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What is the point of having a tumbler account if you’re going to so radically suppress how consenting adults feel about pornography and our individual views, on posting, relating and expressing ourselves about our own personal sexuality? If you are one of my followers, or you’re reading this and you agree please hit ❤ and hit reblog 🔄. Let’s make this go viral before December 17th.
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Never expect a meet to go the way you expect
Chatting with a Dominant for a while. We decide to meet, there’s been lots of talk of chores, flogging, pain and cuddles. Limits set, safeword in place. I’m shaking on th visit but he gets me under his spell very quickly, stroking my tits. Some pain, a slamming for dropping some fruit and then the whole afternoon in bed having dom/sub sex. He’d been told my anus was off limits but he persistence and nudging limits as well as his smooth operating left me fingered and promising to open up for him next time....
The Best Chastity Letter... Ever
Check out this AMAZING Chastity Letter from a Master to a Boy posted on metalbondnyc’s website. Fuck it makes me fill my cage more than the rest…. ( metalbondnyc is my hero)…
Find the link to this awesome website here: http://www.metalbondnyc.com/
“By Unknown
Rob:
You’ve long had a desire to explore Chastity, and although I’ve indulged you at times over the years, we’ve only played at the edges of your desires. That, Boy, is about to change.
I’ve carefully thought through how best to make sure you have the opportunity to explore your desires and explore a period of Chastity while keeping in mind that your fantasy may be more than you’d bargain for.
I’ve also considered our schedules, lifestyle and your high need for sexual release and believe I’ve found the perfect solution to meet your desires. This may not be what you’d choose if it were you making the decision, but the decision will not be yours.
I know you far better than you know yourself, and I understand that an exploration into your desires and fetish won’t work while we remain equal partners, so I’m making you my Chastity Boy. Understand that Boys don’t have cocks (those are for men); Boys don’t have erections; Boys can’t be trusted to stand and pee (you will sit to urinate); Boys don’t have pubes; Boys have chores with ramifications and/or punishment if they don’t perform them to my satisfaction; Boys don’t have orgasms.
I have no interest in your being a boy in any other area of our relationship, but until I decide otherwise, you will be a boy when it comes to your dick and exploring your chastity fantasy.
As my Chastity Boy:
You will be shaved from the neck down.. Chest, Ass, Crotch, Arms, Legs, Armpits will be completely smooth. You will shave yourself and present yourself for my inspection.
We will have sex one more time before you’re locked in the cock cage. Enjoy this sexual release, because it’s the last one I’m guaranteeing for awhile.
To ensure that this is a consensual agreement, you will beg and plead with me to lock up your cock as you’re approaching orgasm. You will beg me to take complete control of your cock and orgasms. You will beg me to make you my Chastity Boy.
Immediately upon achieving orgasm, the cock cage will be locked on your cock. I want it locked on while the last of your cum is dribbling out of your dick and before you even clean up.
The instant the lock snaps shut, you give up all control of your penis and orgasms to me. I will decide the next time you touch your penis as well as the next time you have an orgasm.
I demand the following as owner of your penis:
You will learn the benefits of chastity, the enjoyment of orgasm control and the pleasure of handing over all rights to your penis.
You will learn how to gain sexual fulfillment though bringing ME to orgasm and learn how your ass, mouth and other areas of your body can provide enjoyment despite not being able to cum.
You will not speak of your penis or your orgasms. The penis belongs to me, and you simply don’t have orgasms until I choose otherwise. When asked, you will respond with how MY penis is doing while locked in the cage.
You will learn to embrace your interest in chastity without complaint. You will not ask for release, or ask when you will be released. You will not like what happens if you complain or beg.
Since there are times when wearing the cock cage will cause undue discomfort or not be appropriate, I will allow it to be removed in the following conditions: Doctor Visits, Social Situations, Travelling or other situations as I deem appropriate. Unless otherwise instructed, you will not touch yourself or seek sexual gratification when out of the cage. On demand, you will put it back on and surrender the keys.
Your period of chastity will not impact my sexual needs. You will ensure that my sexual needs are met in any way that I choose. You will learn how satisfying it is to provide total pleasure to me without regard to your own sexual release.
Get used to this. I know you have a strong desire to be a chastised boy, but lack the initiative to do it on your own.
I WILL control your cock and you WILL become the boy you and I both know you want to be.”
