My Strap-on

Official Tumblr for MyStrapOn.net My name is Pamela Pegwell, and I have been a strap-on enthusiast and pegging expert for over ten years. My goal at My Strap-on is to educate and to help you find the right strap-on for your needs. New to strap-ons? Get started with these guides: Best Beginner Harnesses Best Beginner Dildos

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The Terra Firma: My Favorite Strap-on in the World

The Terra Firma Harness is my top recommendation for beginners and veterans alike. It's gorgeous, reliable, and performs very, very well.

I've always said that the Terra Firma is my favorite harness of all-time, but I've never explained the reasons why in detail until now. My official Terra Firma Review covers all of its features, sexy looks, and excellent design. Pics are included.

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Feeldoe and Pegging Question

Would you recommend the Feeldoe Classic for first time pegging? First strapon for her but she has used handheld toys on me. Thanks.

The Feeldoe isn't an ideal toy for first-time pegging, but it's doable. I highly recommend using it with a strap-on harness for extra stability.

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Rubber Band Bondage Safety

Sorry, not about strap-ons but something you reblogged... Is rubber band bondage safe? I know some thinner materials like floss and fishing string is not.

I've been doing rubber band bondage since I was a child. I didn't quite know what BDSM was at the time, but I did know that wrapping rubber bands around my boobs excited me in ways that I knew weren't "normal". I don't think there's an "official" answer out there regarding the safety of rubber band bondage, but I can tell you that following the guidelines mentioned below have kept my partners and I safe for the 10+ years I've been into kink. Simply put, follow the same safety standards that you do for nipple clamps and rope bondage.

My rule of thumb is to release the bands after 20 minutes. This isn't a hard rule--some people insist on shorter times and others can go for double that--but it's the rule I've been following for over a decade and I haven't had a safety scare yet.

Keep scissors nearby in case of an emergency. You want to be able to cut your partner out of bondage immediately if anything goes wrong.

Don't do bondage while drunk, high, or otherwise mentally impaired. Losing track of time, not being able to feel pain, and not being able to respond appropriately if your partner is in trouble are how people end up with serious injuries.

Cut away the bands immediately if you notice any swelling.

If you're extra cautious, go with a wider and thicker rubber bands over the super-thin kind.

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The Biggest Strap-on Dildo Ever

Diameter: 3 inches Length: 9 inches

The Carina dildo is the largest harness-compatible dildo available on the market. Even the most seasoned of size queens will gulp nervously at this one.

Part 5 of my Top 5 Giant Dildos for Strap-ons Guide

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Thoughts on the Sportsheets Latigo Leather Harness

I found a harness that looks cool -- the "Sportsheets Latigo Leather Harness" -- what is your opinion on it? It looks good to me but I'm a total beginner.

I've never used the Latigo, but the major concerns that my trained eye see in the pics is that the front pad hangs really low and is awkwardly cut. Depending on your body shape, the front pad may cause chafing. More frustrating, however, is that the low dildo placement is going to make finding a comfortable position and maintaining a steady thrust a difficult challenge. These are not ideal circumstances to begin learning how to fuck with strap-on sex.

I'll reiterate my advice from the previous post: Invest in good equipment. Save your money until you can afford a quality harness. I guarantee you'll end up wishing for one that functions properly after a few sessions of chafing and not being able to thrust effectively.

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The Joplin Dildo: Big and Beautiful

Diameter: 2.25 inches Length: 8 inches

The Joplin is one of the girthiest dildos on the market. With a diameter of 2.25 inches, the Joplin is wider than even popular giants like the Outlaw and the Randy.

Part 4 of my Top 5 Giant Dildos for Strap-ons Guide

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Giant Dildo Specifically Designed for Pegging

Diameter: 2 Length: 7 inches

The General dildo is specifically designed for pegging and anal use. Its curve and bumps provide excellent prostate stimulation. Any pegging fans wanting to experiment with large dildos should start with the General first.

Part 3 of my Top 5 Giant Dildos for Strap-ons Guide.

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Rubber Band Bondage!

Kink play doesn’t have to be expensive. I fell in love with these pretty jumbo file folder rubber bands that can be purchased in the office supply section of most stores. One rubber band fits around my upper body, or both thighs completely (I’m a size 14). I’m a masochist, so the best part is when Daddi pulls back on the rubber band and lets it go! YES.

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The Feeldoe and Vac-U-Lock

A reader recently asked me questions regarding the Feeldoe and Vac-U-Lock. Although I already answered the question privately, I'm going to publish an excerpt of the conversation here in case anyone else has similar questions.

1) is a feeldoe really suitable for pegging of woman to man? 2) the doc-johnson vac-u lock system, do you have experience with that? 3) do you have a model you recommend to use?

1) Yes, the Feeldoe is suitable for pegging. I do, however, recommend strapping the Feeldoe into a harness for the extra support and stability. It's a fun toy but I've never been able to thrust as fast and hard with it as I can with a harness + normal dildo combination.

2) I'm not a fan of Vac-U-Lock or Doc Johnson. I've never had a good experience with their products. Invest in a quality harness that doesn't limit you to the type or brand of dildo you want to use.

3) I'm not sure if this question is in reference to the above Doc Johnson question, or if I'm being asked to recommend a product. In any case, stay away from Vac-U-Lock. Check out my Best Beginner Harnesses and Best Beginner Dildo pages if you need help picking out a harness and dildo.

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I want to be a dildomancer!

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I have no idea what's going on here, but had to share for the sheer WTF value. I mean, DILDOMANCY. 

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Black Friday Deal Round-up

Under $20 Tantus dildos. 25% off site-wide sales. Coupon codes. Oh my! Now is the best time of year to pick up quality toys at budget prices. I've gathered together all the great Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals in my Black Friday Sex Store Deal Round-up. Comes for the coupon deals, stay for the under $10 stocking stuffers.