xNTJ: Every rule has an exception.
xNTP: Especially this one.
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xNTJ: Every rule has an exception.
xNTP: Especially this one.
ADVICE FOR DATING EVERY TYPE
(based on observations, research, and personal experience)
ENFJ: Let them know you accept them. Strive to understand their beliefs. Don’t give up if they’re closed off emotionally–give them another chance to open up to you. Support their interests.
ENFP: Affirm your affection verbally. Be honest and direct. Don’t over-plan or invade too much into their private life. Go on adventures together, and don’t shut down the random things they say.
INFJ: Work hard to understand them–their values, their personality, their thoughts. Set aside time to be alone together. Don’t make them feel like your ideas or way or life is superior to theirs.
INFP: Give them the space they need. Let them know that you care about who they authentically are. Be yourself, and be open with your intent. Don’t devalue their emotions.
ESFJ: Check in on them, and let them know you care about how they’re doing. Don’t push them out when they want to become more invested in your life. Don’t move too fast.
ESTJ: Be loyal to them. Set aside time where you can have each other’s full attention. Let them know that you can follow through. Don’t doubt their affection for you.
ISFJ: Affirm their accomplishments. Acknowledge their needs and find out what you can do to help. Indulge in traditionally romantic activities. Don’t ignore when they give non-verbal signs of being upset.
ISTJ: Let them know that they can trust and rely on you. Be self-sufficient. Don’t embarrass them in a big group setting. Give them space to do the things that are important to them.
ENTJ: Be willing to try new experiences that they’re interested in. Start discussions about deep topics. Don’t over-control. Make sure that each of your goals for the relationship are clear to the other.
ENTP: Look for new experiences together. Express your trust in their competence. Don’t hold them back from their goals. Engage in intellectual conversation.
INTJ: Have a direct approach–don’t play hard to get. Clearly communicate your expectations and ask what they expect of you. Respect each other’s independence. Don’t try to make them something they’re not.
INTP: Express what you like about them. Don’t try to control their life. Communicate what’s important to you and ask what’s important to them. Give them alone time when they need it.
ESFP: Be open to new and exciting experiences. Allow them to express their affection in a way that makes sense to them. Don’t worry if they seem flirty. Respect their friendships.
ESTP: Keep at their pace. Be open and clear about what you feel and think. Look for fun, risky adventures to go on together, and be a part of the action. Don’t restrict their experiences.
ISFP: Respect their feelings. Make sure that you pursue their happiness just as much as they pursue yours. Don’t disrespect their value system or their personal boundaries. Give specific compliments.
ISTP: Let them have both personal space. Don’t overwhelm them by always discussing where the relationship is going. Be easy-going and open to new situations.
Intp problems
- Something interests them? HYPERFOCUS
- Something bores them? Procrastination and avoidance of said thing.
- Eternally ‘detached’ from the present, physical world.
- Lost in their heads
- Doesn’t know how to manage emotions, ’ can I be a robot please’
- “ You look pensive, what are you thinking about?”
- Not understanding how people can’t understand what you say and you get disgruntled because IT IS NOT THAT COMPLICATED TO UNDERSTAND
- If no one pulls them out of their bedroom, 99% guaranteed they’ll just stay in there
- Masters of the art of the ’ organized mess ’
You know when Fe took over
When your mood changes every 3 minutes.
(No time for the intp grip)
INTP and kissing
INTP: *has to study five hundred pages in a week* Done!
INTP: *has to solve everyone's problems* Easy.
INTP: *has to fight for her ideals* I love it!
INTP: *makes someone's cry for no reason* *this turns out to be mean* That's my life!
INTP: *has to kiss a boy she fancies* AHHHHHHHH PANICK. OMG, WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO? OMG OMG OMG, IT WILL BE HORRIBLE, I WILL GET WEIRD AND HE WILL GET AWKWARD. HOW DO YOU KISS SOMEONE?
INTP friend: It's not your first kiss... you know how to kiss.
INTP: I FORGOT, I AM TERRIFIED! AND... WHAT CAN I DO IF HE FALLS IN LOVE WITH ME?
INTP friend: ...
INFP: ...
WORLD: ...
ENFP humor in your experience?
Oh gosh. It’s so silly. Like, you think INTP and ENTP humor is random? ENFPs are all over the place. They see a weird-shaped fence? They might laugh for hours. They see a fluffy dog chasing its tail? While an ENTP might laugh, the ENFP might cry.
I have 0 ways to predict what ENFPs will laugh at. I think it’s anything and everything, but the mood depends on whether they’ll laugh at it??? Not sure????