Great start for chastity
Fag-hypnosis Experience
Well today I questioned @faguserchicago how Hypnosis works and if it honestly works. To my surprise he had two audio files, both at 50min length, he told me to trust him and listen to fagnosis first. I started on fagnosis as it was the kinder of the two, there was a lot of moaning, dirty words and sentences repeated over and over again, it didn’t help as I was supposed to working and then told to insert a dildo in my ass and keep it in while listening. After the first 10mins I started to get more and more aroused thinking about slutty depraved things I had done for men in my twenties after 50mins I wanted more.
Next I listened to Fagwashing which was a lot more aggressive. It made me feel that fags are told what to think. by Men who are their superiors, that I NEED Men around me all the time, telling me what to do, how to think. It made me want men to tell me what to do. Still are nearly two hours of this and the dildo still in my ass I felt like a crumbled male that just needed a man to think for me and I was a horny as fuck and just wanted to be pissed on or in and plugged.
OK, fags, there’s a testimonial from one of your own. I’m not a professional sound-mixer nor a psychologist, so these aren’t professional grade, but they get the job done. As I told @nzfagboy, they won’t make you run into the street naked begging for cock, but they’ll make you wish you were.
These files are to be listened to with headphones or earbuds ONLY. The point is to have these voices surrounding your head, enveloping your little faggot brain. And if you really want your world to spin, put these on a portable device (iPhone), and plug in while in service at a glory hole, serving unknown cocks. One fag I know set up an anon hookup via grindr and told the man using it that it would neither see nor hear Him while He helped Himself to its holes. Plugged itself in and got fucked both physically and mentally.
So here are the files. And there’s a bonus file as well. All files are 50 minutes long, and about 55Mg large. Set it up for auto-replay so it goes on and on as you sink deeper and deeper into faggotry.
Fagnosis, the kinder and gentler of the two brainfuck files.
Fagwashing, a more aggressive brainwash of your faggot “brain”.
And, finally, fags, the background track for the two brainfuck files. “White-noise” of fags being used by men, an instant orgy of service surrounding your ears. Great background, fags, for your next sex party. And, Men, use this as background music to scare the bejesus out of your fag when you next use it.
And before you ask, no, I’m not taking special requests.
How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps
1: You need to get into his head.
-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. Use this information against him and to Your advantage.
-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.
-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly. Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.
- Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy. Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”
-Make him need You for everything. Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.
- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.
2: Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!
- Don’t let him get away with anything! When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.
- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.
- Humiliate him past what is easy for him.
- Long term bondage
- Corner time
- Food restrictions
- Writing standards/lines\
- Write a book report or essay.
- Ground him/take away privileges.
- Wash his mouth out with soap.
- Make him do anything he hates.
- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.
- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment. That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.
3: Routinely discipline him. This is different than punishment.
- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.
-Humiliate him often.
- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.
- If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while. You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this. For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.
- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run. You will have to punish him less as a result.
- Taking care of You can be part of his discipline. Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.
4: On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.
- Talk sexy to him.
-Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.
- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.
- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.
- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
- Make him give You orgasms. This is different from sex. This is a service.
- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.
- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.
- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.
5: Control Your own feelings of guilt.
- Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him. You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!
- Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.
- Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.
- Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak. You need to control that shit.
- Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them. Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior. This can’t always be done by talking. And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.
- Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs. You are filling his needs.
- Remember, You both need to be happy. But happiness comes from different places for different people. If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.
- A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.
6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.
- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.
- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.
- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.
- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.
- Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc. In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.
- Make him masturbate for You.
- Slap him in the face.
- Spit on him.
- Treat him as an inferior in public. (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes etc.)
- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.
- Talk down to him in front of others
7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You. Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.
- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so. Control his workouts, diet etc. Make sure and be realistic with this one.
- Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.
- Put him on a sleeping schedule. Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times. The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.
- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.
- Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You. (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)
- Change their grooming habits to Your liking.
8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has. Make sure You are at the top of that list. One great way to do this is to deny him things. Yep, it’s time to say “No.” Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.
- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.
- Make him show his gratitude to You often. Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.
- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.
- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes. (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.) Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.
- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.
9: None of these actions will work without real trust.
- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.
- If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you. The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.
-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something. Follow through always.
- When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.
- Subs need constant reassurance. Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours. If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.
- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape. Giving sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time. If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.
-Talk to Your sub often. Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.
- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back. Also, nothing he has is his forever. You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right. Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog. Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned
-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family. Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member. Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them. Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.
Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub. This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub. This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc. These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.
Back in the game
I spent this afternoon with Master, it was deeply satisfying being allowed to pleasure Him and He helped my to get back into the saddle, thank you SIR for putting me back where I belong. I’m still in the game!
