strive, seek, find

he/she | 20yo | adhd & BD2

[neil-pxrry]

i decided to be a little bitch and make an about me post so here you go

pronouns page

names: dove, neil or todd, but sometimes ppl call me toddy, toad, toddo, toddles, toddipher, or tood. love that for them. feel free to do that as well

age: 20 years old

pronouns: he/she

orientation: a very mean bisexual

favorite color: brown

favorite shows: hannibal, merlin, house md, prodigal son, good omens & the office

favorite movie: dead poets society, bc i have taste & a need for therapy

favorite song: currently “california” by joni mitchell but it changes constantly & i cant be updating it every day lol

favorite artists: hozier, lana del rey, lorde, florence + the machine, david bowie, one direction, green day, & many more lmao

favorite book: i cant choose but my top three are the iliad, the picture of dorian gray & a separate peace

blorbos: malcolm whitly, todd anderson, aziraphale, will graham, arthur pendragon & adam raki

kins: neil perry, crowley, merlin emrys, hannibal lecter & mike wheeler

otps: ineffable husbands, hilson, hannigram, anderperry, merthur, & spacedogs though i have many more & my blog is infested with them. i would apologize if i meant it

this is a safe space for everyone provided you aren’t bigoted in any way shape or form obv, then i’m a judgy bitch

i am way less active on here than i used to be, but i dont mind asks or messages :) just dont expect a timely response bc i am evil abt replying lol. im also horrid at using tumblr and social interaction in general so beware lmao. you can find my spotify and pinterest here! (it says im a minor bc i made it several years ago lmao)

[slimepupqy]

is this anything

[robotmango]

when i forget to log into ao3 and i have to click proceed to see an adult fic, i actually get a kick out of it. like i am an old timey queen and my bard is apologetic: “gentle lady, dicks doth touch in this next ballad. would you prefer another?” and i give him a gesture of command like, “nay, you may proceed, minstrel. bring forth the tale of dicks”

[berlynn-wohl]

hope it’s not too late; I made this in Scriptorium

[wajb]

ragebaiting lemonade stand owner with one simple order

[cutecipher]

reblog if its okay for people to send you $5,000 dollars with no strings attached

[closet-keys]

it's sad to me that cis people never apply their "loved one with a wanted-pregnancy" script to medical transition. like cis people often indicate they don't know how to react to hearing about medical transition, but a huge portion of that social script is directly applicable.

tell someone "congratulations!" tell them "I'm so happy for you. I know you've been trying for a really long time." ask them "do you need help with anything?" throw them a party with loved ones where you all give them some gifts in acknowledgement of how expensive it is. celebrate how far along they are. take photos with them so they have a record of being loved while their body changes. allow them to voice fears and doubts and anxieties about how it'll go, and reassure them that they'll get through the intense medical procedure coming up & you'll be there for support no matter what. let them tell you about the gross parts and laugh together. really listen to them when they talk about how amazing and profound it is that the human body can do this. share in their excitement for beginning a new stage of their life.

If there are complications, comfort them and help them navigate what's next. If they lose access suddenly due to finances or criminalization, treat it like a miscarriage and hold them while they grieve.

[hameedhaj-deactivated20240524]

blog like no one's following you

[joelkora]

“ Golden Hour ”

Accra, Ghana.

Photographed by Joel.

[dogtoenail]

[serial-unaliver-deactivated2024]

realistic coworker conversation

[freakoutgirl]

Avoidance is the worst reaction to stress. Oh this thing is giving me anxiety? And it's something I could prepare for by looking at it more or learning things about the topic? No, I will take psychological damage if I look at it directly. I will still be thinking about it and be stressed though.

[rocktheholygrail]

[important-cat-pics]

[asneakyfox]

if hiphop weren't real its existence would sound like an exceptionally heavy-handed metaphor about racism from a really cringe didactic fantasy novel. yeah the racialized underclass in this society, the one that's constantly derided by the ethnic majority as stupid and anti-intellectual, they have a complex artistic tradition based around improvisational poetry which is sometimes enacted on a competitive basis for dispute resolution. you get judged based on the subtlety of your wordplay and the complexity of your internal rhyme schemes. the dominant group periodically gets mad about how this doesn't count as real art like their own objectively more simplistic music and poetry because sometimes it has swears in it

[not100bees]

I just saw the world's freshest baby in Panera bread. Like that thing was JUST out of the oven. I've heard of being wet behind the ears but this baby was wet behind the everything. It was still damp.

[sturgeon-system]

[anime-snacks]

shout-out to anyone who's just having a hard time right now. i hope that spring and summer bring you some kind of comfort or happiness.

[notcaptainjack]

[kropotkindersurprise]

April 7, 2026 - "All you had to do was pay us enough to live, all you had to do was pay us enough to fucking live"

A worker in Ontario, California, USA, set his company’s warehouse on fire and has a message for the CEO:

“There goes your inventory. You know we may not get paid enough to fucking live, but these bitches (lighters) dirt cheap. All you had to do was pay us enough to fucking live.”[article]/[video]

[kropotkindersurprise]

and there's a bunch of liberals on this post criticising why someone might want to burn down the warehouse where they work, or crying about all those great warehouse jobs (that dont pay a living wage) that were lost due to the fire. Wondering why a warehouse worker might snap when they could just Vote. [link]

Within moments of the man hitting the floor, Sam said a woman ran over and began performing chest compressions. The woman began to cry and screamed out for someone to help her. Sam, who has CPR training, asked her supervisor if she could assist. The supervisor watched the woman heaving her weight into the man’s chest and gave no response. “I started sobbing and said, ‘I want to help, please!’ I know she’s going to get tired and need to be subbed out,” Sam told The Western Edge. The supervisor, who Sam perceived to be in shock, had a simple reply: “It has to be management or safety team. Please get back to work.” “I need to help,” Sam said. “Just turn around and not look. Let’s get back to work,” Sam recalled the manager saying.

[fuckaspunk]

boss'll either kill you fast or else he'll kill you slow