen. I still have fond memories of the day a kid biked up to the edge of the field, ran over to the bagpiper and the music stopped for a moment and as they talked. I couldn’t hear it but I had assumed the worst, that someone had decided to tell him to stop playing. Instead after the pause the musician seemed to nod, readjusted his bagpipes and started belting out the Star Wars theme.

maes-music

i think ive reblogged this before but i still love it

sewickedthread

One of the highest death rates among Scots during WWI was Pipers. The Germans would target them, because they noticed the Scots would fight harder, longer, & fiercer if a piper was playing. According to what I heard, when a piper dropped, the nearest soldier who knew how to play would drop his rifle, pick up the pipes, and start playing.

archae-heart-deactivated2021012

My main goal for the rest of 2019 is to find a beautiful home at the edge of some cold, stormy sea. I could dreamily live the rest of my life in this scene.