moss-and-mirth

this is a tickling blog - 36 - she/her 🇨🇦 Minors DNI

[moss-and-mirth]

Updated Tumblr Bio for 2025

Hi all!

I am an extra tall hobbit and an average sized Canadian. I also make a spectacular goblin. Shires, grass, pipeweed, tea, rocks, moss and shiny things. Do you want tea? I probably just made tea.

To answer the most frequently asked question on this site - I've been into this kink for my entire life, basically. Started going to events at 21 and I'm 36 now. Do some math. I hate math. But I'm pretty active in the tickle community.

I'm into people of all genders, but I go 100% gay every second Wednesday.

Lately I've started to feel a bit old for Tumblr, but then I remember that I've been on here for 10+ years and I WAS HERE FIRST. 😝 That said, I'm really not too keen on interacting with people who have a significant age gap from me.

I do run a private tickling related discord server or two. You can DM me if you're interested in those. 👀

Beyond all these words, I am a lee leaning switch. As in, mostly a lee, but sometimes fond of switching for revenge. This kink is honestly the best there is and arguably the most fun.

I sometimes shoot lil contents for fun with my friends. You can find a post or two on here. Open to making new connections but friendship is always the baseline. Please don't just DM me to "talk tickling" or whatever the f that means. I don't RP but envy people who are good at it. To me, posting content and answering DMs are two different moods. My communication style is asynchronous. I'm a Millennial god dang it.

This blog is incredibly NSFW so obviously minors DNI and all that. I will block accounts that are ageless, minors and sometimes even anyone with 'teen' in their age. Because I can.

[fox-boi-rev]

As an oldie but a goodie of the tickling communtiy, we appreciate that you’re excited for an upcoming gathering and we’re happy to have you but there are also volunteers who want to keep it at a manageable level and when you make announcements offering yourself as a lee or sessions in general on Tumblr, it gives the wrong impression of what this community event is about, especially one that is special to a lot of people. And you likely don't know the level of meaning it might actually have to a lot of us, but just think about it. Like you might not know that we have mourned 2 community members passing in the past 4 years, one that we are still grieving from last year. And this year is going to likely be a tear jerker, and celebrating a life is going to be important to this year. The thing is, this community isn't just about how many sessions you can cram into a weekend. Its about togetherness, it's about connection, its about being around other people who are going to get it; and if you're still nervous about being included - you're going to be around people who understand exactly that. Just please, keep an open mind and see this in our perspective.

[fox-boi-rev]

As a longtime veteran of the tickling community, yeah I am that old , I'm almost 40- I've been going to tickling events since 2008. I'm well seasoned. I have friends and loves of my life all over the world. I even co-hosted for many years one of the now larger tickling events in NY. I have never in all my years heard/seen so much discrimination against those who are considered "elders" in the community. Let me be clear, you have every right and opportunity to be at any event no matter what legal age, even if you're in your 40s, 50s, 60s - the oldest member I have seen who still attends events is in his late 70s and he is the nicest most intelligent man I have ever met. They have a right to be here, just like you 20 somethings. You have to consider and respect a few things...or maybe put this into perspective.

When they were in their 20s, they did not have the platforms you have today. They were lucky to meet anyone at your age who was willing to even consider to try the fetish. This world is now mainstreamed from here to Instagram to X to Snapchat to whatever else you guys use these days. All things that you have had available immediately. They 👏 did 👏not👏have👏that👏.

And honestly, who do you think created these gatherings that you go to today? Why do you think these exist?

I get it, talking to someone twice your age might make you uncomfortable, but that doesn't give you a right to shun them as if they don't belong because they are much older than you. That's bullshit, if thats you, you need to get over yourself.

Think about it before you discriminate, these folks are the reason this all exists. So instead of being an asshole and discriminating against someone who may be older, think about where we would be if they didn't exist, where we could be if they didn't start these events in the 1990s. You crave community, they started it probably before you were born.

Think about how to say thank you.

[sugarsoakertkl]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[moss-and-mirth]

Louder for the people in the back 👏

[sentinelq]

Sorry babygirl, the tickling isn't stopping until you've cried ALL your makeup off.

[orphicabyss-deactivated20231008]

[twordish]

me being ganged up on by a group of girls when

[lovietklee]

with the precious help of @maxuran (teaching all of us that the verbal teasing makes everything worse lol)

[lovietklee]

First session✨

[v-lee92]

Punishment tickles for bratting & sass are my absolute favorite.... (But shhhhhh 🤫 don't tell the Lers that!!)

