Idk what disabled person needs to hear this but you have to learn to say âmy illness ruined this situationâ instead of âI ruined this situationâ
Because you are not at fault. You did nothing wrong. You were looking out for your own health, and if that fun thing was cut short or cancelled because of that, then thatâs not on you. You didnât chose to be sick, itâs not like youâd willingly back out of doing something you were excited about doing unless you had to.
Whether it be because of anxiety, or a flare came up, or youâre just not feeling up to it, or whatever it may be. Those are all completely valid reasons to âruinâ a fun time. It sucks ass, but you canât blame yourself for it, as it is not something you can control.



















