positivity for nonbinary lesbians!

this is a blog for nonbinary lesbians, by nonbinary lesbians! check out the about page for more info.

[nb-lesbian-positivity]

i hope all GNC people have a great day.

[nb-lesbian-positivity]

I got harassed off of one of my instagram accs for being a nonbinary lesbian and your positive posts have been making my day better

hi! i’m so glad we can help!!                - with love, mod Vi <3

[bisexualautism]

Help a nonbinary autistic lesbian eat this month

I only have 200$ to get me through to december. While I don’t have any bills to pay I do need to pay for food for myself and my partners this month.

We’re going to try to go to the grocery store tomorrow and I really need money to get there and back.

My c*sh*pp is $mismedusa

My p*yp*l is https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/agapomis DO NOT mark as for goods and services. If you feel the need to do that just don’t donate.

Image description: A pigeon walking across speckled gray stone tiles. It is moving so fast its face and feet are a blur.

[bisexualautism]

I’m in a really rough spot right now because I needed to spend 50$ to help one of my girlfriends get out of the negatives and get a ride to work.

I also need more money for food and household items we need because my girlfriends just moved here.

$0/$150

[bisexualautism]

34.30/150

[bisexualautism]

I ended up getting 89/150.

[gsjsnsnqkkwnw]

[lesbianb]

[image description: artwork of bugs bunny (a grey and white rabbit character) wearing a black suit with a red flower. the text, white on a black background, reads: “i wish all he/him lesbians a very pleasant evening”]

[beetrootmountain-art]

Butches are awesome!

[orquidia]

I wanted to post my small disabled wlw saga <3  

[armandyke]

Smash that mf reblog button if you’re loving and supporting trans lesbians on this day

[wondrous-stims]

Discord Server for LGBT+ Autistics!

https://discord.gg/jZPKF9H

I decided to create a discord server for people who are LGBT+ and autistic! 

Any questions about the server, feel free to send me an ask.

[wondrous-stims]

New working link, as of 6/10/20

https://discord.gg/2T9GasP

[lgb-positivi-t]

wlw trans gals are just so 💖😍💞💕💝

[nb-lesbian-positivity]

[Image Description: The background is the nonbinary lesbian flag. There is black text that says “The Nonbinary Lesbian Discord Server!”]

Hello! I’ve decided to create a discord server for nonbinary lesbians, including those who are questioning whether they are nonbinary and/or a lesbian. 

Here are some of the basic rules for the server:

✘ No TERFs or transmedicalists

✘ No racism, transphobia, etc.

✘ No men or non-lesbians

I’ve decided to make it so you need to fill out a short application to join, just to keep trolls and other bad people out of the server as best as I can

Here is the application!

[nb-lesbian-positivity]

I’ve decided to open up the server for a few days, no application needed while this link works https://discord.gg/fmfEnBX

[neonstatic]

big offense but if a person connects w womanhood and exclusively loves women, this person is a lesbian and can call themself a lesbian. doesn’t matter how much or how little they id as a woman. i’d understand the outrage if someone went “i’m a dude and i love women therefore i’m a lesbian” but it’s not what he/him lesbians are. a disconnect from womanhood is v common in lesbians bc society tends to define women thru their attraction and alliance to men. why shame lesbians for a discomfort they have no control over? the detachment from stereotypical womanhood (including the use of feminine pronouns) doesn’t mean they’re suddenly men. toss away your outdated binary mindset and understand that gender is a fkg social construct. there are no real rules. so there’s no one way to be a woman or a lesbian. whether cis or trans/nb, lesbians are allowed to alleviate their dysphoria w/o being dissected and having their lesbianism gauged on whether or not they fit the Lesbian Mould you have in mind. their experience w womanhood and gender expression is absolutely none of your business. let lesbians be.

[homonormative]

Being fat has always been like…A Thing in gay communities, fat gay people have always existed, and the fact that there is this culture on tumblr of lifting up skinny, white, rich people who can afford to fit into a certain Artsy Queer Look™ is really really saddening

This is especially true for butch lesbians!! Why are Masculine Looks™ always on some skinny Tattoosleeve McSuspenders cookie-cutter model!!

Let’s collectively shift the spotlight

[loismacgiver-deactivated2018061]

like 90% of the butch women i know are fat or at the very least just big women and it’s so weird to Only see skinny butches online bc it’s just so completely not reflective of my actual experience in butch communities

[nbs-loving-nbs]

friendly reminder that if you’re queer and don’t support the blm movement or in any way believe that “riots don’t solve anything” then you need to take a closer look at our history and have some more respect for the people and the movement that gave us our rights.

and then you need to look at the people of color who are going through the same thing right now and have been struggling for centuries and you need to support them and help their movement in any way you can.

[lgbt-for-poc]

girls with deep voices!!! like seriously!!! girls with deep voices are a gift to this universe what would we do without them??? they’re so ahhh i love girls i love girls with deep voices!!! WOMEN WITH DEEP VOICES‼️‼️‼️

[intersapphic]

This one is for all of the intersex sapphics who don’t see themselves represented often, like if you’re butch, transfem, BIPOC, if you have a cultural related gender, if your variation isn’t as well known. We all know what it’s like to not be acknowledged, to feel like we’re not cared for by a wider community, a lot of intersex people are left behind and not talked about. But you exist, what you have to say and your experiences matter, even if you don’t have the platform right now, if you’ve been silenced in the past, you are still important and deserving.

[intersapphic]

For all of my questioning intersex wlw, whether you know you’re not straight and can’t find a label, or you don’t even know if you’re a wlw or not. You might be wondering how you could be loved in your body, you might be scared, you might be overwhelmed and not sure where to go to for support, you might feel alone, or you might feel like things are falling into place for you. Whatever it is, you’re going to be okay. There is nothing wrong with finding your place, or changing your mind even if it’s over and over again. This is about you, your body, your experience, and what you need. Do and identify how you need to right now, even if that’s just questioning or something unspecific to feel comfortable in your skin.

[mioxenoblade]

Hey what’s up i want you to know that if someone called you a “fake trans” today, yesterday, or even years ago, just know they’re full of shit. You’re trans and you’re fuckin awesome keep rockin it.