[neirovras]

oh right

feel free to unfollow this account-

[neirovras]

if you wish to, you can message me anywhere to ask for my new url again, only if you wish to

[monsterslm]

kissing a boy? running your hands up and down his sides? while he’s sleepy? and calling him pet names? just to hear him giggle? paradise.

[neirovras]

KHDDFKGHDFH sorry im a not good friend i PROMISE i will change that and i will do my best ily guys,,,

[neirovras]

uh

im not sure what is going to happen tomorrow and the day after just in case, i created a new account for tumblr. ill create a new discord account tonight i think i dont want to lose this account too (i really like this account and url...), but i guess its for the best im somewhat not sure, but ill try to wait until tomorrow and the day after to ask if anyone would like to know my new url

[neirovras]

please tag death!!!

[neirovras]

i think i been tagging it?? hopefully i havent forgot to recently...

[neirovras]

its so embarrassing, but i really want to listen to the new album with someone...things will not go well either way, but it would be nice if they could there was a reason why, ill come back to edit when i remember...

[betasunkern]

[sarasoj]

GW頃には芝桜で有名なヤマサ蒲鉾さんに蓮の花を見に行ってきました。想像していたより蓮畑の規模大きい。 本当は朝早くに行った方がいいのだろうけど、朝起きられなくてお昼前に到着。もう花を閉じている子もちらほらと。

Many lotus flowers in a large field.

[crows-beforehoes-blog]

[neirovras]

it still makes me rly sad to know that ****** talked to some of the others and tried to convince us we were all not ‘real’ and that we were made-up pieces of the body like, trying to say we were not separate people. it sucks to hear that, and you cant do anything about it because its unethical... im real, i am myself. im not a part of anything. i am myself and separate. im slowly unlearning what they told us

[walte666]

[sabertoothwalrus]

today I’ve been especially curious where the whole queer taboo came from and I’m trying to figure out when exactly it started being a thing.

According to this google trends, the phrase “is queer a slur”, there were no results until May 2013. Now, I’m not implying “queer” isn’t used as a slur or hadn’t been considered a slur until then, but SOMETHING happened in May 2013 that caused a bunch of people to search that.

Similarly, the oldest posts I’ve seen tagged on tumblr with the phrase “q slur” have been from 2013, and have so far not found any earlier posts with the tag. (and really I have no way of knowing if the tag was added at a later time) So far what I’ve found is the actual censoring/starring of queer and use of “q slur” has been predominately from 2016 onwards, and people that used the tag before then would frequently use it as a catch-all term or to refer to themself. It wasn’t until the past few years that those people started telling others not to use it to refer to other people.

I am just so, so fascinated as to what exactly happened that caused this shift and I can’t find it

[sabertoothwalrus]

….OH? 👀

[trannycrowley-archive]

If I may add onto this… 

And all three together

[gayharoldfinch]

I joined tumblr in 2011 and this sounds pretty accurate and familiar. I was here a few years before the ‘queer is a slur’ crowd came out of seemingly nowhere (2016 sounds right). When I joined here everyone openly accepted asexuals as part of the LGBTQIA community.

It was before 2016 though that there started to be discourse about whether asexual experiences were enough like other LGBT+ experiences for them to be allowed to reclaim the word queer for themselves. I think that is when I first can remember people beginning to refer to it as a slur. (I feel like that is where the idea came from that the criteria for being a part of the LGBT+ community was oppression rather than sexual orientation.)

And then one day BAM suddenly not only could aces not use the word queer but they weren’t even a part of the community at all according to these people.

[geekandmisandry]

I never really heard “queer is a slur” until after the “Does the A stand for Ally or Ace” discourse. Then I started to hear “can aces use queer?” which seemed like a weird question, then it seemed like a flood of “queer is a slur”. Almost like people wanted to shut down the term entirely instead of having an open community.

[neirovras]

please tag death!!!

[sairenji]

[lesbianshepard]

[fog-world]