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river e mad sasukehater. e alfie.
someone keeps arguing with me on a post where I described the state of being a child as functionally disabling (in the context of human rights) and they keep trying to make ridiculous comparisons that no one would ever believe like “you would never say that women are disabled!” yeah obviously no one would ever argue that women are inherently physically and cognitively unfit for human rights or autonomy. no one would ever say that. it’s so fortunate that we live in a world where no one believes that.
Except, you know, when you do. Say for instance if you are not able to open a bank account or own property or get a job or go to school or wear pants or go out into public alone or or or or or or…
also their other comparison was “you wouldn’t say being gay is like being disabled!” and you’re right I wouldn’t but this was a mainstream sentiment in the US within living memory and people got institutionalized and lobotomized and forcibly sterilized for it so like.
and then you look at medical racism and phrenology and it starts looking more and more like all this shit’s more closely related than you’d imagine
So kids are an interesting case because by virtue of being non-adults, their rights are often sharply curtailed. They're restricted in what they can do, often severely restricted. Which is a big problem, because the people responsible for them often either don't have their best interests in mind or have Very Different Ideas about what the kid's best interests are.
sure, and legally on paper being a child looks pretty much exactly like being disabled enough that you're considered to "need" a conservatorship, or being declared "legally incompetent." that's a huge reason why "presume competence" is the rallying cry of a lot of people with disabilities, particularly those with intellectual/developmental disabilities and those with high support needs. similarly the concept of "dignity of risk" exists to argue that autonomy should be prioritized even in cases where society decides someone's decisionmaking process may be "impaired" somehow.
Ok here's a tangent, but bear with me.
Imagine you're dropped suddenly into an unfamiliar landscape, stark naked. Take a minute to think of everything you would wish you had in that situation. Clothes, a blanket, a way of contacting someone you knew? A knife, a fishing net, a fire starter, knowledge of local plants and animals? Prepared food? Glasses, shoes? Medications? All of those things are assistive technologies. They are tools that help you survive and thrive in the world, in ways you would struggle with alone and naked. Some are physical technologies, some are social technologies, some are things you could make for yourself and some are not - but all of them are things you rely on to get by.
As a society we've set an expectation about the set of assistive technologies it is "normal" to need. The fact of needing these things is glossed over, unexamined.
Disability is defined by being unable to perform key functions of your own life or participation in society - but it is defined this way in the context of assumptions about assistive technology access.
Some disabilities can be near-completely ameliorated by specific assistive devices (like glasses.) For others, the assistive technology needed includes more complex social support technologies. But broadly, an approach is possible that says, what would you need, in order to live your life fully? Does it exist, and if not, can we create it? Assistive technologies are by no means a solved problem, but the outlook is to improve life and capacity as much as possible by exploring support options. Anyone who has an unmet need can be benefited by this approach - a total expansion of social support.
In practice, what we mostly see is the inverse of that. The normal level of social support becomes a benchmark. Medicalization of disability often says, "what would it take to make you into someone who only needed 'normal' levels of support?"
Worse, the normal level of social support becomes a reward. A reward for what? Why, for being able to function in society without any more support than that! If you can't accomplish that, do you even deserve this much support? Key pieces of social technology for living in the world are withheld from some people - on the basis of their supposed unfitness to be fully independent members of society. This is what's discussed above - in the context of women being barred from property ownership or independent bank accounts, children being barred from decision making about almost every aspect of their lives, and disabled adults deemed "legally incompetent" facing both.
Lacking access to technologies that would make you able to participate in the physical and social world is disabling. Disability is a status of lacking what you need to function, which can arrise from many causes. Health can be disabling. Poverty can be disabling. Abusive relationships can be disabling. Criminalization and discriminated legal status can be disabling.
Very often, the people withholding key social technologies make the argument that they are withheld *because* you lack capacity - deflecting the impacts of what is withheld ON your capacity and re-naturalizing the source of the problem as inherent to you. This can be done to anyone, by anyone with enough social power over them. The fact that it often occurs to people who are Also struggling because of other unmet needs that would be unmet even if they did receive the full allocation of "normal" support, should not obscure that both of these dynamics are rooted in denial of needed support and blame for needing support at all.
It is because of this deflection that I think disability analysis can't afford to center on what disabilities are "inherent" to a person, versus situational due to discrimination and lack of resources. I don't think those are seperable factors, and even if they were I wouldn't trust people to seperate them accurately, due to the nature of discrimination itself.