INTP Facts I notice
This is based in my experience, so don’t fit all INTPs. Here’s the facts:
- Seem at first extremely bored, but their eyes shine up when you catch their attention, trying not to show it - Got a obsession… or more than one - Love animals, especially fluffy, soft and sweet ones - If also strange even better, they empathize with those misunderstood creatures as they are (I guess, so they told me that) - Love books and comix,and gadget about them - Enjoy classic authors and philosopher, and are enchanted by them - Loves mithology, especially the vichink and greek one - To this to technology things and innovation - Stare a point in a room for hours, void in thier eyes. Come back to reality can be traumatic - Their reasoning can be strange or particular, but (I don’t know how) makes perfectly sense most of times - Talk to them can be difficult at first, but with more trust become interesting and stimulating - Especially so you understand them better - If they make you a compliment, you don’t like them. If they tease or joke with you, you like them - Even if they don’t admit it, they really deeply care (under that sarcasm) - Oh right, they are very sarcastic, and can’t say when they are or not - They are chaotic, like their mind reflect in their chamber, notes,writing, etc - Have particular music/art taste: like artist or sounds not really in pop culture - Interested in research field, that are still partially unknown
Labels?
Customer: What is it with you kids and your labels!?!
Me: ….. you think we want to have labels? We use them as shields against a society that doesn’t listen to No.
Customer: Well fine. But don’t shove it in everyone else’s face, am I right?
Me: You’ve been coming to this store for 8 months now and know almost nothing about me, correct?
Customer: …. yes?
Me: But I can fix that rather quickly. I’m a Slytherin, INTP, Aromantic, Asexual who borders on being Schizoid.
Regular Customer sitting at close table: Holy shit, everything makes sense now!
Me: *points to the Regular* My point.
Customer: *stuttering*
Me: We use labels to cut corners in getting to know a person in a fast paced and impersonal society. Not because we want to seem like special, unique little snowflakes.
Coworker: If you haven’t researched those labels it basically means that she is a mildly evil robot who can be defeated with a hug from the right person. Relatable to a cat.
Me: ………. She’s rude but not wrong.
Some Mbti Type Dynamics IRL
ISTP + ESFP = keep up or get dragged INFJ + INTJ = sass and subtext over 9000 ENFJ + ENTJ = power explosion, no survivors ESFJ + ISTP = “that’s morally questionable but we’ll laugh about it anyway” ENFJ + ESFP = bromance of insults, and wondering why they weren’t invited to the other’s party ENFJ + ISTP = fun and frustrating. Take a breath and hug it out, then get food INFJ + ENFJ = constantly asking “why do you love me?” and slapping each other with Exasperation™ INFP + ENFP = truth bombs and nothing else INFP + INTJ = “I love you but please stop” INFP + INFJ = “the world and its emotions are ours to understand” ENFJ + INFP = “SQUISH. You’re loved :3 but also terrifying and weird lol” ISFP + ENFP = “you’re adored and life is better with you in it” the true good vibe ISTP + INFJ = “here’s why everything sucks but why that makes life worth it anyway” INFJ + ENFP = chaotic understanding ENFP + ISTJ = “you’re cool for a reason but I can’t remember what it is rn” ISTJ + INFJ = and that’s how this elaborate procedure is effective now and forever. Amen. INFJ + ENTJ =“ here, let me help you with that” INTP + INFJ = “what even is existence, right? ” ESTJ + ISTP = “you don’t like it but I’m doing this anyways”
ENTP + INTJ = you’re a mess and it’s hilarious
Feelings
XXXX: I have feelings for you
INTX: ah
INTX: like romantic?
INTX: why?
INTX: what is wrong with you?
Can you give me some concrete differences between ENFP and ENTP?
(Gif: not related and you don’t care anyway.)
Concrete? Well, if you have read all the other times I have answered this question and not found the answer yet, probably no. ;)
Go watch Serendipity. He’s ENTP. She’s ENFP. Notice their focus.
TiFe: seeks to build a system of abstract understanding (Ti). This means the Ti user is trying to constantly categorize everything it encounters, in an effort to build an internal framework of knowledge. In an NTP, this means often bypassing reality for abstract theory.
Often, what I hear from my ENTP friend is: “PEOPLE ARE SO NONSENSICAL, WHY DO THEY HAVE TO BE SO NONSENSICAL?” He’s having trouble with their irrational emotional outbursts not correlating with his own Ti processing, which prefers logic, and finds human beings difficult to separate from the rest of reality, which operates on a sense of primal… logic. Animals kill to eat. Humans kill because they can. How is that logical? A girl likes you, but ignores you, so you will like her more, but instead you think she’s not interested and move on and she’s upset. HOW IS THAT LOGICAL?!?!?
I suspect deep down ENTPs are searching for the magic bullet, one thing to help them explain the entirety of humanity in a way that satisfies themselves and ensures they can deal with human beings as an entire race and as individuals without going insane from their irrational collective thinking. My ENTP brother always has a hopeful look on his face when he comes up to ask me a question that basically “categorizes” a lot of people into a slot. This is his Ti “trying to figure people out.” I hate to bust his bubble but: you can’t.
