Nichelink: A newly coined niche relationship/relationship dynamic that differs from social norms, but is consensual and aware of potential risks. everyone can coin now, please see the carrd for the faq, resources, and everything you need. 🔗 coining post. 🔗 list of already coined terms . 🔗 official carrd. 🔗 about blog owner🔗
🔗 already coined terms (out of date, looking for new owner who can keep it updated)
🔗 blog owner's info, pronouns
everyone can coin nichelinks. see the carrd for all the information you'll need
do not claim this term as your own
do not post this term/my flags to pinterest
boundaries:
🖇️ i don't do dnis. do not ask me about them. i am anti predatory, ableist, racist, and transphobic behavior. don't ask me my opinion on x stance, i cannot answer you. my blog/terms are welcome to people leaving r*dqueer spaces. in general, you can search words on my blog to see if i've mentioned something.
🖇️ i am an anxious self with compulsions to overexplain. please be understanding.
🖇️ please tag me in anything nichelink you make, i would be happy to see it and will reblog it.
[PT: A pearlescent term has been added to the sanctuary…]
♡ Petrelacy ♡
✧ The need to be a pet in a pet and owner bond by @the-astropaws, pet and owner nichelink by @nichelink, or a similar concept. Not having an owner may cause discomfort or dysphoria. This may be due to DPD, but it doesn't have to be.✧
♡ Ownrelacy ♡
✧ The need to be an owner in a pet and owner bond by @the-astropaws, pet and owner nichelink by @nichelink, or a similar concept. Not having a pet may cause discomfort or dysphoria. ✧
✧ part of the -relacy system ✧
✧ Tagging for all Term posts: @radiomogai ✧
Pet and owner bond:
for anyone who has a pet and owner type of bond or relationship. this isn't inherently sexual or romantic nor is it exclusive to any type of situation.
Pet and owner nichelink:
Pet+Owner (General) Nichelink: a 16+ rated nichelink (nichelink: a newly coined niche relationship/relationship dynamic that differs from social norms, but is consensual and aware of potential risks.) relationship/relationship dynamic where one person in the relationship takes the role of a pet, and the other/s take the role of their owner.
i'm not sure how i should rate this. please tell me if you have opinions.
this may include, but isn't limited to:
the owner serving as a caretaker for the pet when they pet regress/have pet thoughts/have kin shifts
the pet getting atypical euphoria from the idea of being a pet
the owner giving the pet training to do tricks, whatever that may mean for the people involved
the pet being an introject/kin/etc of an animal character, and the owner being an introject/kin/etc of that character's ower from their source
the owner being dissopet/another dissodic label, or the pet being dissoconnopet, envicaninsti, envidog or any similar labels
the pet being a recovering r*dqueer and the owner helping them express their want to be "owned" in a risk-aware and safer way
orientation/teritary attraction/alteraffectis attraction like petaffectis, dogbutch4femme, eldritchaffectis, presentation terms like feral/domesticated/stray, etc
inderelacy / -relacy system: The need to have or be in a certain bond, relationship, nichelink, or similar concept. Not having this relationship may cause discomfort of dysphoria.
[PT: A pearlescent term has been added to the sanctuary…]
♡ Knightrelacy ♡
✧ The need to be a knight in a knight + ward bond, relationship, nichelink, or similar concept. Not having a ward (someone to protect) may cause discomfort or dysphoria. This could also be related to Protected/Protective special persons in personality disorders, but does not have to be. The knight may experience Tutelary attraction towards their ward. ✧
♡ Wardrelacy ♡
✧ The need to be a ward in a knight + ward bond, relationship, nichelink, or similar concept. Not having a knight (someone to protect them) may cause discomfort or dysphoria. This could also be related to Protected/Protective special persons in personality disorders, but does not have to be. The ward my experience cedural attraction towards their knight. ✧
✧ part of the -relacy system ✧
✧ Tagging for all Term posts: @radiomogai ✧
Protected Person: A Protected Person (PDP) is a Special Person attachment experienced by those with persodivergence (or may be a side effect of some medications). A PDP is someone the persodivergent individual sees as someone they protect. The persodivergent person takes on a protective role for this person, such as standing up for them in perceived times of need.
Protective Person: A Protective Person (PVP) is a Special Person attachment experienced by those with persodivergence (or may be a side effect of some medications). A PVP is someone the persodivergent individual sees as a protector. The PVP may stand up for the persodivergent individual, or may simply be seen as a protector in other ways.
Tutelary attraction: also known as protective attraction or dominant attraction, is a form of tertiary attraction that revolves around a strong desire to take care, protect, and support a certain individual. It is the counterpart and opposite of cedural attraction.
