komaeda tried to eat my ass

hi i’m a dumbass lesbian and welcome to my twisted mind (discourse sideblog)

[foulserpent]

god not to beat a dead  horse but peak MOGAI tumblr is taking a Serious symptom of sexual trauma that is Absolutely Not a part of a healthy sex life and should be a sign that you should seek help. and calling it a sexuality

[oncelerfucker69-deactivated2019]

this is like…a major symptom of abuse

[closet-keys]

we desperately need more education on healthy sexuality, compulsory heterosexuality, internalized homophobia, sexual abuse, coercion, trauma symptoms, and meaningful consent to replace contextless validation of every experience with the implication that any possible relationship to sex is healthy. 

young people are being groomed into believing sexual abuse is just a natural part of their identity and it’s incredibly scary that abusers have been able to co-opt the general language of sexual/romantic orientation to normalize this.

it’s really important that adults help kids and teens in our community understand that this is not what orientation is. 

informed education needs to replace contextless validation

[homoidiotic]

insinuating aphobia is on the same level as homophobia or transphobia, historically or currently, is a fucking joke and insulting to people who experience those things

[thotsune]

inclusionists stop being lesbophobic challenge

[algbt]

lgbt aces who stand up against the ace/mogai community are braver than any us marine

[itched]

this month, instead of including cishets, you’re invited to do the following in spirit of pride:

rally against police violence

march against your local conservative government

demand more research against AIDs

demand lgbt education in schools

get a gay SO and kiss them

die if you think cishets ever have and ever will get to celebrate pride

[loves-quinns]

The fact that lesbians have to beg to be remembered during pride but the acceptance of aces are thrown in our face everyday really fucking stings

[estradiol]

GSAs are literally made for cishets who either wanna feel oppressed or wanna feel like they're the next political activist that'll be remembered in history books 💅🏼💅🏼

[disaceters-blog-deactivated2025]

I genuinely don’t understand ace discourse

Like… Asexuals don’t feel sexual attraction. This means they aren’t attracted to the opposite sex. Which means they aren’t heterosexual. Which means they’re LGBT+. That’s it. Its not fucking rocket science.

Y'all aphobes are dumb as shit.

[aphobicvenom]

The argument is about cisgender heteroromantic aces/cisgender heterosexual aros not being lgbt bc they benefit from cishet privilege. To be lgbt you gotta fit under L, G, B, or T (pan fits under the B and nb under the T) and aro aces don’t fit under any of those either, and they still benefit from straight privelege. Sorry but idc if you don’t wanna fuck or be in a relationship, y’aint LGBT!!

It’s not fucking rocket science :)))

[thotsune]

When will inclusionists understand that we aren’t “exluding cishets aces/aros for fun” and being “mean”

We’re scared. We’re at risk of being killed, some of our rights are taken away, some of us get raped, kicked out of their home and other things I don’t even want to think about.

We have to fight for ourselves. Everyday.

You can say whatever you want, but cishets aces/aros will never be lgbt. They will never live the same experiences that we do for being who we are.

The lgbt community is the only safe space that we are. We do not want to let cishets take that away from us.

[truscum-greg-blog]

people have literally been killed for being trans and have been struggling with dysphoria for years and years yet whiny little teens on the internet have the audacity to say ‘i chose to be trans/have no dysphoria uwu’ like you have no idea how much some people would give to be cis.

[exyclusionist]

i hope all aces and aros coming out on national coming out day know how brave you are! you face a lot of prejudice and it’s so courageous to be able to share who you are in the face of adversity and haha i’m just kidding but this sure sounds like something someone on this site would say despite the fact that this day is for lgbt people and aces cant get “outed” as ace, nor can they use the term “coming out” bc it has sixty years of history linked to homophobic and transphobic violence

[acephobiafreediscourse]

reblog if ur an ace-positive exclusionist

(supports aro/ace people while not believing they are inherently lgbt!)

[teacourse]

The LGBT community is not the Island of Misfit Toys, there’s an actual fucking point to our existence. It’s not just a fun club for anyone who feels like they don’t fit every social norm. We are Oppressed, Lindsay

[estradiol]

Mom, Dad … I’m straight … but I’m only sexually attracted to my girlfriend after getting to know her… god I’m so glad I got that off my chest please don’t kick me out

[eversnark-deactivated20260521]

Hey, uhh, let’s just fuck off and leave this shithole for good

Why do ace/aros want to join a community that treats them like shit? Let’s leave. Become the ace/aro community, start our own shit, detach from the LGBT+ community.

We got things to do and I don’t wanna waste time trying to fit somewhere we aren’t needed

[witchgays]

Excuse me, I don't want to seem rude or anything, but I was curious as to why aces aren't considered part of the whole spectrum? Or, maybe that was a joke I missed? Sorry for bothering you!

hey, gonna keep this blunt. LGBT isn’t a spectrum, it is a community of 4 identities (Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Trans) oppressed under homophobia/transphobia and their subsets.

Asexuality isn’t included under any of those, it also isn’t systemically oppressed. The LGBT community isn’t a club for everyone who is slightly different; it’s a political movement pushing for LGBT liberation and it makes no sense having people who aren’t LGBT in the community

[wizardvideo]

remember when the dude who coined the term asexuality said he wanted ace people to have a slur like faggot so they could reclaim it. and remember how faggots original meaning was a bundle of sticks used to light a fire. and remember how gay people used to be burned at the stake. and remember how being gay is still punishable by death in 12 countries and illegal in 72.