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[nightlongnight]

intro

(update April 11. 2026)

This a blog that contains mentions, descriptions and reblogs related to trauma and mental health. I'm not avaible in these moments for social stuff, but I'm very happy with people talking and relating to my post, be yourself in the tags. There won't be anything nsfw, but I still warn you about tw content if you might find that triggering.

I also speak a lot about being sex repulsed and asexuality. I mostly speak about my experience, but this blog is completely supportive of sex repulsed people (whether they identify as ace or not, or if they became sex repulsed due to a trauma). I'd like to say that, while my blog does talk about asexuality, I'm not really interested on any gender debate of any type. I'm simply gonna talk about my experiences, and if it doesn't apply to you then just block.

Keep in mind that the experiences and opinions shown here are my own, and I'm not a replacement of a mental health professional nor do I intent for others to take my word. I'm simply venting and expressing my opinions, you can completely close this blog if you simply don't feel comfortable with it.

I know that my blog has triggering content, so if you are only interested on my ace posts, you can go here: #sex repulsed and #sex repulsed asexual and other similar tags.

You are also free to block me, I'm not forcing anyone to agree with me nor do I pretend to speak for all people who are either sex repulsed or who have trauma. I'm obviously speaking for myself, and I shouldn't shut my opinions just because I'm a minority. So, feel free to block my account if you feel like it. But don't pretend I'm particularly forcing anyone to agree with me or something.

[asexual-chan]

🧡💛🤍🩵💙 !!HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

[asexual-will]

I will asexual-ify any character I want, I will asexualize characters in ways you've never seen before. I Do Not Care. Your fav is a virgin now. They are unfuckable

[sawed-on-shotgun]

being a teenager is basically just half a decade of "ugh I hate myself I hate my life I hate my parents nothing is fair everyone is mean the world is cruel I'm tired of it!! but idk i guess every teenager has this phase and I'll probably grow out of it and understand when I'm older" and getting older and realizing you should have been even angrier and more violent. And then people forget this as soon as they have kids

[denizenhardwick]

sex-repulsed people are fully within our rights to be cranky and blunt about not liking sex and how it's fucking everywhere btw. we shouldn't have to tiptoe around and make sure our phrasing is perfectly squeaky clean because people interpret any criticism of sex and sexualization as puritanism. venting about compulsory sexuality is not purity culture. maybe you could stand to learn a thing or two from us.

[thedreamthieves]

i think one of the worst things the left wing internet ever did was push the idea that oppression is basically a virtue, and being oppressed is a sign of your morality. it has made it like…impossible for some of you to hold the idea that most people are privileged in some ways and oppressed in others. AND a lot of you seem to have it in your mind that terrible people cannot be oppressed, and that oppressed people cannot do terrible things, which is a dangerous rhetoric to hold imo.

[moonprismpower456]

“Reminder that aspecs can still date and love their friends and family” and themselves. And their hobbies, and their passion in life, and the media they consume and their pets and places they like to go and food and drinks they like and in fact they don’t have to subscribe to the idea of “love” at all. You don’t have to date or have friends or family to be a person. You don’t have to fit into what society wants your life to be like to not be a robot. When I complain about aphobes implying that people who don’t date are machines, I’m not just complaining that they devalue platonic or familial love. They’re devaluing the idea of being your own person and thats a type of aphobia people don’t talk about enough. Aspecs can do whatever they want forever and that includes everything.

[frog-on-top-of-a-log]

“Being aromantic and asexual sounds nice. You can skip all of the drama.”

That would be true if society reacted normally to childless single people or anyone else that doesn’t fulfill their expectations of a stereotypical relationship. The way things are now, the drama just comes from a different angle. Amatonormativity is a prison.

[astraltrickster]

one of the worst feelings in fandom is when the canon version of a character is one of your favorites ever but their fanon interpretation is just something you want to dropkick into a dying star and watch it all go supernova hopefully from close enough that it will obliterate you and your memory of what the fandom did to them in the process

[stephexmachina]

when i was a kid i was so mad all the time bc i thought someday i'd have to be somebody's wife i didn't know it was optional. is everybody reminding the young girls in their lives that it's optional.

[stephexmachina]

AND SO IS BEING SOMEBODY'S MOTHER‼️

[valtsv]

if you're an adult behaving immaturely i'm not going to "treat you like a child" about it because i have a lot of respect for children as an oppressed and vulnerable class of people. i will however treat you like an embarrassment. which you are being.

[valtsv]

[emberwritesinsight]

I can understand the rhetoric of "discomfort is not harm" as a way to like, push back on people who think seeing a minority in public is a personal attack, but it gets to a certain point where I'm just like. Okay do you think sexual harassment is bad yes or no

[nightlongnight]

As someone who has been in fandoms since years, I see this type of tweets going viral and I just can't help but roll my eyes because they are clearly dog whistles for grooming children into predatory situations. The fact that this person feels "offended" with children not "admiring them", sounds werid as hell. And adult shouldn't be "needing" the admiration of someone who's decades younger than them.

Children and teenagers shouldn't be on fandoms due to mental health issues, but like or not, they are. And being an "adult fan" doesn't mean you automatically worthy of admiration.

A lot of children get groomed into abuse with this type of mentality, and sadly, a lot of them fall into these "sugarcoated tweets" thinking they'll have the approbation of adults, and guess what? they get manipulated or groomed later.

It doesn't help that most of the replies and these tweets are about grown ass 38 yo adults wishing to "punish children" for not "respecting them" and wishing to hit them with leashes... Adults fantasizing about punching children and minors.

[rory-has-bpd]

all days are the same. i don’t feel alive anymore.

[creaturefeaturecommando]

"Canceling" was also an AAVE term that originally meant "We ain't fucking with this person anymore because they're weird with weird and questionable beliefs" and white people took it and tainted it to mean "You're trying to ruin someone's life, how dare you make someone take accountability for their actions !" like they really thought that saying "Hey this person is racist, maybe you want to think twice before giving them money and support" is a bad thing and that says a lot more about them than it does about us

[wordarttmn]

i may be too woke with this but hear me out:

the concept of "libido" is freudian pseudoscience (psychoanalysis)

and much more importantly

it is a tool of compulsory sexuality used to conflate arousal with desire/attraction/consent

and to pass off sex as a "need".

[wastraffamser]

Saw someone say "fanfic writers/fandom sees a characters aro/ace-ness as an obstacle instead of their sexuality" and yup. that about sums it up