Cedural attraction: also known as docile attraction, dependent attraction or submissive attraction, is a form of tertiary attraction that revolves around wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone else.
inderelacy / -relacy system: The need to have or be in a certain bond, relationship, nichelink, or similar concept. Not having this relationship may cause discomfort of dysphoria.
hi, here are some unorganized things i wanted to coin
Nichelink clouded attraction modifier: An attraction modifier in which one’s attraction is clouded by being a nichelinker, nichelinking, or the concept of nichelinks. This may be slight, barely noticeable, or so extreme one may no longer consider the affected attraction what it ‘should be’, or anything in between.
Nichelivert: A xenovert term for when one's personality traits and/or the way one preserves energy is better described through being a nichelinker, or is connected to nichelinks in some way.
Nichelink(ing) Lexiphoria: A lexiphoria term for when being called/referred to as a nichelinker gives you euphoria, whether it be gender euphoria, species euphoria, general euphoria, etc.
genders:
Nichelisymbolic: A gender in the gendersymbolic gender system where someone’s gender is connected to the symbol from the term nichelink.
Nichelikandi or nichelikandigender: When one’s gender is connected or related to, or described by nichelinks and kandi bracelets. Essentially a combination of genderkandi and nichelinkic.
Nicheliowned: A gender relating to being a nichelinker and owned, owning a nichelinker, an owned nichelinker, you gender being owned by a nichelinker, etc! What classifies as being "owned" is up to the user.
no flags. feel free to make your own. please read the nichelink carrd for faqs/info.
clouded attraction modifier was coined here by @sugar-sweet-fawnwife. gendersymbolic was coined here by @blood-moon-night-coining. lexiphoria was coined by @sugaryvexillogy here. genderowned was coined by @sweal here.
i probably won't have enough energy to bother doing it myself, but gendersymbolics based on the symbols of different nichelink flags would be really cool to see
also, nicheli- is a nice prefix we could use for nichelink-related liom terms
i can't tell which blog, but i got ghost notifications for two asks in my inbox... if that was someone who sent the asks and then blocked me... please don't do that, i won't be able to see what you said if i somehow made you uncomfortable in some way...
cain + abel nichelink : 16+ nichelink relationship/relationship dynamic where one person in the relationship takes the role of "abel", and the other/s are "cain."
abel niche : a term for when you take the role of "abel" within the nichelink dynamic.
cain niche : a term for when you take the role of "cain" within the nichelink dynamic.
performer niche: a flag for those who are the performer in a performer+spectator nichelink!
spectator niche: a flag for those who are the spectator in a performer+spectator nichelink!
tagging – @radiomogai @omiag-esp @honey-makes-mogai @spectrral @rroard @queergutz @marcyie @goregender, nichelink and the term 'niche' by @nichelink.
flag ids in alt text & under cut.
[normal performer id: A flag with five stripes, the first, centre and last being thick while the second and second to last are much thinner, from top to bottom dull red, amber-yellow, purple, amber-yellow and dull red. the dull red stripes have thin vertical darkish-pinkish-dull red lines running down them. a third of the flag at the left, split diagonal-vertically, is darker and colder than the rest of the flag. in the middle stripe is a chain-link symbol, coloured purple in the darkened area, and the darker purple in the normal area. end id.]
[simple performer id: A flag with five stripes, the first, centre and last being thick while the second and second to last are much thinner, from top to bottom dull red, amber-yellow, purple, amber-yellow and dull red. a third of the flag at the left, split diagonal-vertically, is darker and colder than the rest of the flag. in the middle stripe is a chain-link symbol, coloured purple in the darkened area, and the darker purple in the normal area. end id.]
[normal spectator id: A flag with five stripes, the first, centre and last being thick while the second and second to last are much thinner, from top to bottom dull red, amber-yellow, light yellow, amber-yellow and dull red. the dull red stripes have thin vertical darkish-pinkish-dull red lines running down them. two-thirds of the flag at the right, split diagonal-vertically, are darker and colder than the rest of the flag. in the middle stripe is a chain-link symbol, coloured light yellow in the darkened area, and the darker yellow in the normal area. end id.]
[simple spectator id: A flag with five stripes, the first, centre and last being thick while the second and second to last are much thinner, from top to bottom dull red, amber-yellow, light yellow, amber-yellow and dull red. two-thirds of the flag at the right, split diagonal-vertically, are darker and colder than the rest of the flag. in the middle stripe is a chain-link symbol, coloured light yellow in the darkened area, and the darker yellow in the normal area. end id.]
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