Likewise, I think it's crucial to challenge the unexamined status of what is a "normal" level of assistive technology to have access to - including examining things like "autonomy" and "being taken seriously" AS assistive technologies - in the sense that they are social technologies that critically impair quality of life if denied. Perhaps if people who don't think of themselves as disabled, learned to view things they absolutely rely on as assistive technologies, they would be less careless about treating other people's assistive technologies as if they were optional.
(I think one reason for pushback on this framing is the fear that it trivializes disability. That by putting disability on a continuum with experiences had by people who face much less profound social struggles, people will feel they are granted liscence to focus on their own problems. I can't say that's not a real concern! We've all seen versions of that happen, I think. I DO think this type of reframing of disability is useful to understanding why people face the struggles they do, and what other approaches are possible. But it does always bear reiterating that some people are having an EXTREMELY bad time and that their struggles need to be prioritized.)
sometimes i learn things from your blog and sometimes i see you being full of love and sometimes it's neither of those things but i'm really glad i followed you
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I’m going to not have access to my phone for a few hours does anyone want to send me nice messages/asks/comments while I am gone so I can open them when I get back. I won’t have it for a fun reason but I want love and attention please and thank you love you bye
It was a concert and I am on my way home now and it was fun but also I felt like I was getting beat up the whole time (not in a fun mosh pit way, in my badbrain is getting repeatedly pummeled by the crowd way) and I kept thinking wow this is so painful and awful I need to stop. going to concerts. And I definitely won’t until November at least since I already have tix for then.
But yeah so often I go out and come back feeling significantly Less Able and this was one of those times. NICE MESSAGES/ASKS/COMMENTS NOW EXTRA APPRECIATED THANK YOU
I’m going to not have access to my phone for a few hours does anyone want to send me nice messages/asks/comments while I am gone so I can open them when I get back. I won’t have it for a fun reason but I want love and attention please and thank you love you bye
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EVERY DISABLED CHILD SHOULD GET A MILLION BILLION DOLLARS AND FULL LEGAL AUTONOMY AND FREE TRANSIT TO WHEREVER THEY WANT TO GO AND COMPLETE ALLOWANCE TO KILL WHOEVER THEY WANT.
Also I latched onto the terms racialized/misogynized/etc with immediate gratification. Fuck yes let’s cut away the obfuscating layers of hegemonic thought in our language and construct new ways of thinking that will bring us closer to the center of things, so we can have a better handhold as we upwrench it. They are not what we ARE they are things that are DONE to us. YES. GOOD. What are we cutting closer to NEXT
Despite being very aware of the concept I only learned the phrase epistemic injustice fairly recently and I immediately LOVED it so much. I fucking love when we name the oppressive forces that pervade our lives so ubiquitously it makes them difficult to see, understand, and define. Feels like pinning them down with a nail. Fucking GOT YOU. Fucker.
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A Bunch Of Previews For The ✨Star Trek✨ MTG Set Just Dropped
Worth it just for these two cards, to me, tbh
Ah yes the four genders, Starfleet, Starfleet, Klingon, and Borg
(Did they yassify the salt vampire a little or is that just me…?) Mariner!!!! My girl!!!!
An entire card just for In The Pale Moonlight. Yes correct good what it deserves. And Hoshi!!
Two queens, equally beautiful.
There are only so many cards leaked/dropped atm, but the whole set is coming on November 13th. It’s going to have cards inspired by every Trek it looks like. (For better or for worse, lol) Fun to look at!!!!
The Deanna psychic lightning is absolutely my favorite but check these out too
Seven and Beverly!!
Sisko, appropriately good card
The Lal card that triggers its ability when it dies😭😭😭😭
Coffee Janeway and Borg Janeway
Really love Gowron aka Chancellor Crazy Eyes on the cover here, also like how Kirk and Picard have the share the yellow beam while Sisko, Janeway and Burnham each get their own.
It is My Beasts birthday today, but they’re on a trip abroad and don’t have cell service so I haven’t been able to celebrate it at all. I did send something with them that hopefully they have remembered to open. I’m too happy for them that they are on this trip to really be sad but it does feel weird to let it pass by without remark. Let it be known that today 25 years ago the world was changed forevermore by the arrival of a great and terrible beast, whose impressive countenance none have seen the like before or since, whose prowess defies understanding or reason, whose bravery and mercy has humbled and bested endless foes, and who gifts me with endless love and loyalty and dirty socks on the floor next to the couch in the same exact spot every single time without fail even if they were only here for like twenty minutes, somehow.
Whenever I think of them I am reminded of that famous Wittgenstein quote, “If I lion could speak we would not understand him.” Truly nothing and no one is like My Beast. May they live forever and never die
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