This is wrong. They say that plants have feelings, which put them above objects.
SIR will decide where His boi sits on this pyramid, His decision will be final and correct.
Getting hard on tumblr pics this morning
Who doesn’t want to bury his face in that soft warm and comforting mound?
I do SIR
The Mirror Technique
I do love my quantifiers and before I’m going to say much more, let’s talk about safety. The only “dangers” inherent in this technique are those related to triggering or upsetting your submissive. So use this technique with someone you know. DO use this technique on men who enjoy humiliation or degradation.
Setup: You’ll need a large (preferably full length) mirror. It needs to be easily visible from wherever you fuck bed, couch, floor, ottoman, kitchen counter (I won’t judge), etc.
Technique: Your objective will be to mentally get your submissive as far into subspace as possible (see the post about layering if you need some help getting there). You want him really caught up in that head space, preferably impaled on your dick (or deep in your hole if you are a dominant bottom). Surprise is the key to making this work, surprise, the truth in your words and getting them agreeing when their psyche is laid bare and vulnerable are what make this so effective. Once you have him there and you think the moment is right, grab his hair roughly, and jerk his head in the direction of the mirror. Say something like “Look yourself in the eye faggot, look at what you’ve become, what I’ve made you into. Now say you’re mine, body and soul, say you’re mine and look yourself in the eye when you say it so the both of us know you MEAN IT!”
Challenges: The only real challenge comes from finding the right moment when your sub is very deep in subspace, and yet still aware enough to engage you. If you find the right moment where he has a submissive dialogue in his own head and you suddenly synchronize what he’s telling himself with the mirror technique, that’s the ultimate goal and when this experience will be mind blowing. It does take some practice to get right, but it generally it won’t really work too effectively against
Outcomes: The reason I’m even writing about this, was that I’ve had two separate men ejaculate immediately when I did this to them. Subspace, my dick, and the moment overwhelmed them and they came all over the bed. I have also had submissives that were suddenly thrown by the unexpected experience. They stutter and their brain just can’t process properly for a moment or two. That’s not a bad reaction and they should fall in line in a moment or two. I’ve had other fall in line and completely embrace the experience and spontaneously start engaging in dirty talk (super hot). Although I’ve never had it happen, it could also result in an obvious rejection of the experience. It could also result in someone getting very quiet and unresponsive. Should either happen, stop immediately and engage the submissive to see what’s going on. If you don’t, it could damage your continued ability to play with that boy.
SIR has decided I need one of these, any suggestions as to where to get it from?
When it matters - Good Dom/bad dom
One of the most important aspects of a Dom/sub relationship is transparency. My Master needs to know everything, only by doing that can He take charge and can I give Him everything. So, as He allows me to pleasure other men, I always tell Him what’s happening and who I’m seeing, or if I’m going to a club. He’s never said no, He’s commented and advised, but He lets me do it. He likes me to wear my collar.
A Dom online was interested in me and after one brief exchange he wanted me to serve him. I told SIR and He very quickly came back with reservations, then He did something He’s never done before, He told me I was not to go and that He was not prepared to loan me to this man. Two things happened, firstly the dom was simply abusive when I told him I wasn’t available, he swore at me and told me I was wasting his time. Of course my SIR was right, His words were exact and His tone calm but assertive. This led to the other amazing event. A deep calm came over me, a sense of belonging, a warm feeling that He really does have my best interests at heart and that I can depend on Him.
I changed my profile to say that His permission would always be required from now onwards, He approved of that decision.
This happened today, 28th February 2018, this stuff is real, He is real and He can put me into subspace just with words typed over the internet, that is the power of a good Dom.
Sadly my SIR doesn’t smoke, hopefully He will find other things to shove in my mouth
Just going about my daily business sorting the recycling and someone in the office put this in it. Made me think of SIR, sun shining, all good AND a warm sense of belonging just because I came across the word Master!
One of my favorite things is casual degradation.
Especially when it’s cute. Cuddle me tight, kiss my forehead, and call me your dumb little cocksocket. Call me that in the same tone you would call someone “love” or some other cute nickname.
If I’m taking a bath come in to talk about my day and casually unzip your fly and piss in my bathwater, without changing tone.
When I’m making dinner shove a barely lubed plug up my ass while kissing my neck and asking what we’re having.
Make my degradation so casual and part of every day that it becomes a language of love, that without it I worry you’re mad at me.
My SIR is always calling me a slut, now I know why!
