Welcome!
(my ongoing queerplatonic fiction masterpost)
This is a positivity blog for people like me who are idemromantic and/or platoniromantic, and/or relate to similar experiences of having trouble distinguishing between platonic and romantic feelings! There will also be romo aro and aroallo positivity here as that's something I relate to.
Mod info:
Colt/Duck
25 y/o nonbinary genderqueer
uses ze/zir or they/them pronouns
Idemromantic, platoniromantic, aroallo, pansexual
General info:
Why highlight both idemromantic and platoniromantic?
I don't do this to conflate the two. It also isn't to label an idemromantic person as platoniromantic or vice versa. It's simply because I identify with both and noticed that both lack solidarity, content, and general chatter :) I want to gather information and positivity here, and maybe create some myself.
I also don't conflate these identities with romo aro, romance favorable, etc.; I just also relate to that so you will see it here too.
Isn't platoniromantic the same thing as quoiromantic?
As far as I know, the original coiner of quoiromantic intended it to mean that romantic attraction is not applicable, nonsensical, etc. The definition that quoiromantic is a difficulty distinguishing between attraction came later. Regardless of how quoi is used now, it doesn't precisely describe my experiences and I don't relate to its focus on confusion/wtf/what. I much more relate to platoniromantic!
So are quoi and platoni the same? Idk, I just know they aren't the same for me!
What goes on this blog?
Positivity! Art, affirmations, discussion, and general community.
I'm questioning, can you help me?
Sorry, but I'm not comfortable labelling or guiding someone. All of my answers would boil down to "identity is complicated and you should use a term if it helps you," and I don't want to even remotely pretend I'm an authority of any kind. Thanks for understanding!
Thanks for stopping by, and I hope you enjoy your stay! <3













