Lou

°19, student°

[violent-autoandrophilia]

I'm not for kink shaming but I'm gonna be real detrans and misgendering kinks can very easily be pipelines to groom trans men into detransitioning in real life. I feel like it comes from the isolation of being transmasc, and how we're only seen as desirable when we're performing femininity (you know the common story of young tboys being groomed by older cis guys who don't see them as men so they detransition? Doesn't it seem familiar?), especially performing femininity sexually. You either keep it very strictly fantasy and make sure you've got everything under control or you're at a pretty high risk of getting groomed.

[stephanisoejono]

happy new year -------------_--------------------

[calamity-aims]

[inbabylontheywept]

my favorite comprehensible math fact is that 1 + 1/2 + 1/4 + 1/8 + 1/16 + 1/32... all the way on, forever, equals exactly 2. and i love it because it sounds totally mystical and then you see the proof for it and its just like a little drawing that makes you go, oh, right, duh. like all you need is a square that you have decided has an area of 2, and then you just start coloring in.

[inbabylontheywept]

i see what you're referring to, but that "never get that final block in place" thing is what infinity is for. the infinity is kind of for the moment when you do the final thing in a never ending pattern. its the last number. there is no last number. its there. you can see it. you cannot get there. but what if you did? then you'd be at two. you are at two. you measure the corners of your house. its a little bigger on the inside than the out. hm.

uh oh.

[inbabylontheywept]

we dont talk about the ramanujan sum in this house. that is an incomprehensible math fact and the way that it repeatedly pops up in high level physics is proof that there is something wrong with our high level physics, or something wrong with the idea of addition itself. it scares me. genuinely.

[identitty-dickruption]

nobody ever believes me when I list off all of the ways that humans are significantly less sexually dimorphic than people seem to believe and it drives me batshit insane. “you’re denying the biological reality of sex” well you’re sticking your fingers in your ears and saying lalalala every time anyone presents you with data that confirms that women and men aren’t really that different. and refusing to come to terms with the two-way relationship between the “biological” and “social” worlds. I think one of us is ignoring the biological sciences here and it isn’t me

[shofarsogood]

Someone once told me my biology degree was fake because I said humans weren't sexual dimorphic.

A male human and a female human are roughly the same size and same coloration.

Meanwhile, male black widow spiders are brown and a tenth the size of females. Anglerfish females are a full foot long and have a bioluminescent protrusion on their heads; males are barely half an inch long with no bioluminescence or protrusions. Male elephant seals are ten times bigger than females and have massive snouts. Male orangutans have big jowls and neck sacs that look like goiters, while females look more like other apes. Peacocks have flashy coloration and a long tail that they can display. The females are brown and simple.

Humans aren't sexually dimorphic! You only know someone's gender because of cultural identifiers, like clothing or hair.

[zaprowsdower27]

The big things for primate sexual dimorphism tend to be canine size and body size. Male primates in sexually dimorphic species tend to have HUGE canine teeth for better threat displays, and are bigger for similar reasons.

Lowland Gorilla males tend to be 2.38x on average the mass of Lowland Gorilla females. Humans? That ratio is something line 1.15.

Male gorilla canines tend to be about 2 inches long, easily twice the length of some of their other teeth. Male humans have canines the exact same length as human female canines and the exact same length as the rest of our teeth.

We are not particularly sexually dimorphic.

[zeelatunes]

hrt and transgender surgeries being positioned as dangerous and experimental despite being around for much longer than ozempic, which many people are pushing as a miracle weight loss drug while ignoring its real medical indications and any possible negative side effects

it seems like hypocrisy but it's really the same idea: your body is not yours to control. you are not allowed to be fat, you are not allowed to be trans, we will say whatever it takes to keep you in line

[hoss-bonaventure]

"let me be the canvas to your fists" is such a beautifully gut-wrenching line that you'd assume would be like from a lana del rey song or something. but no, that blonde twink said it to kyle gallner during the behind-the-scenes of their gay little indie movie.

[anchovy]

Made a lowball offer on eBay as a joke and it got accepted. uh oh.

[anchovy]

I’m so fucked

[antlerpains]

the only time I’ll open up, is when I’m firing

[moo-savr]

suck in paradise

[nonexistent-triangle]

the irredeemable pervert is generally well regarded among their friends for their insightful thoughts and all around pleasant demeanour

[morguelou]

Cock is ticking

[anxelarxtz]

Cock is ticking

[morguelou]

COCK IS TICKING

[morguelou]

Cock is ticking

[acecroft]

KYLE GALLNER as Oliver Anderson in Carolina Caroline (2025)

[crippled-peeper]

if you enter any primarily-trans or queer social space with the intent to make trans men “sit down” and “shut up” and “give space” etc I consider you a detriment to the mental health of your community members and I’m going to say something to you about it

[st-dionysus]

And for my fellow trans men, I remind you of the "3 ups" provided by Lou Sullivan's FTM Newsletter back in the 90s. They were relevant than and remain relevant now. Stand Up, Show Up, and SPEAK UP. This motto has been what keeps me moving and pushes me to remain active in queer and trans spaces, even when I face isolation, rejection, abuse, or erasure. Nothing will get better until we make it clear that we deserve a space at the table we helped build.

[flattopfucker]

Death before detransition.

[rabid-hyena-bites]

DEATH BEFORE DETRANSITION

DEATH BEFORE DETRANSITION

DEATH BEFORE DETRANSITION

[burgerdotcom]

reblogs were off

[juunipupu]

I'm a trans man, and Wreg has sort of become my transition goal, you could say (scaled down to 5'2). Before your blog I'd never really seen that body type represented in such a thoughtful way. It helped me see the male body in a new light. I think you're an amazing artist, and your work makes me very happy.

This is so flattering to hear, and I'm honored that my musings on masculinity and beauty have given you some new perspective/inspiration on the topic..just wow. I hope you all the best, and I'm cheering you on your journey!

+silly doodle of Wreg, he honestly would combust from pride if he knew fellas wanted to become like him