rebecca

22 / radical feminist / professional man hater / english is not my first language

[quinntheestallion]

I hate how often people discredit my views because they assume I’m white. I don’t think I should have constantly invoke the fact that I’m black and where I’m from to have what I’m saying validated. The content of my arguments should be enough. Sure personal experience has its place but this identify first trend in discourse is responsible for the erosion of a lot of critical thinking. Creates really bad habits where people lean on their identity as an appeal to authority without actually feeling the need to justify what they’re saying.

[scifi0lver]

[savingstufflalala]

it's almost funny how often i read some comment online by someone saying they're a lesbian and i'm like there's no way a woman would say this and then i check the profile and it's a trans identified man. like i've literally not been wrong even a single time

[i-think-therefore-i-radfem-deac]

how i sleep knowing i’m a kink shamer

[immigrant]

i think this is largely also because learning accurate pregnancy information dissuades women from having babies. women are largely kept in the dark about the actual complications it's extremely disturbing how much women dont know about pregnancy until they actually do it

[immigrant]

i think this is largely also because learning accurate pregnancy information dissuades women from having babies. women are largely kept in the dark about the actual complications it's extremely disturbing how much women dont know about pregnancy until they actually do it

[immigrant]

i think this is largely also because learning accurate pregnancy information dissuades women from having babies. women are largely kept in the dark about the actual complications it's extremely disturbing how much women dont know about pregnancy until they actually do it

[11thsense]

Those fanfic type stories people write where the plot is like “I picked up a stray cat off the street and it turned into a sexy man?!” R so funny cause if I found a cute cat and spent a week taking care of it and being like aw ur my baby now just for that cat to turn into a man that shit would piss me clean off…I might even kill him

[butchfalin]

hater for hire. if you need someone to hate on anything i'm your guy. i'll hate on anything for next to no reason and i just do it for the love of the game. which i hate

[rosalesbeausderholle]

Saw a Tiktok about sucking straps being the most romantic thing you can do (LOL) because of the fantasy of it and how a lot of "queer" sex is built in fantasy and like... yeah, that's your problem, that it's built in fantasy for YOU. For many others, our sex life is not built through fantasy, it's the result of the pleasure in our actual bodies and the interactions with the actual bodies of the people we sleep with! It couldn't be more real and grounded and not fantastical!

But you cannot handle the objective reality that you're someone with a vagina fucking another person with a vagina and that you haven't gotten over the heteronormative mental hang ups that you have about what sex is supposed to be, that you think sex is only possible if there's a penis involved and that everything else is not "real" hence fantasising and calling straps cocks and sucking on them. But that fantasy does nothing but alienate you and your partner from your bodies and really limits the view of what sex can be. Because you cannot start by just looking at your body and figuring out the ways in which you can feel pleasure and your partner can feel pleasure, and then add more things on top. You start by building a heteronormative fantasy on top of it and distance yourself from what's actually going on and that's not only incredibly lesbophobic, or a weird way to look at sex, but it is also pathetic.

[thankyouforthefunny]

[whatotherplanet]

[brady-like-the-bunch]

@profoundtrashwizard u can’t leave this in the tags

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

The audacity of men is unparalleled

[mioxenoblade]

For real though, if a trans woman tells you not to call her “dude” and your response is to talk about how you call everyone it instead of apologizing and moving on, you’re an ass

[omgitsburning]

This is so weird because I asked a trans woman not to use the word “cunt” and in response I was sent rape threats…like c’mon dude

[clytemnestradidnothingwrong]

“Rules for thee but not for me”

You must do everything a man (especially one in a wig) says, but who gives a fuck what you, a mere woman, want?

[kosmogrl]

[kosmogrl]

[pseudonaivete]

I hate how kindness, unlike in books or films, do not yield anything when it comes to men.

My friend’s brother is the typical loner-gamer, and he seemed rather depressed to me, and I thought it must be not easy for him—he never had a girlfriend, spends most of his time alone, and the only socialization activity he has is video games.

So, I figured we could be nice to him. On his birthday, we got him a Lego set, which he seemed to like. We would often visit him with his favorite snacks, ask how he was doing, and overall make him feel cared for.

We did that for nearly a year, and that man not only has been ungrateful (at first we thought he just needs time to show emotions), he laughed how annoying we are with his game friends and mocked we keep bothering him with our “nonsense”. He also gifted us nothing back on our birthdays, and we tried to be understanding that perhaps he is shy.

Looking back, it’s sad how naive we were—he didn't need love or attention to be uplifted and encouraged, he was “lonely” because he was an asshole.

Why did we think his heart would soften, his negative thoughts would leave him, and he would begin to trust people more once we showed him continuous love and care? That's a grown-ass man, 30 years of age—his life, as miserable as it seems, is HIS active choice.

Don't believe in male loneliness epidemic propaganda. These men probably have people who care about them deeply—mothers, sisters, whoever—it’s them who do not give a single fuck about them.

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

Why do you assume trans women would behave any differently? If anything they’re more likely to be ones harassing you

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

[theresonlyvoid]

"Why is mom lore horrifying and dad lore chill."

Why aren't you recognizing every women goes through a horrible experience based on their sex. Why can't you realize women are oppressed. Why couldn't you understand the closest women(your mom) you are in contact with is every women's experience even if the scale differs⁉️

[smsomah]

Stamps printed in Oman dedicated to cats