Oh hey
I don't know how many of y'all are still active on here (gods know I haven't touched this in years at this point) but if any of y'all are and give a shit, I figured I'd give y'all an update on life and how it's been since I last posted back in....goddamn, 2 years? Hell my bio still says I'm 24, and I turned 29 this year. Well let's get this update list going.
1: I got in to a relationship that lasted 4 years (and really shouldn't have tbh, it was really taxing on my mental health.)
2: 2 years into said relationship, when things were rough and we weren't having sex (again, lasted way too long) she suggested trying polyamory. So I started dating her friend too (with full knowledge and approval from both parties), as we had a lot in common, I found her attractive, and she was also polyamorous.
3: Things didn't get any better, she never looked into dating others, and, after 6 months of biweekly couples counseling, we decided to break it off.
4: Since I needed to move anyway (as we were living together at that point), I decided to get an apartment with my other partner where she lived 2 hours away in a city that I'd been wanting to move to for a while.
5: I'm not gonna lie y'all the sex is amazing when your partner openly communicates with you and also takes care of their mental and physical health like an adult.
6: Said partner introduced me to the local BDSM scene here in the city, and I've had a lot of fun learning the ropes (literally). I've also made some great friends in the community that have opened my eyes even more to life styles.
7: TMI but, being on the receiving end of butt stuff is fucking amazing, and if you've got that back door pleasure button I highly recommend it, just sayin' 👀
8: I decided to start growing my hair out and then decided to buzz the sides while keeping the ponytail (I really like how it looks now.)
9: I've really upped my skincare routine thanks to my partner (partially because she loves to pick at any bumps that pop up lmao)
10: My new partner's really helped my self image and mental health, to the point where I'm gonna attach the pic I took when I asked some friends if my outfit was "slutty enough" when I was prepping for a party with the BDSM group. I genuinely like how I look in it, plus it gives y'all a look at just how much I've changed since I last posted a selfie lmao.
Not all of these are updates as much as they're just me talking about things I've learned about myself, but it is what it is. I probably won't stick around, but I'll pop in every now and then to relive old memes from my likes. And hey, if we're mutuals, feel free to reach out to me sometime! You may have to remind me who you are cause the ADHD brain doesn't remember things great lmao. OH I also got diagnosed and am now medicated for my ADHD (it's the end of the day and it's wearing off, cut me some slack lol).