This is why Stephen Hawking searched for “the theory of everything.” He wanted to find one theory to explain the vast nuances of the universe; he wanted to strip everything down to its basic logical central truth and expand from that… which is, in a nutshell, Ti.
Also being Fe they usually share their feelings, talk about what they are feeling as it is happening, seek others when they feel uncertain about themselves and feel uplifted when offered encouragement from others, because generally Fe goes “whew, okay, I’m fine,” when people go, “You did a great job!”
(Gif: if you do not recognize it, we can’t be friends)
FiTe: literally does not give a damn about a magic bullet. It does not really want to categorize, because that’s shoving people into boxes and high Fi (unless the person using it has not developed it very well) instinctively understands emotions, what drives people, what will resonate with them, and what things mean to them on an emotional level. They operate on terms of: fairness, right and wrong, what they believe is ethical or immoral, their strong feelings for or against people / places / events / theories / principles / everything. They make decisions based on emotions. Theirs. Other people’s. Cat’s feelings, even.
I pronounce immediate moral judgment, whereas ENTP pronounces immediate rational judgment. Take the new show Genius. It opens on an adulterous sex scene where the scientist goes on to justify his adultery by explaining to his secretary in detached Ti terms it’s illogical to be faithful. (He’s an INTP, btw.) I have not watched another episode. That opening scene triggered my Fi disgust, not only that he would cheat on his wife (my Fi says: NOPE, asshole) but then justify it with some BS theory.
Meanwhile, ENTP friend laughed and said, “Look how this Ti is rationalizing his adultery WITH Ti!”
“Yeah,” I said. “I noticed.”
ENTP shot back: “I can smell the judgment from here.”
Yeah, you can.
Does that mean I’ll never finish Genius? Maybe, maybe not. My immediate judgments tend to get less harsh when I get to know people better, and then I find more compassion for them or understand them better, even though I never agree with their behaviors that I believe are wrong.
Also, I have Te. I don’t care HOW that damn thing works, or the process that went into creating it, or what the dude thought about when he invented it, I just want it to do its job. If it doesn’t do its job, it’s junk and I have no time for it. I am here to GET THINGS DONE, all right?
Te is also real good at “state the obvious” and “WELL, NO SH!T, SHERLOCK.”
Like the other day, when I said, “The Weasley twins will be at Comic Con.”
Other person: “Are they still tall and thin?”
Me: “Well, it’s not like they’re gonna get shorter.” *
Sorry. That sort of tert-Te BLUNT comes out of my mouth all the time IRL. :P
- ENFP Mod
We’re all different, but that’s exactly what’s fun about it.
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What Each Type Does With a Pencil (don’t ask, just read :)
INTP, ENTP: Unconsciously bites it (probably chokes on it but end up being fine)
INFP: Writes an awesome story in 50 pages and gets a sore wrist for a month
ESFP, ESTP: Why would they have a pencil in the first place???
ISTP: Throws it away cause he/she is too cool for a normal pencil. *takes out mechanical pencil*
ISFP: Unconsciously puts the pencil in his/her hair and then spends 4 minutes looking for the pencil.
INTJ, ISTJ: Solves a hugggeee math problem with it while people are low-key copying from their paper.
ENFJ, ESFJ: ‘’Hey do you have a pencil?’’ *but. its the only one left, should I give it to them? The teacher will SCREAM at me if I don’t have a pencil. But… I have to be nice….* ‘’sure, here you go :)’’
ESTJ, ENTJ: STABS A KID WITH THE PENCIL BECAUSE THEY SAID SOMETHING STUPID. you’d expect me to be kidding, but i’m not kidding.
INFJ, ISFJ: Helps people solve their complicated math problems and is yelled by the teacher for some reason.
ENFP:
An Obscure Hobby for Each Type
INFJ: tarot card reading
INTJ: lock-picking
INTP: star-gazing
INFP: origami
ISFJ: making mash-ups
ISTJ: model railways
ISTP: building robots
ISFP: making stain-glass windows
ENFJ: calligraphy
ENTJ: paint-balling
ENTP: ghost-hunting
ENFP: graffiti
ESFJ: scrap-booking
ESTJ: archery
ESTP: parkour
ESFP: cliff diving
Not a hugger.
INTJ: INTP what’s wrong? INTP: I’m just really stressed out and tired and I work until late right after school. I’m behind on so much. INTJ: Aw do you need a hug? INTP: eh–I’m not a hugger. INTJ: Well I am. INTJ *Proceeds to hug INTP from the side* INTP *Stands still looking forward with a blank face* INTJ: Hahaha INTP: Yeah.
When an INTP has a crush
INTP: shoot me in the face