[sensitivemarie-deactivated20250]

Its actually so rude to use my own posts against me btw

[moss-and-mirth]

re: tickle sessions

[brushtickler]

HEAR YE HEAR YE

Bella and I have just updated the Bella Bash website for 2025!

We have worked to update small things about verbiage but the bigger changes are:

Updating the dates to be accurate.

Updating the theme of the costume party on Saturday.

Costume party?? I hear you cry. Check it out on the website. 😉

Furthermore! After a lovely evening with Bella we have discussed the following: in her own words, how to contact/reach out to Bella:

“The rules are simple:

Be nice, don’t talk shit, don’t bring your Tumblr drama to real life, and don’t do crimes (at least not Bash weekend).

I’ve noticed that lately the newer people don’t know what to say when they first contact me. It’s simple. Just say “hi”, your name, that you’d like to come to the Bash, and include two references. References are people that I know who have been to the Bash. NOT your friend that I have never heard of. If you are brand new, tell me and we’ll go from there.

If you want your play partner or whomever to come, they need to write me individually. If they are too shy to write their own email, they are too shy to attend the Bash.”

That was Bella in her own words, dictated to me, and transcribed by me in italics and bold above.

Also from my good friend @sugarsoakertkl , some very good advice in the comments that I wanted to add:

“If you are using someone as a reference, please confirm with said person that they’re comfortable with you using them as a reference. 💕 I’ve heard a lot of people get named dropped over the years and they had no idea they were a “vouch” for someone. It’s awkward. Don’t do it.”

That said the website is:

Home | Bella Bash

Have fun! Enjoy! Reach out! And if you are going I will see you there! ☺️ (also signal boosting is appreciated)

Sincerely,

Brush

[wreckthelee-deactivated20250901]

If you REALLY want to fluster me, don’t call me cute, ticklish, a toy, a good girl…

Call me by my name.

I can hide behind the persona of a toy. Or a good girl. Or a plaything.

I can pretend to be this cute, adorable, ticklish little thing.

I can separate myself from the thing you want me to be—the thing you keep teasing me that I am. I can pretend to be a giggly little girl for a minute, or an hour, or a day.

But calling me out by name? There’s nowhere to hide. I can’t pretend to be someone else for a split second. You mean ME. The real me.

You find ME attractive. You like MY laughs. You like to see ME squirm.

At that point I’m no longer just A toy…I’m THE toy.

Now that…THAT’S flustering. 😵‍💫🫠

[moss-and-mirth]

It's all fun and games until suddenly the session is a few days away and you're wondering what the heck you got yourself into.

🙃

[a-delicate-touch]

i've said this time and time again, but just because someone is popular on tumblr, plays with a million different people, and posts content that gets a lot of notes does NOT make them a safe partner. there are a lot of things that go on in the background that nobody ever knows about and that never comes to light. do not idolize these people, and do not put them on a pedestal.

[obsessive-ego]

Reminder this is an 18plus blog

[fetishimo-deactivated20251017]

PSA to the lees and lers on here:

Always protect your energy.

I know it's tempting to put yourself out there and everyone here wants to do sessions with their favorites or people they meet here, but remember that it comes at a price... you must always be careful. I've seen too many people get hurt from this app. It's nice to make connections, but jealousy and envy can eat away at you and turn you into someone you don't want to be.

You can be your own worst enemy and overthink things and ruin good things. You can feel a certain way and someone shows their true colors and destroy your perception of them. You can try your best not to hurt someone and it still does. The road to Hell is paved with good intentions, as they say.

So ALWAYS communicate and be as transparent as possible. Be humble. Be good. And again, PROTECT your energy! Life is already a struggle. Don't let what you love also become a burden.

Much love to you all! ✌️

- Fetishimo 🪶

[addigni]

Reblog if you genuinely support asexuals

It terrifies me that there’s so much raging passion in the lgbt+ community that insist on marginalizing asexuals and implying that asexuals don’t deserve to have safe spaces. There’s still so much acephobia so I just wanna know which blogs are genuinely supportive and a safe space for asexuals

[beebug31]

All sexual preferences, except for pedos, and those causing harm, are safe here ❤️

[bladedragon87]

Piggy backing on what @beebug31 said and am in full agreement